Anothermoomin · Today 08:11
Are you saying there are no Working Class Mothers that could tutor their children to pass the 11+.! That, is what you are effectively saying, I think what you are trying to say is you don't think a Working Class Mother would have the access to the materials required to aid in particular Dyslexic Children. However, what you should have said, you do not think a family who do not value education, or had particular success in education could tutor a child to pass the 11+. This is a totally different thing than saying in a blanket way that a ' Working Class Mother' could not tutor a Dyslexic Child to pass an 11+.
The term 'Working Class' is also a subjective term, what actually is Working Class and what defines it. ! I know a number of very wealthy people with little or basic qualifications. Therefore, is a lack of level 3-6 Educational outcomes one defining characteristic of being working class, though at least two I know are Multi- Millionaire's but on their Boats, in St- Tropez still define themselves as Working Class . What you should have said of course is that it is very difficult if you and your family are in difficult 'Socio Economic' Circumstances to prioritise a child's educational opportunities. I admit in my circumstances a Skilled educator was required, to teach me the skills required to pass the 11+. However, that does not mean every 'Bright Child' from difficult circumstances, needs a skilled educator just a desire to help their child achieve can be enough.
Socially, I belonged at the Grammar School, thus it was absolutely correct that my Mother did her utmost to get me admitted. Children belong in certain schools not just academically, but just as importantly Socially. This is a big thing in the Independent sector, its whether the child fits the school. I absolutely fitted the Grammar School, even if I was near the bottom and got some 'ribbing' from some girls about my twin taking the 11+. The ribbing helped a sensitive 'ASD' child understand, you will face personal hardships or difficulties get over it. The culture of the school and pupil make up, is why i made it to University. Another school I would have just drifted and like I previously said left education without any Level 3 qualifications. So probably could have defined myself as 'Working Class'.
The final point is a child should be able to attend the right school for them, if a child is of Grammar School ability, why should they not be able to go to one. You would say a number of things : 1. The Child had a Prep School Education, 2. The Family are Affluent thus have access to agency such as tutoring and the list goes on as to why Grammar Schools are unfair. In life some people have more luck than others more money or are just better at some things therefore can access better Services or Products accept that fact !