Hi guys! English is not my first language so i hope u guys can be nice :)
so the thing is that my sister is very serious when it comes to wishlist (birthdays and Christmas) for her kids one is soon 6 and the other is 11 years old, my youngest nephew’s birtdhay is coming about a month and my sister always makes wishlists with dif stuff but mostly over 40$ and little on 20$ and even expensive legos and bed sheets n stuff.
And she made
an thing on facebook event to invite friends where she put a wish list in the facebook event wich wasnt the baddest one but 3 days later she sendt me message «timmy would really wish one of those big plushies u have as a birthday gift😁» i know its a wish but i feel its different when i get to decide a gift to him instead og my sister kinda ordering and «try to choose « what i should give him.
I wasn’t thinking of spending that much on a gift because im saving for other stuff ect travels, house. But ofc id buy him something i know hed like. She does same for chritsmas to try to ask/nag me if imma buy them that or that bcs she prob order it before they sell out. And to say i have a daughter aswell and i never try to push wishlists on people like that, i may write some hints because they ask for it but more where they feel free to choose whatever they feel like. But my sister is more like that she wants to make SURE they get exactly what they wish for. And idk if im being unreasonable but i find it kinda exhausting to be honest.