So I need opinions on something I (F 44) found by accident to get some perspective and general consensus.
So DH (55) asked for some help on his account on Tik Tok so I had his phone which was logged into his account. I wasn’t snooping - I was trying to figure out something to do with editing his account.
Flicking between pages, I noticed he had a coins balance so I clicked on it and saw he had purchased 350 coins with a balance of 44 remaining. I have since figured out he bought a package of 350 coins which come with some free roses - which are apparently digital gifts for online content creators.
Looking at his spending history, I then spotted that he had given coins/roses to female content creators - these were attractive young women whose posts involved posing in revealing clothing and swimwear. Admittedly he had also spent coins on creators posting content connected to his hobbies which are run of the mill.
I was really upset after seeing this and want to see how many others would also feel this way or if this is quite normal and I am being completely unreasonable. I didn’t even know about coins/roses etc. before I found them on his account so I’m prepared to be told this is normal.
So what’s the feeling amongst the wise Mumsnet community?