I have always got on with my neighbour who lives a few a doors down.
I have babysat one of her kids and also looked after her cat when she goes on holiday.
She does have a mean girl vibe about her though and she does have a habit of talking about others.
I asked her to do look after my cats and do my bins whilst I was away with DC and she happily agreed.
Whilst I was loading the car I overheard and another neighbour complaining about me calling on my cats every night.
Convo was like
Neighbour 1 "Did you hear her yelling for her cats again?"
Neighbour who is looking after my cats "I heard it but went back to bed".
Neigbour 2 "I can't believe how her neighbours haven't said anything, it's every effing night, literally by their next door neighbours windows every night, literally, I am absolutely sick of it, wakes me up every effing night".
Neighbour who is looking after my cats "Yeah I know as it's as the back it is really loud."
I popped my head up from the passenger seat and they stopped talking.
For reference Neigbour 2 would regularly
play her music at for hours on end so it was ironic hearing her complain about me. I also helped her with her gardening.
I feel this is very 2 faced and want to step back and wondering why they didn't approach me directly instead of talking about me.?
AIBU to not talk to them when I get back of holiday?
I do suffer from anxiety so not sure if I am over reacting here.
AIBU