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AIBU to question Reform's plan to prioritise married couples for social housing?

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QueenSophia · 24/08/2026 14:01

Reform have proposed to prioritise social housing for various groups : 'Rules would be changed to reserve at least half of all social homes in England for British-born workers aged under 35, with prioritisation also given to married couples, veterans, victims of domestic violence and care leavers.'

I agree with DV victims, those with children, care leavers : veterans are also at high risk of homelessness. But why prioritise married couples over single people? I'm not convinced that's fair. I assume it's to encourage marriage which is a good aim but I'm not convinced if this is the right decision.

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Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:14

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:11

You mentioned OWNED homes which is what i was responding to

Yeah I mentioned owners and private renters not just owners

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:14

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:08

We dont think we are the only ones Labour thought private renters were the only ones though. The petition during the 2015 election about these matters only included private renters

As they should, private renters typically have less disposable income than council dwellers because their rents higher. That means less money for sorting things out themselves little things like buying tumble dryers instead of hanging clothes everywhere which causes damp. Etc

I only ever see council people bitching they have it harder than everyone else and acting like all owners and private renters are rich. Instead of appreciating their cheap rent if it’s that bad come live privately without having us subsidise your rent

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:11

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:06

Hate to break it to you but yeah people renting flats privately can have that too. While paying a lot more money. I have no idea why council tenants think they’re the only ones that get mould and other property issues.

You mentioned OWNED homes which is what i was responding to

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:09

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:06

Im not against fire proofing but turning a place into a sweat box is bad for health It was 41c in here.

Heat stroke isnt feeling just a little hot and sweaty It can kill

This isn’t a unique thing to council homes. My mother and the man I mentioned earlier don’t have this and they rent socially in fact their homes were cooler than mine this summer. Mainly due to the way they faced the sun.
And there are private renters and owners who have what you mentioned in their block of flats.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:08

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:06

Hate to break it to you but yeah people renting flats privately can have that too. While paying a lot more money. I have no idea why council tenants think they’re the only ones that get mould and other property issues.

We dont think we are the only ones Labour thought private renters were the only ones though. The petition during the 2015 election about these matters only included private renters

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 15:07

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:54

Ok it may as well be free at that point though. If you lived where I live you’d know what an extreme bargain that is. This man is in his fifties he spent most of his adulthood taking drugs and drinking he’s barely worked his whole life. Now he has his own little place for less than 100 a week which is paid by UC. Can also tell you’ve never private rented or had a mortgage or you’d know how easy you have it.
Hard working young families bust their balls every month to pay their private rent or mortgage just to see on facebook council tenants swapping their super cheap homes like Pokémon cards and demanding the council fix the hole their son punched in the wall.

So he is charged rent. Great, that's what we were trying to establish. It took a while but we got there in the end.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:06

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 15:04

Oh no how dare the council fire proof your home between other flats 🤦‍♀️

Im not against fire proofing but turning a place into a sweat box is bad for health It was 41c in here.

Heat stroke isnt feeling just a little hot and sweaty It can kill

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:06

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:01

Gosh yes because owned homes are forced to have black cladding window restrictors and a front door thats a fire door with no gaps so no ventilation And someone also turned up at yours with no notice and felled a tree that was providing shading because they couldnt be bothered to come back and trim branches once in a blue moon

Yep its the same 🙄

Hate to break it to you but yeah people renting flats privately can have that too. While paying a lot more money. I have no idea why council tenants think they’re the only ones that get mould and other property issues.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:04

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:03

Why would home owners be on a home swapper fb group

Comes up in my feed even though I’m not in any of the groups. I’ve had other people say it comes up in their feed too algorithm seems to push it

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 15:04

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:01

Gosh yes because owned homes are forced to have black cladding window restrictors and a front door thats a fire door with no gaps so no ventilation And someone also turned up at yours with no notice and felled a tree that was providing shading because they couldnt be bothered to come back and trim branches once in a blue moon

Yep its the same 🙄

Oh no how dare the council fire proof your home between other flats 🤦‍♀️

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:03

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:54

Ok it may as well be free at that point though. If you lived where I live you’d know what an extreme bargain that is. This man is in his fifties he spent most of his adulthood taking drugs and drinking he’s barely worked his whole life. Now he has his own little place for less than 100 a week which is paid by UC. Can also tell you’ve never private rented or had a mortgage or you’d know how easy you have it.
Hard working young families bust their balls every month to pay their private rent or mortgage just to see on facebook council tenants swapping their super cheap homes like Pokémon cards and demanding the council fix the hole their son punched in the wall.

Why would home owners be on a home swapper fb group

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:01

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:57

You think private rented and owned homes didn’t get hot this summer too 😂😂
All while paying three to four times as much money as that.

Gosh yes because owned homes are forced to have black cladding window restrictors and a front door thats a fire door with no gaps so no ventilation And someone also turned up at yours with no notice and felled a tree that was providing shading because they couldnt be bothered to come back and trim branches once in a blue moon

Yep its the same 🙄

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:57

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:53

A social housing flat in the south east Well if his flat gets up to the temps that mine does he will have paid for it in pure sweat this summer as well as the £100

You think private rented and owned homes didn’t get hot this summer too 😂😂
All while paying three to four times as much money as that.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:54

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:48

You gave the rent amount. You've proved that housing is not free by telling us it's £100 a week.

Ok it may as well be free at that point though. If you lived where I live you’d know what an extreme bargain that is. This man is in his fifties he spent most of his adulthood taking drugs and drinking he’s barely worked his whole life. Now he has his own little place for less than 100 a week which is paid by UC. Can also tell you’ve never private rented or had a mortgage or you’d know how easy you have it.
Hard working young families bust their balls every month to pay their private rent or mortgage just to see on facebook council tenants swapping their super cheap homes like Pokémon cards and demanding the council fix the hole their son punched in the wall.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:53

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:44

As I said:

Would you say this is free:
man I know in his fifties unemployed (long term) actually has his own council flat despite being single and childless (surprise surprise for the people who think single men don’t get council homes) his rent is straight up less than £100 a week (so less than £400 a month) we live in the south east btw.
And universal credit pays that for him.
No health issues btw

That’s free in every way except on paper. Can tell you’ve never had a mortgage or private rented or even considered either of those if you think less than 400 a month rent (in the south east) is in anyway a big deal 👌🏻

A social housing flat in the south east Well if his flat gets up to the temps that mine does he will have paid for it in pure sweat this summer as well as the £100

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:48

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:44

As I said:

Would you say this is free:
man I know in his fifties unemployed (long term) actually has his own council flat despite being single and childless (surprise surprise for the people who think single men don’t get council homes) his rent is straight up less than £100 a week (so less than £400 a month) we live in the south east btw.
And universal credit pays that for him.
No health issues btw

That’s free in every way except on paper. Can tell you’ve never had a mortgage or private rented or even considered either of those if you think less than 400 a month rent (in the south east) is in anyway a big deal 👌🏻

You gave the rent amount. You've proved that housing is not free by telling us it's £100 a week.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:47

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:46

No such thing as free housing.

See my above comment

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:46

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:37

I think everyone should be responsible for their own place exceptions being young people who’ve just left foster care or disabled people with no family.
But if we are going to have council houses of course people with kids will be prioritised because kids are more vulnerable than adults. Being homeless by yourself is a different league from being homeless while having little kids to look after it dosent take much imagination to know that.
The sheer entitlement of demanding a free place as an able bodied individual with no dependents.

No such thing as free housing.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:44

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:40

its not free

As I said:

Would you say this is free:
man I know in his fifties unemployed (long term) actually has his own council flat despite being single and childless (surprise surprise for the people who think single men don’t get council homes) his rent is straight up less than £100 a week (so less than £400 a month) we live in the south east btw.
And universal credit pays that for him.
No health issues btw

That’s free in every way except on paper. Can tell you’ve never had a mortgage or private rented or even considered either of those if you think less than 400 a month rent (in the south east) is in anyway a big deal 👌🏻

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:44

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:20

Yes but a homeless mother with two kids would have the added worry that something like that could happen to her kids.

I very much doubt that the imaginary Reform government t are going to be able to force through such changes to homelessness legislation that women with children would be on the streets anyway. I include in that their hateful and delusional rantings about evicting non- UK born tenants. It's pie in the sky. I think we should stick to reality here.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:40

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:37

I think everyone should be responsible for their own place exceptions being young people who’ve just left foster care or disabled people with no family.
But if we are going to have council houses of course people with kids will be prioritised because kids are more vulnerable than adults. Being homeless by yourself is a different league from being homeless while having little kids to look after it dosent take much imagination to know that.
The sheer entitlement of demanding a free place as an able bodied individual with no dependents.

its not free

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:38

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 12:30

Would you say this is free:
man I know in his fifties unemployed (long term) actually has his own council flat despite being single and childless (surprise surprise for the people who think single men don’t get council homes) his rent is straight up less than £100 a week (so less than £400 a month) we live in the south east btw.
And universal credit pays that for him.

No health issues btw

It costs money? It's not free.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:37

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:33

So you DO think people deserve less just because they dont have living proof that they have had sex without contraception.

I think everyone should be responsible for their own place exceptions being young people who’ve just left foster care or disabled people with no family.
But if we are going to have council houses of course people with kids will be prioritised because kids are more vulnerable than adults. Being homeless by yourself is a different league from being homeless while having little kids to look after it dosent take much imagination to know that.
The sheer entitlement of demanding a free place as an able bodied individual with no dependents.

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 14:36

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:33

So you DO think people deserve less just because they dont have living proof that they have had sex without contraception.

I would say the vast majority of people think those on low incomes with minor aged children in their care should be higher priority than an able bodied single person. No idea why you’re making that sound so outlandish or unreasonable.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:33

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:30

Yeah they should that’s right. But I went on to say especially people who don’t have kids or disabilities or care leavers. Absolutely no excuses there. But still all I see is grown men claiming it’s unfair all the teen mums get council houses (we don’t) and they should get one too.

Absolutely no excuse for Richard age 43 to go get a job and buy or rent his own place.

So you DO think people deserve less just because they dont have living proof that they have had sex without contraception.

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