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Do you agree with school absence fines?

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Dreamyseptember · 24/08/2026 10:43

I honestly don’t have a strong opinion either way. I work term time so I can only go away in the school holidays anyway, plus I’ve never been keen on mine missing school.

However, I can totally understand why for many people they want to go on holiday during term time. A family holiday can be a magical experience, visiting somewhere new, spending proper time together, experiencing new things, getting away from the daily grind. And for many this would be unaffordable in the school holidays. The other thing is that parents can’t always get the time off work.

I do think it’s important for children to attend school, I know they missing large chunks at school can mean them falling behind, miss out on learning as well as time with friends.

But tbh, I know people whose children missing large chunks school frequently anyway. Any sniffle, tired day, weather too hot or too cold and the parents are ringing them on sick. There are other children who attend 100% of the time and is one week away for a family holiday, possibly at a time of year when learning is wrapping up anyway, going to really make that much difference.

When I was at school in the 80s/90s it was quite normal for children to disappear for 2 weeks for a holiday abroad and no one batted an eyelid.

I’m sure that there are lots of arguments either way but do you think it’s right and fair that parents are fined for taking their children on holiday during term time?

Yabu - the fines are correct
Yanbu - it should be the parents decision

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ShetlandishMum · 24/08/2026 10:52

No. I don't agree and I enjoy we relocated to a country with less strick ideas in this.

LumpkinPumpkin · 24/08/2026 10:51

All that fines mean is that poor kids have less opportunities to go abroad. Wealthier families will just factor the cost of a fine into their holiday budget.

I doubt it makes much difference to attendance or attainment generally. There is much more to life than rote learning the national curriculum.

Dreamyseptember · 24/08/2026 10:51

hool attendance fines have shown little to no meaningful positive impact on overall attendance rates while actively harming family wellbeing. Despite record numbers of penalty notices issued across England—with first-offence fines increasing to £80—overall attendance has not recovered to pre-pandemic levels. 1, 2, 3]
Impact on Attendance

  • Minimal statistical change: Higher penalty costs have yielded negligible shifts in national attendance averages.
  • Ignored root causes: Most unauthorized absences linked to persistent non-attendance stem from anxiety, mental health needs, special educational needs and disabilities (SEND), or family poverty.
  • Misdirected focus: The vast majority of fines target term-time holidays rather than addressing complex, chronic school refusal.

Google tells me the above.

Fines for term-time holidays are at record levels – this will further erode trust between parents and schools

Fines for parents whose children take unauthorised holiday have risen from £60 to £80.

https://theconversation.com/fines-for-term-time-holidays-are-at-record-levels-this-will-further-erode-trust-between-parents-and-schools-249085

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pearlsclutchedhard · 24/08/2026 10:49

It should be the parents decision in my opinion but I also understand the importance of school, more so for those in secondary. I think as long as the child’s attendance is ok overall it doesn’t hurt, however, if holiday companies didn’t hike their prices up I don’t think this would be an issue. Granted some people don’t want to go abroad in 40 degree heat in the height of summer.

If you home educate you can do as you please, and I don’t believe private schools fine (correct me if I am wrong).

Before they cracked down on the fines my daughter’s high school didn’t fine, my child who had just turned 5 did get a fine which is ludicrous to me.

Dreamyseptember · 24/08/2026 10:49

muddyford · 24/08/2026 10:47

A better way would be three strikes and child loses school place . Either one child going in holiday in term time three times or three children once.

How would that help children?

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muddyford · 24/08/2026 10:47

A better way would be three strikes and child loses school place . Either one child going in holiday in term time three times or three children once.

Dreamyseptember · 24/08/2026 10:47

Id be interested to know if there is any evidence to show whether school fines have made much of an impact on attendance, and also whether they have had any impact on academic results and children’s wellbeing.

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