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Everyday phrases that piss me off

218 replies

Thecatspantaloons · 23/08/2026 18:57

As the title goes , a couple of examples:

It only costs xxx - What an incredibly ignorant thing to say in this day and age of mass inequality. On any given day there's a bullshit thread on here comparing pension plans and the amount of hundreds of thousands people have saved compared to the ones who have nothing saved.

Well I've never seen/heard that before - well Jackie, I've never seen anyone abuse a wheelchair user or a trans person or a Jewish person in my own life, but I believe that it happens, despite my not witnessing it.

Feel free to rant about other stuff that people are willfully oblivious to.

OP posts:
Madamefroufrou · 24/08/2026 11:45

can you just pop up on here for me

pop - to the shops/of colour/into the oven/air fryer/washer

’for me’ - most prevalent in a medical setting of gp reception,
hospital departments, physiotherapists especially!
nurses, any outpatients department or dentists chair

also last week in a charity shop, required to ‘pop it
back on the shelf for me’

grab. now ubiquitous but still aggressive, eg grab a coffee

“Will you be in all day, love?”

  • extraordinary approach by contractor presumably expecting payment in a formalised work/pay situation (this is not a new annoying phrase)

you do you - insolence disguised as advice

we have these threads regularly, enabling us to see the current,
fading or thankfully, on the way out teeth-on-edge banal sayings

Oh bless!
Magic!
you’re a Star!

seem to be fading, but how quickly they are superceded

HelpMeGetThrough · 24/08/2026 11:41

The pretentious shit you see on here about clothes. “What pieces have you bought this summer?”. Fuck off!!!

Just ask “what clothes”.

MummyOre · 24/08/2026 11:35

Chin up...
Can't really explain why but it annoys the shit out of me!

ShortAndIntense · 24/08/2026 11:35

“Point blank” as in “she point blank refused to do it” 🫠🫠🫠 stfu!!!!

Kopfkino · 24/08/2026 11:30

“When life hands you lemons make lemonade”

Seriously, WTF?

So, something really bad happened, and you are going to put on a fake smile and pretend it’s all great.

How about you cut those lemons in half, wrestle the person who upset you to the ground, and squeeze them in their eyes?

That’d make me feel better 😜

Gettingbysomehow · 24/08/2026 11:14

MyDogHumpsThings · 24/08/2026 09:05

Singular terms for plurals, e.g.: pair your nice cardigan with a linen trouser and a low-heeled shoe. So pretentious.

”Lame” as a pejorative.

”Yeah yeah yeah” instead of yes. Typically pronounced “Yi-yi-yeah”. Sounds very dismissive and seems more common in S/SE.

So Im not the only one who just wears one shoe and half a pair of trousers 😂

Gettingbysomehow · 24/08/2026 11:12

Mapletreelane · 24/08/2026 07:31

I agree and also would add "I'm fuming" !

Im fuming just reading this 😂

MyDogHumpsThings · 24/08/2026 09:09

BreatheAndFocus · 24/08/2026 07:58

The phrase “a gentle reminder” when it’s just a simple reminder about Parents Evening or whatever.

”Good job” instead of Well Done. This one really winds me up!

Calling young boys “Buddy”. Absolutely cringeworthy, along with “My little man”.

Using “protest” without a following word, eg “I’m going to protest Andy Burnham”. Jarring Americanism.

”On the weekend” instead of “At the weekend”.

On the weekend! Like “on Christmas” - it’s meaningless! It’s either “on Christmas Day” or “at Christmas”.

MyDogHumpsThings · 24/08/2026 09:05

Singular terms for plurals, e.g.: pair your nice cardigan with a linen trouser and a low-heeled shoe. So pretentious.

”Lame” as a pejorative.

”Yeah yeah yeah” instead of yes. Typically pronounced “Yi-yi-yeah”. Sounds very dismissive and seems more common in S/SE.

Evaka · 24/08/2026 08:56

Sourced for bought
Crafted for made
Popped for went
Curated for... I don't even know

Nonsense phrases for basic bell ends.

Thepeopleversuswork · 24/08/2026 08:50

BEAchDays2 · 24/08/2026 08:30

‘Run’ on here, in response to even the most trivial of male bad behaviour in a relationship. Completely infantilising, and absolutely weird.

I disagree. I think “run” is probably underused.

A useful corrective for “could he be depressed/neurodiverse?” When he cheated then went on a five day bender.

muddyford · 24/08/2026 08:45

People saying they've smashed it.
Passing for dying. Passed on is OK, passing is for exams.
'Does that makes sense?' at the end of every sentence. No, explain it again. Every time.

CarpetSlipper · 24/08/2026 08:42

Using “If you see what I mean” at the end of a sentence.

“Big time”.

Saying everything they like is “insane” .

NestaVipaz · 24/08/2026 08:35

”One of the only”, What the fuck does it even mean? Is it the only one, or one of very few? Arrant nonsense.

MyPantsAreFartCentral · 24/08/2026 08:34

dontforgetme · 23/08/2026 23:51

You’ve got this.
🤮

Especially when followed with a 💪

BEAchDays2 · 24/08/2026 08:30

‘Run’ on here, in response to even the most trivial of male bad behaviour in a relationship. Completely infantilising, and absolutely weird.

purplegrinch · 24/08/2026 08:30

Also agreeing with curated. Apparently by various ear piercings and earrings I wear are now curated. No they are not.

ShannonMacFarland · 24/08/2026 08:30

I've known several people who misuse "mortified" to mean "very angry".

purplegrinch · 24/08/2026 08:28

I work in social care.

I get so annoyed when people ask for ‘rest bite’ when they mean respite. Even GPs do it!

Also, the way we talk in social care - ‘the person mobilised’ is quite othering.

Non social care related… touching base, reaching out, superpower (for anything but especially SEN) and ‘do you eat fish?’ to the vegan.

MargaretMeldrew · 24/08/2026 08:25

Lentilcakes · 24/08/2026 07:48

I say ‘can I have a latte please’ - I think that’s fine.

Then you’re handed your drink - thanks’. i also hate ‘can I get’ - so rude to my ears. Why can’t you say ‘can I please get?’ Add that little word to make a difference.

I always say please, usually at the end, as in your example. But I was talking about the expressions ‘can I get?’ and ‘can I have?’ in isolation. ‘Can I get/have a pot of tea (please)?’ The word please wasn’t mentioned because that wasn’t the point I was making. It was primarily the replacement of ‘may’ with ‘can’ and the use of ‘get’. We’re actually very polite in general to one another in NI. Also, I don’t automatically think the absence of ‘please’ is a sign of rudeness because tone is very important. A pleasant, friendly tone can often convey that particular social nicety. I prefer to use it myself though. ‘Thank you’, on the other hand, is compulsory as far as I’m concerned!

Mindblowing · 24/08/2026 08:18

‘I’m afraid’ as in ‘I am afraid we have no tomato soup left’ or ‘I’m afraid the dentist is off sick today and cannot see you’.

Infuriating. ‘Sorry’ is the word you are looking for.

Gowlett · 24/08/2026 08:15

Stock up on XYZ. The shops will be urging us to stock up for Christmas soon. For one day!

FrostyMorn · 24/08/2026 08:07

When people ask about a relationship problem (sometimes a serious one) and the response is just 'Run!'/'Run for the hills!' with nothing else. It seems to be the new expression to use but it's trite and clichéd in my view!

QuirkyHorse · 24/08/2026 08:02

Ick.

Thepeopleversuswork · 24/08/2026 08:02

DreamingOfGeneHunt · 24/08/2026 07:56

"Curated" for me as well. A café near where I work has it three times on the same noticeboard. Curated local honey. Curated cheese. Curated local sourdough.
It looks delicious through the window but I can't bring myself to go in.

Yeah curated can fuck off.