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AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results

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Sidedoors · 23/08/2026 16:09

Private school GCSE decline.

What happened? Is this an example of what’s to come?

Fees are rising well beyond inflation annually yet, results are in decline.

State schools prioritising, ‘reserving seats’ in house for 6th Form. Risky investment?

https://schoolsweek.co.uk/gcse-results-day-2026-6-key-trends-from-this-years-data/

AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
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bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:25

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:17

What I find particularly interesting in these multiple very similar threads is that apparently 1/3 of families are effectively stealing non means tested bursaries due to being friends or relatives of teachers when they are extremely well off and don’t need a discount, yet simultaneously the (presumably same) 1/3 of families are completely impoverished and dressed in rags.

Perhaps both of these theories are a little extreme and fee remissions are spread more evenly for a broader range of scenarios? Just a thought.

All tiered fees should be abolished ALL

Bursary funds should be strictly means tested for those assessed as gifted.

This would also quash all “charitable status” debate, which I’m sure will be the next scandal to hit the independent school sector.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:22

Slightyamusedandsilly · 28/08/2026 09:15

No, they haven't. But private schools DO pick the board with the greatest likelihood of achieving the best grade. E.g. do CIE internatinal English rather than AQA.

What is the difference between IGCSE and GCSE someone suggested private use IGCSE as it’s more “coursework” therefore they can have a greater hand in outcome.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:21

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:17

What I find particularly interesting in these multiple very similar threads is that apparently 1/3 of families are effectively stealing non means tested bursaries due to being friends or relatives of teachers when they are extremely well off and don’t need a discount, yet simultaneously the (presumably same) 1/3 of families are completely impoverished and dressed in rags.

Perhaps both of these theories are a little extreme and fee remissions are spread more evenly for a broader range of scenarios? Just a thought.

ONE THIRD is a huge number!

And growing, I’m sure there is a mix of both demographic!!!

nowimabeliever · 28/08/2026 09:20

Dooferer · 23/08/2026 16:32

Parents don’t aways send kids to private schools for grades. You know that don’t you? It’s a much more enriching experience. They come out of it much happier and more confident. That probably helps them more in future life than being a few grades higher in a few subjects.

Hmmm I went to one of the top private schools in the UK. Nearly everyone got straight As, but it was a hotbed of anorexia and self-harm.

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:17

What I find particularly interesting in these multiple very similar threads is that apparently 1/3 of families are effectively stealing non means tested bursaries due to being friends or relatives of teachers when they are extremely well off and don’t need a discount, yet simultaneously the (presumably same) 1/3 of families are completely impoverished and dressed in rags.

Perhaps both of these theories are a little extreme and fee remissions are spread more evenly for a broader range of scenarios? Just a thought.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 28/08/2026 09:15

Sidedoors · 23/08/2026 17:13

All exams have become easier.

Its the comparison overall between state/independent where the gap continues to narrow.

No, they haven't. But private schools DO pick the board with the greatest likelihood of achieving the best grade. E.g. do CIE internatinal English rather than AQA.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:12

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 09:01

had a chuckle about that first paragraph - that is definitely me raiding the lost property, and my kids wear their kit until they outgrow it or it falls from their bodies (if they don’t lose it first). We definitely arent a hardship case, not do we get any discounts

I’m talking about the attire of many children outside of the school gates. The wealth divide is becoming obvious WITHIN independent schools. Many things are “going missing” as children going-without are forced to sit in environments where many others have abundance. Things are going “missing” on a daily basis. Parents are talking and complaining!

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:07

Other families may have different experiences.

As for technology and AI this can be accessed at home so why pay the expensive school running costs?

If we’re moving to elite education = technology surely wealthy children will access in their homes then meet up at global enrichment opportunities for co curricular? Bypassing need to pay staff, operating costs which take up the entire revenue budget at current independent schools. Efficiency in education and global enrichment (for those who can afford without any subsidy) surely, if anything, that is the future educational divide.

Wealthy families seeking efficiency and opportunity on a global platform with other wealthy international families.

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 09:01

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:49

Many children of the struggling middle classes at private schools. The kids pointing out “he’s worn that same top for two years” many families constantly raiding the lost property bins. Items never seeming to make their way back to rightful owners.

If you are in the circle you will see the struggle of the squeezed middle. This squeezed middle are the bread and butter of regional independents.

Do not minimise the dire financial situation at independent schools. It’s that fraud that I absolutely do not agree with! They must gain hold of their runaway fee assistance before next year, if it increases those figures will speak for themselves.

had a chuckle about that first paragraph - that is definitely me raiding the lost property, and my kids wear their kit until they outgrow it or it falls from their bodies (if they don’t lose it first). We definitely arent a hardship case, not do we get any discounts

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:01

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:59

Why would I give personal information on MN!

Families do you resonate with uniform and expensive items sports kit and gear, constantly “going missing” from within private schools. It’s a running commentary with our mums.

Ah ok, so you’re a private school parent and at your school the children are dressed in rags?

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:00

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 08:48

As explained many times, the existence of bursaries and discounts has nothing to do with financial health of the school - if anything it is the opposite for the most competitive schools who use it to secure top talent. I know one family heading to boarding school this year on a significant reduction in fees because child is ranked top 10 nationally for their sport. Family had fully funded private education since reception for multiple children (and continue to do so) so definitely not a hardship situation- school just have a reputation for this sport and are using fee reduction as a mechanism to secure top talent.

The technology question is more interesting. If anything I see it increasing the premium placed on private education and a more personal and sometimes more traditional approach to learning. In terms of tech adoption, private schools are well ahead of state :https://www.suttontrust.com/news-opinion/all-news-opinion/state-schools-falling-behind-in-new-ai-digital-divide/

This is just another way independent schools are becoming irrelevant.

https://news.sky.com/story/uks-first-teacherless-ai-classroom-set-to-open-in-london-13200637

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:59

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 08:52

So you can’t give any actual examples then?

Why would I give personal information on MN!

Families do you resonate with uniform and expensive items sports kit and gear, constantly “going missing” from within private schools. It’s a running commentary with our mums.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:55

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 08:48

As explained many times, the existence of bursaries and discounts has nothing to do with financial health of the school - if anything it is the opposite for the most competitive schools who use it to secure top talent. I know one family heading to boarding school this year on a significant reduction in fees because child is ranked top 10 nationally for their sport. Family had fully funded private education since reception for multiple children (and continue to do so) so definitely not a hardship situation- school just have a reputation for this sport and are using fee reduction as a mechanism to secure top talent.

The technology question is more interesting. If anything I see it increasing the premium placed on private education and a more personal and sometimes more traditional approach to learning. In terms of tech adoption, private schools are well ahead of state :https://www.suttontrust.com/news-opinion/all-news-opinion/state-schools-falling-behind-in-new-ai-digital-divide/

You’re sharing old conservative problems,

Labour have already actioned this plan

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/no-child-left-behind-in-plans-to-narrow-the-digital-divide-in-education

No child left behind in plans to narrow the digital divide in education

Consultation launched on plans to make digital standards a requirement for all schools, alongside £45 million investment to improve connectivity

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/no-child-left-behind-in-plans-to-narrow-the-digital-divide-in-education

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:53

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 08:48

As explained many times, the existence of bursaries and discounts has nothing to do with financial health of the school - if anything it is the opposite for the most competitive schools who use it to secure top talent. I know one family heading to boarding school this year on a significant reduction in fees because child is ranked top 10 nationally for their sport. Family had fully funded private education since reception for multiple children (and continue to do so) so definitely not a hardship situation- school just have a reputation for this sport and are using fee reduction as a mechanism to secure top talent.

The technology question is more interesting. If anything I see it increasing the premium placed on private education and a more personal and sometimes more traditional approach to learning. In terms of tech adoption, private schools are well ahead of state :https://www.suttontrust.com/news-opinion/all-news-opinion/state-schools-falling-behind-in-new-ai-digital-divide/

State school families who push academia have devices and tutors readily available at home.

They send their children to school currently to be taught, by qualified teachers. In person. They could pay for online schooling or AI school instead of private school.

Of course the disadvantaged of society will suffer but this has no impact on everyone else.

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 08:52

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:49

Many children of the struggling middle classes at private schools. The kids pointing out “he’s worn that same top for two years” many families constantly raiding the lost property bins. Items never seeming to make their way back to rightful owners.

If you are in the circle you will see the struggle of the squeezed middle. This squeezed middle are the bread and butter of regional independents.

Do not minimise the dire financial situation at independent schools. It’s that fraud that I absolutely do not agree with! They must gain hold of their runaway fee assistance before next year, if it increases those figures will speak for themselves.

So you can’t give any actual examples then?

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:49

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 08:42

Perhaps families at private schools - and indeed state schools - want to make their own decisions about what’s best for their child’s education?

Which children are dressed in rags? Which schools do they attend?

Many children of the struggling middle classes at private schools. The kids pointing out “he’s worn that same top for two years” many families constantly raiding the lost property bins. Items never seeming to make their way back to rightful owners.

If you are in the circle you will see the struggle of the squeezed middle. This squeezed middle are the bread and butter of regional independents.

Do not minimise the dire financial situation at independent schools. It’s that fraud that I absolutely do not agree with! They must gain hold of their runaway fee assistance before next year, if it increases those figures will speak for themselves.

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 08:48

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:13

If that theory were true the support schools issue would be non existent (as the wealthy can afford the provision) the tiered system removed and all wealthy families would be happy with standard of provision and paying the exact same Fee.

Thats not happening as there is simply not that level of wealth in UK. The wealthy can move to international schools and wait out the current dire situation. If things improve they’ll being their children back but, they’ll not have them sitting economising, making do.

Of your theory is correct next years financial records will show that bar means tested bursary for the gifted all other discounts and fee assistance has been abolished…. They will level down if they continue this unsustainable model into next financial year as we’re all watching the finance.

We talk on time,

Labour do have time to make changes and level up.

But for the education sector on a whole time is a luxury.

The advancement of AI and technology forward thinking wealthy families looking at the best way to educate their children, efficiently. When you have the funds to secure academics plus enrichment (on a global level). Technologically advanced options may well become the new “elite” provision. Where the pool of students become an ‘international’ school body of the wealthy who study online and meet for global enrichment.

As explained many times, the existence of bursaries and discounts has nothing to do with financial health of the school - if anything it is the opposite for the most competitive schools who use it to secure top talent. I know one family heading to boarding school this year on a significant reduction in fees because child is ranked top 10 nationally for their sport. Family had fully funded private education since reception for multiple children (and continue to do so) so definitely not a hardship situation- school just have a reputation for this sport and are using fee reduction as a mechanism to secure top talent.

The technology question is more interesting. If anything I see it increasing the premium placed on private education and a more personal and sometimes more traditional approach to learning. In terms of tech adoption, private schools are well ahead of state :https://www.suttontrust.com/news-opinion/all-news-opinion/state-schools-falling-behind-in-new-ai-digital-divide/

State schools falling behind in new AI digital divide - The Sutton Trust

Our research explores emerging differences in how AI is being used in schools across the country.

https://www.suttontrust.com/news-opinion/all-news-opinion/state-schools-falling-behind-in-new-ai-digital-divide/

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 08:42

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:39

I hope that the UK and UK education can get back to being the best in the world. That requires funding.

I do not like independent schools telling families all is well when ultimately the money they hand over in good faith is not being allocated to their own child.

If this continues families will grow tired of the constant sacrifices and stretched home finances. The image of “kids at private school” yet no family time, enrichment or little luxuries does not go hand in hand. Some families the children are dressed in rags, they literally have nothing no holidays and constant financial pressure at home which adds pressure to the child. If you know your family are going without to pay these fees that level of pressure and expectation robs you of any ‘childhood’ it’s a burden. Again, the financial reports at the end of this academic year will give a very clear picture of what’s to come.

Perhaps families at private schools - and indeed state schools - want to make their own decisions about what’s best for their child’s education?

Which children are dressed in rags? Which schools do they attend?

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:39

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 06:54

It’s funny how the phrase “time will tell” is only used on these multiple very similar threads by the multiple very similar posters.

I hope that the UK and UK education can get back to being the best in the world. That requires funding.

I do not like independent schools telling families all is well when ultimately the money they hand over in good faith is not being allocated to their own child.

If this continues families will grow tired of the constant sacrifices and stretched home finances. The image of “kids at private school” yet no family time, enrichment or little luxuries does not go hand in hand. Some families the children are dressed in rags, they literally have nothing no holidays and constant financial pressure at home which adds pressure to the child. If you know your family are going without to pay these fees that level of pressure and expectation robs you of any ‘childhood’ it’s a burden. Again, the financial reports at the end of this academic year will give a very clear picture of what’s to come.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:13

Labraradabrador · 27/08/2026 22:35

Do better - your writing ‘style’ is very distinct @Sidedoors

yes, time will telll. Pretty confident that while some schools will suffer, overall the sector will be fine. Provision in state is far from stellar - some do a decent job, many are inadequate. labour government policies are more about levelling down than levelling up, but it doesn’t work - it just ends up with a bigger, starker divide between state and private.

If that theory were true the support schools issue would be non existent (as the wealthy can afford the provision) the tiered system removed and all wealthy families would be happy with standard of provision and paying the exact same Fee.

Thats not happening as there is simply not that level of wealth in UK. The wealthy can move to international schools and wait out the current dire situation. If things improve they’ll being their children back but, they’ll not have them sitting economising, making do.

Of your theory is correct next years financial records will show that bar means tested bursary for the gifted all other discounts and fee assistance has been abolished…. They will level down if they continue this unsustainable model into next financial year as we’re all watching the finance.

We talk on time,

Labour do have time to make changes and level up.

But for the education sector on a whole time is a luxury.

The advancement of AI and technology forward thinking wealthy families looking at the best way to educate their children, efficiently. When you have the funds to secure academics plus enrichment (on a global level). Technologically advanced options may well become the new “elite” provision. Where the pool of students become an ‘international’ school body of the wealthy who study online and meet for global enrichment.

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 06:54

It’s funny how the phrase “time will tell” is only used on these multiple very similar threads by the multiple very similar posters.

Labraradabrador · 27/08/2026 22:35

bedtimeaudible · 27/08/2026 22:20

Time will tell……

The pressure for independent school is simple the results MUST outweigh the sacrifice. That margin for error is shrinking with each passing day.

Next years financial accounts will be very telling as by then VAT impact will be known.

Do better - your writing ‘style’ is very distinct @Sidedoors

yes, time will telll. Pretty confident that while some schools will suffer, overall the sector will be fine. Provision in state is far from stellar - some do a decent job, many are inadequate. labour government policies are more about levelling down than levelling up, but it doesn’t work - it just ends up with a bigger, starker divide between state and private.

bedtimeaudible · 27/08/2026 22:20

Labraradabrador · 27/08/2026 22:16

Change of name?

I made no mention of ‘weathering’ - no idea what you are referring to.

schools that under deliver will rightly struggle. Many many private schools ARE delivering results well ahead of state, though. Lots of parents unhappy with the state sector = customer base for private schools.

Time will tell……

The pressure for independent school is simple the results MUST outweigh the sacrifice. That margin for error is shrinking with each passing day.

Next years financial accounts will be very telling as by then VAT impact will be known.

bedtimeaudible · 27/08/2026 22:18

Labraradabrador · 27/08/2026 20:23

You might want to reread this one OP - highlights nuance within the private sector. you could use some nuance,

Specifically highlights that standalone preps are most vulnerable for a number of reasons with VAT being a bit of a tipping point for many. The market is changing, and some schools are better positioned to adapt than others- all through schools and schools that combine boarding with day students seem to be adaptable. Some of this contraction was inevitable, some could have been avoided without the intense pressure of VAT, and I am very bitter about Labour’s callous and pointless policy even if my own school seems to be weathering just fine.

in any case, private education is not going anywhere and there is a persistent gap between what state and private provide.

*weathering

I’ve just read the thread.

Labraradabrador · 27/08/2026 22:16

bedtimeaudible · 27/08/2026 22:05

I think you miss OP point.

No family paying these fees plus annual hikes will tolerate “weathering” anything.

When you take money, investment, there is an expectation attached to that. It is not about getting by. Schools must deliver in all areas. Under a Labour government. No mean feat.

Change of name?

I made no mention of ‘weathering’ - no idea what you are referring to.

schools that under deliver will rightly struggle. Many many private schools ARE delivering results well ahead of state, though. Lots of parents unhappy with the state sector = customer base for private schools.