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WTF is this new trend

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nonoono · 23/08/2026 15:33

AIBU to think the trend for Lingerie lace and silk as outer wear is really odd?
Everywhere I look there’s cheap lace appliquéd onto skirts and t shirts.

Then today I saw bra’s, as t-shirt motif’s.

AIBU to think this trend is awful.

WTF is this new trend
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AnchorWHAT · 24/08/2026 10:22

ThatCyanCat · 23/08/2026 16:03

I also used to wear M and S nighties as club dresses, with a boa and sandals.

I am pissing myself laughing, and I salute you for your honesty.

In the 80,s I once wore my dads pyjama bottoms because they matched a blouse i had, fastened at the waist with a broad cummerband, stilletto heels and lace gloves.

WeatherbyGeorgeDupris · 24/08/2026 09:53

nonoono · 24/08/2026 09:23

Women’s fashion is generally about men and the way they view women.

Young women wearing this stuff are just following the male fashion designers

I don't know. A lot of 90s fashion came from vintage shops - we were all wearing velvet jackets at one point, as well as the slip dresses and the boas, I remember a brief fad for evening gloves- and the designers were following the existing trends rather than vice versa. I think we were doing it for joy, not for men, although at that age of course you probably want to pull as well.

GarlicAnything · 24/08/2026 09:50

Mumtobabyhavoc · 24/08/2026 08:31

A spikey apricot pom-pom?!😂
Please explain!!!! 🙂

I with you if you mean Farah Fawcett 1970's hair? Years ago I asked for a Farah Fawcett-inspired cut. Loved. It. I tend to get really '70's inspired: blue suede trench in my wardrobe and I always go for over-sized sunglasses.
I like the idea of a boa (!!!) mentioned somewhere here as well. 🤗😀🥳

😭😭😭😭 deleted last part - wrong thread.
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I love your style, madam! Am very glad your deleted comment wasn't for this thread 😂 I mean, there's bum-scrunch leggings and then there's ... that.

Baldrapunzel · 24/08/2026 09:43

I saw something on social media over the weekend - woman looking for a wedding guest dress. Beautiful Gucci (I think) number in a bronzy shade, she looked beautiful in it but it had a weird sewn in visible white bra. Totally spoiled the look of a beautiful dress.

ThatsCute · 24/08/2026 09:38

BunnyLake · 24/08/2026 09:23

After that scene in The Inbetweeners thank god the side testicle trend didn’t catch on 🫣

Perhaps we should encourage the lads to bring it back! 😂

LoafofSellotape · 24/08/2026 09:38

Mycatisreal · 23/08/2026 15:46

Madonna started all that in 1984

She did,it's not new at all.

BunnyLake · 24/08/2026 09:26

SurferRona · 24/08/2026 08:14

I think she looks pretty good. Great tan, shapeley strong legs….what offends you? Broderie anglais all over 😁. Don’t google, there’s also one of her smiling in denim hot pants too. I still think they look great on her too

I think she looks great!

BunnyLake · 24/08/2026 09:23

ThatsCute · 24/08/2026 09:15

True. I see a lot more side boob than side testicle.

After that scene in The Inbetweeners thank god the side testicle trend didn’t catch on 🫣

nonoono · 24/08/2026 09:23

DeftGoldHedgehog · 24/08/2026 04:45

Quite easy to just not wear it yourself. Or did you come here for a good bitch about other women?

Women’s fashion is generally about men and the way they view women.

Young women wearing this stuff are just following the male fashion designers

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BunnyLake · 24/08/2026 09:21

nonoono · 23/08/2026 15:37

This type of thing also

That’s horrible.

The dresses and tops looking like petticoats/slips were fashionable in the early 2000s. I bought a nice camisole top one. Victoria Beckham is still wearing them but they seem quite dated to me now.

Yes a pox on those scrunch leggings, was the style stolen from male ballet dancers?

ThatsCute · 24/08/2026 09:15

nonoono · 24/08/2026 09:12

These main stream fashions affect all young people.

Young girls are not choosing this fashion out of their own creativity they are being sold the expected image.

funny how we don’t see young men walking around massively over sexualised

True. I see a lot more side boob than side testicle.

nonoono · 24/08/2026 09:12

sunsu · 24/08/2026 00:49

Gosh, this thread is really sad. I’d love to see what you all wear since you’re so full of judgement for others! I hate seeing women tear other women down, especially over something so superficial as fashion choices. Wear what you like and try not be so miserable!!

These main stream fashions affect all young people.

Young girls are not choosing this fashion out of their own creativity they are being sold the expected image.

funny how we don’t see young men walking around massively over sexualised

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Palilula · 24/08/2026 09:05

I think this T-shirt from the US "cult" brand Vaquera, popularised by Charli XCX among others, might be a contemporary example that's probably been copied at lower price points ($245 US is about £180). There's a fine line between being transgressive (transcending the old "rules" about underwear showing, exposing and making a mockery of the fetishisation of "sexy" women's underwear, or even a Riot Grrrl or Rose McGowan type protest - "you want it so badly, here it is, arseholes! - but on my terms, not yours") and being exploited and commodified or at least promoting something harmful to women as a group. That line may not be in the exact same place for everyone. But somehow, a menswear equivalent like an oversized T silkscreened with a singlet and boxers - or even with a Speedo, bow tie, and chest hair - doesn't ever quite "hit the same".

Marianne Faithfull wore her nightie to go to Covent Garden some time in the early seventies. It was fairly sober and not obviously nightwear, but she boasted about it to make sure people would know. In central and eastern European cities that were occupied by the USSR during the Second World War, the occupying army basically took what they wanted from the local population. Local women who were still financially well-off enough to afford it would go to the theatre or opera and see the Soviet officers' wives and daughters proudly decked out in their own confiscated slips and nightdresses. The "joke" was that they had never seen silk clothing before and thought these were elegant evening wear. Who knew they were just ahead of their time? 😏

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nonoono · 24/08/2026 09:05

ImmortalSnowman · 23/08/2026 17:56

Was no one a teen in the 00s? Dressing like the girl bands, skip the tshirt altogether.

This look co-incided with female singers complaining bitterly about needed to gyrate and dance naked to get a record deal.

it’s misogyny plain and simple

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MyTakeIsntYourTake · 24/08/2026 09:00

ElenOfTheWays · 23/08/2026 15:59

Silk and lace have always been used on clothes. However I do agree that the bra T shirt is a new spin and looks fucking awful. Reminds me of those terrible aprons with the woman wearing "sexy" underwear printed on.

Exactly what I was thinking of. It's not really a new thing. Just a desperate reinventing of a rubbish idea.

nonoono · 24/08/2026 08:52

YControl · 23/08/2026 17:20

Whilst I'm not a fan of the t-shirt, I always think some of the sneery comments about fashion on here are just so serious/uptight/miserable.
I love clothes and experimenting with new silhouettes and am actually chuckling away at pp's description about a silk nightie and feather boa combo as I'm pretty sure I had a similar outfit! I certainly wouldn't look back and be mortified, it was just of its time.
Fair enough it's not for everyone but experimenting with clothes and style is quite a joyful and fun experience for many people.

experimenting with fashion is not the same as following a trend, often stemming from porn.

An example is those denim shorts which are worn with the button open and zip down and the opening flapped apart to show everything below the waist and bum cheeks out at the back teamed with a bra top.

its not pushing any fashion boundaries it’s just porn inspired and does nothing to help men’s perspective of young women.

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 24/08/2026 08:45

I quite like a non-lacy silk cami worn as a top under a jacket myself.

WhatNextImScared · 24/08/2026 08:44

ChelseaBagger · 23/08/2026 16:23

In the late 90s/early 00s i remember wearing light coloured vest tops with bright coloured bras underneath so that they showed through. And the ultra-low hipster jeans with a thong deliberately sticking out the back. And we were obsessed with lacey camisoles, which are essentially just lingerie. Plus ca change.

Oh, and half the skimpy spaghetti strap vest tops also had a massive cut out in the front, and I was never quite sure whether the hole was supposed to rest above your boobs, or whether you were supposed to pull it down so the neckline rested just above above your boobs (kind of normal) and the hole was then over your cleavage....🤷‍♀️

yes, I had so many mesh tops in the 90s so you could see a spangly bra underneath.

UrOutdoors · 24/08/2026 08:34

Yeah we did it in the 80s and again in the 2000s, it’s nothing new.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 24/08/2026 08:31

GarlicAnything · 24/08/2026 05:26

I'm interested enough in fashion to have worked in it 🤗 Funnily enough, like most fashion personnel, my work clothes were mainly old, black & baggy. Shoes and accessories did matter, though. And hair - I had some astonishing hair in the 1980s! I mean, I did have a Farrah and a Diana, but then there was the spiky apricot pom-pom 🤔

A spikey apricot pom-pom?!😂
Please explain!!!! 🙂

I with you if you mean Farah Fawcett 1970's hair? Years ago I asked for a Farah Fawcett-inspired cut. Loved. It. I tend to get really '70's inspired: blue suede trench in my wardrobe and I always go for over-sized sunglasses.
I like the idea of a boa (!!!) mentioned somewhere here as well. 🤗😀🥳

😭😭😭😭 deleted last part - wrong thread.
(pml)

DogCatDogCat · 24/08/2026 08:31

DrFoxtrot · 23/08/2026 17:40

Surely every woman’s tits are not in exactly the same place 😬 would these tops not look odd if you’re not filling out in the right place? They’re hideous 😂

I would need a significantly bigger bra!

SurferRona · 24/08/2026 08:14

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 23/08/2026 18:13

The only thing I remember about hot-pants was my considered opinion that someone ought to have told Liz Taylor that they really didn't suit her legs. She wore some on one occasion when she flew into Heathrow, I think combined with over-the-knee white boots, and the press photos were not kind to her.

I think she looks pretty good. Great tan, shapeley strong legs….what offends you? Broderie anglais all over 😁. Don’t google, there’s also one of her smiling in denim hot pants too. I still think they look great on her too

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JayJayj · 24/08/2026 08:13

I wouldn’t wear it but it’s definitely not something new. I remember things like this when was a teenager. (I’m 40)
I also had a body suit that looked a lot like lingerie, but it wasn’t and I wore it a blazer, that was just a few years ago.

Fashion is odd. No one will like all of it all of the time.

JoyousSquid · 24/08/2026 07:56

ThatCyanCat · 23/08/2026 16:03

I also used to wear M and S nighties as club dresses, with a boa and sandals.

I am pissing myself laughing, and I salute you for your honesty.

haha I also used to wear lace nighties as club dresses in the early 2000s