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AIBU to think my son can pursue further education without GCSE English or Maths?

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Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 13:17

AIBU to think my son can pursue further education without GCSE English or Maths?

My son had some very difficult mental health issues in school, and also the end of his school career coincided with Covid. He is now 21.

He did go to college (with an EHCP) and got a Certificate in animal care and maintenance, and had one GCSE already, but not GCSE English or Maths.

Due to physical health issues, he has now been out of education and work for three years.

I am very keen for him to resume some education, prior to getting into paid work.

What could he consider, please? He is very bright, but dyslexic. Could Open University offer something suitable? His big passion is animals. I wondered about the environment, bio-diversity etc. Anyone got any experience of this type of subject at higher level for 'returning' students without GCSE English or Maths, please?

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inthequietofdawn · 23/08/2026 15:18

HeyThereDelila · 23/08/2026 15:07

He needs to think about what he’s interested in, then contact colleges himself and ask about entry requirements and access courses. He should do this, not you, else he’ll never learn to stand on his own two feet.

This is a question only specific colleges can answer.

Your post is demonstrating you don’t understand additional needs.

Livelovelaughfuckoff · 23/08/2026 15:12

HeyThereDelila · 23/08/2026 15:07

He needs to think about what he’s interested in, then contact colleges himself and ask about entry requirements and access courses. He should do this, not you, else he’ll never learn to stand on his own two feet.

This is a question only specific colleges can answer.

pointless (and incorrect advice). If a young person has an EHCP it is exactly because they need additional support to access education including finding out what is accessible to them. It is possible to support a young person in doing this whilst helping them build independence. We don’t need to throw young people with difficulties in at the deep end on their own.

HeyThereDelila · 23/08/2026 15:07

He needs to think about what he’s interested in, then contact colleges himself and ask about entry requirements and access courses. He should do this, not you, else he’ll never learn to stand on his own two feet.

This is a question only specific colleges can answer.

Livelovelaughfuckoff · 23/08/2026 15:05

Mine did Kings Trust 12 week programme and it was excellent (no EHCP required) he’s now on a supported internship via MENCAP. I believe an EHCP is required but as others have said you do have the option to reopen it. The supported internship also offer maths and English GCSE or functional maths and English. They also do a two year pre internship programme.

trainingacademy.mencap.org.uk/

ScaredAndPanicky · 23/08/2026 15:01

My eldest is currently doing an OU degree, they do have a handful of GCSEs though including maths and English, failed quite a few due to poor mental health. They had a massive mental health breakdown when they should have been doing A levels and crashed out of college completely. When they got their life on track again they decided to use their PIP money to fund an access course with the OU. (They have PIP as they are autistic). Using their money to fund it gave them the buy in to engage. It gave them the confidence to know whether they could work at degree level having missed so much education. When they finished the course they felt they had done well enough in it to then do the full degree. It has been a steep learning curve for them but it is working for them. As it is their first degree they have funding for it. But it is only counted as a part time degree even though they are studying full time.

inthequietofdawn · 23/08/2026 14:56

EHCPs don’t run until 25, the end of the academic year in which YP turn 25, or 26th birthday in some circumstances if the EHCP has been formally ceased following the correct procedure. EHCPs only continue that long if they continue to be maintained. OP needs to know if it was formally ceased following the right process.

PurpleDragons · 23/08/2026 14:51

@Italiangreyhound

I would go back to your LEA (Local Education Authority). EHCPs run until the end of the academic year in which you turn 25.

I know this as I was your son, I spent several years out of education due to mental illness and returned first to a specialist provision at 19, and then back into mainstream education at 20. I went on to Oxford after sitting A levels aged 22, I’d failed my GCSEs at 16.

Obviously your son’s academic ability and interests dictate what path he would take, but he should be able to return to education with his EHCP. If he enjoyed his course would the next level be something he is interested in? With an EHCP he can be allowed to progress without meeting the GCSE requirement if he is deemed otherwise capable. Also, at 21 and with an EHCP he should be able to take Functional Skills courses instead of resitting his GCSE Maths and English.

TeenToTwenties · 23/08/2026 14:42

Have you looked at Supported Internships? They are a pathway yo work, but again for those with EHCPs.

Has he learned to drive? Not driving has been a major stumbling block for DD2 and accessing work. Unfortunately she isn't up to it.

Driving plus English&Maths FS could make a productive year.

inthequietofdawn · 23/08/2026 14:42

DS, or his appointee if he has one, should apply for UC unless he has capital over £16k. If he has capital over £16k, make a credits only NS-ESA claim instead.

This is important beyond receiving money via UC. It is important to protect his pension (should a state pension exist by the time DS is SPA).

Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:35

sashh

"I would suggest ge starts with maths and English, he will get funding for these at an FE college or adult education centre. Functional skills is more accessible than GCSE"

Great ideas. Thank you.

Re "Could he look at jobs adjacent to animal care, maybe something like receptionist in a vet's?"

at the moment he could not really work, he asleep most of the day due to Chronic Fatigue.

"I used to foster cats for Cat's Protection, OK it isn't a job but gives you practical experience and they also do training. It doesn't have to be constant, some volunteers only covered when other fosteres were on holiday, so only for a week or two at a time.
Best of luck to the both of you."

Thank you so much. He has been pet sitting this summer to get additional experience.

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Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:32

inthequietofdawn

Is DS receiving UC as well?

No.

Re "With an EHCP, provision can be funded. Without an EHCP, there will be funding for E&M. For other qualifications, DS may be eligible for funding via the Adult Skills Fund or a loan via the Advanced Learner Loan, but they both have eligibility criteria and will depend on the course, when DS starts it and if DS has a level 3 qualification or if it was a lower level BTEC."

All very helpful

EHCPs that have formally ceased (rather than just sat doing nothing because the LA is poor like too many are) can’t be ‘reopened’ legally. You would need to request another EHCNA. However, some LAs believe they can do as they wish and ignore the law.

Re "EHCPs that have formally ceased (rather than just sat doing nothing because the LA is poor like too many are) can’t be ‘reopened’ legally. You would need to request another EHCNA. However, some LAs believe they can do as they wish and ignore the law."

Thank you, yes, we are looking into an EHCNA for our younger son at the moment.

It does appear to be a mine field!

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sashh · 23/08/2026 14:28

I would suggest ge starts with maths and English, he will get funding for these at an FE college or adult education centre. Functional skills is more accessible than GCSE.

The OU are good but it can be a bit intense. Could he look at jobs adjacent to animal care, maybe something like receptionist in a vet's?

I used to foster cats for Cat's Protection, OK it isn't a job but gives you practical experience and they also do training. It doesn't have to be constant, some volunteers only covered when other fosteres were on holiday, so only for a week or two at a time.

Best of luck to the both of you.

inthequietofdawn · 23/08/2026 14:23

Is DS receiving UC as well? Or if he has capital over £16k, has he/his appointee made a credits only NS ESA application.

With an EHCP, provision can be funded. Without an EHCP, there will be funding for E&M. For other qualifications, DS may be eligible for funding via the Adult Skills Fund or a loan via the Advanced Learner Loan, but they both have eligibility criteria and will depend on the course, when DS starts it and if DS has a level 3 qualification or if it was a lower level BTEC.

EHCPs that have formally ceased (rather than just sat doing nothing because the LA is poor like too many are) can’t be ‘reopened’ legally. You would need to request another EHCNA. However, some LAs believe they can do as they wish and ignore the law.

Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:19

x2boys

" ... kings trust ? My son is just finishing a 12 week course with them
Hes come on on leaps and bounds in terms of maturity and mixing with others hes done all sorts with them including work experience and a residential
They have helped with his CV and mock interviews etc."

That sounds very good. I will look into that.

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x2boys · 23/08/2026 14:16

Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:02

Oliwiaa

"Is he capable of getting maths and English GCSE?
I would probably look at getting them or functional skills first as that will open up more options to him."

That is a very interesting question. I am not sure. He is very intelligent, but his English writing/spelling skills are not great. He is similar to me, dyslexic and I got a degree in English. So, I hope he could.

Its a stumbling block for many kids
My son has got level 2 funtionsl skills English but still struggling with maths
Hes 19
Aside ftom this have you looked into the kings trust ? My son is just finishing a 12 week course with them
Hes come on on leaps and bounds in terms of maturity and mixing with others hes done all sorts with them including work experience and a residential
They have helped with his CV and mock interviews etc.

Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:13

PensionPTake

"If he has an EHCP the LA should cover funding"

That would be excellent. I will look into it.

He currently gets PIP.

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Oliwiaa · 23/08/2026 14:11

Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:02

Oliwiaa

"Is he capable of getting maths and English GCSE?
I would probably look at getting them or functional skills first as that will open up more options to him."

That is a very interesting question. I am not sure. He is very intelligent, but his English writing/spelling skills are not great. He is similar to me, dyslexic and I got a degree in English. So, I hope he could.

English & maths GCSE courses should be free at your local college.
Or you can do functional skills either in person, or if he's not ready for that yet you can do them online.

I think I would look at doing one of those as a start to ease back into education. Then there are lots more options open, level 3 courses, Access courses, Open University, apprenticeships.

PensionPTake · 23/08/2026 14:11

If he has an EHCP the LA should cover funding

PensionPTake · 23/08/2026 14:10

He really needs maths and English most employers look for it, he can do gcses or functional skills

Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:10

"BreadInCaptivity · Today 13:56
**EHCP’s can be re-opened up until the age of 25."

Thank you, I did not know that they could be reopened!

"I’d contact your LA SEN team and ask what the protocol is. As stands I’ve supported the young person to complete a pretty hefty “re-opening” application form."

That sounds great, would my son need to pay for all courses now? Do you know.

"What I have been told is having a very clear goal in terms of onward employment opportunities helps as the LA recognises the “win” of helping someone gain qualifications that have a good chance of leading to employment vs ongoing support if they remain dependent on benefits and/or adult social care."

Great advice.

Re "I’d rather not give details" That's totally fine.

Feel free to PM me if there is anything else you wish to say but don't want to say on the open forum, but if not no worries at all.

Thank you 8inthequietofdawn I will look into this. *

All contributions here are being very helpful.

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inthequietofdawn · 23/08/2026 14:08

Don’t be put off even if the LA say it isn’t possible. LAs often lie.

TeenToTwenties · 23/08/2026 14:06

FS English is far more straightforward than the GCSE. Dd2 did it with a tutor.

Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:05

inthequietofdawn

"The scope of education is wide and even if DS wasn’t in a position to attend college, he could still have received provision, including in relation to his chronic fatigue, via the EHCP. For example, it is quite easy to build a bespoke package around animals."

That is a very interesting thought, something to ask about. Thank you.

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inthequietofdawn · 23/08/2026 14:03

Unfortunately, if an EHCP has formally ceased, you would need to request another EHCMA just like you would to request an EHCNA for someone who had never had an EHCP before. In law, an EHCP that formally ceased cannot be ‘re-opened’ despite what some LA professionals try to mislead parents and YP to believe.

Italiangreyhound · 23/08/2026 14:02

Oliwiaa

"Is he capable of getting maths and English GCSE?
I would probably look at getting them or functional skills first as that will open up more options to him."

That is a very interesting question. I am not sure. He is very intelligent, but his English writing/spelling skills are not great. He is similar to me, dyslexic and I got a degree in English. So, I hope he could.

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