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AIBU to ask the local running club to move its Sunday stop?

140 replies

Welshmum2010 · 23/08/2026 09:01

About the local running club. I live in a smallish village with others close by. Someone who doesn’t live locally has started a running club in the area , due to I would guess demand and you can also do a good circuit on very quiet roads and through flat fields. This as a concept is absolutely great and I have no overall issue. However they have one of their ‘exercises stops’ outside my house at 8am on a Sunday. This includes a a lot of shouting and then loud chatter from 10-15 people for 5 mins. It wakes me up , this is the only day I don’t have work. Now I don’t own the road and I understand that. But I think it’s inconsiderate. There is a large secluded car park area they could use literally 50m down the road or a field 50m the other way. Also for context I have neighbours but I don’t think it would be so loud for them. So I am really considering asking them to move to one of the other areas not near houses. It’s not the crack of dawn but it’s really annoying and seems no reason why it’s right there. I have the organisers fb from her promoting the activity.

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LOCOJDS · 23/08/2026 10:54

yanbu it would annoy me too

godmum56 · 23/08/2026 10:53

Hollycoco · 23/08/2026 10:52

If they refuse your polite and very reasonable request to make their stop somewhere else…….. buy a fog horn, or a really loud alarm or whistle. Every time they stand outside your house making noise, then make an even louder noise out the window to disturb them. They will soon get the point.

Edited

yeah, tempting as it may be, not sure the neighbours will like that.

Monty36 · 23/08/2026 10:53

I had a cycle club that did this outside my house. Bloody inconsiderate. And yes, lots of shouting. I had a corner house.

So self absorbed in what they are doing. Forget that anyone else exists. Or don’t care. Just a little bit in love with themselves too.

Lean out of the window and say ; look, it is 8am on a Sunday morning and can they please just go away. Their noise is disturbing others. If they want to shout can they go somewhere not surrounded by homes and do it.

I have done that and it worked. Never bothered again.

Hollycoco · 23/08/2026 10:52

If they refuse your polite and very reasonable request to make their stop somewhere else…….. buy a fog horn, or a really loud alarm or whistle. Every time they stand outside your house making noise, then make an even louder noise out the window to disturb them. They will soon get the point.

ItsOnlyMee1 · 23/08/2026 10:52

We are usually up and 6:30 but you are not being unreasonable at all.

If they refusee to move then make sure you are a pain in the arse every sunday at 8am until they do move.

Welshmum2010 · 23/08/2026 10:48

ToffeePennie · 23/08/2026 10:43

“Hi, can I ask you to please move your stop a tiny bit farther down the road? I completely support your running group, but being woken up and I would really appreciate a little bit more sleep. Thanks”

I think this is what I am going to message and say or very similar

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Seajaye · 23/08/2026 10:47

No harm in asking to keep the noise down before 9.30 on a Sunday morning in a residential street , while suggesting a more suitable meeting point for the post run socialising.

. but there's not much you can do if they ignore you. So keep you tone good natured

Welshmum2010 · 23/08/2026 10:47

Waytoohothot · 23/08/2026 10:46

Just park your car right up on the pavement so they cant stand there

They stand in the road, I have a corner house so that wouldn’t really work

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Welshmum2010 · 23/08/2026 10:46

DooDallyHallie · 23/08/2026 10:32

Your road is a publicly owned. The car park might not be and thete are obvious safety concerns (snd hence iliability /nsurance issues) around a group of pedestrians congregating there. The large field is slso presumably owned by a farmer and thesebplaces might not be on their route.
I tbink its a you problem. Earplugs?

It’s not really a car park more of a piece of waste land where people park in the week. The field is a park / public one and not a farmers field.

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Waytoohothot · 23/08/2026 10:46

Just park your car right up on the pavement so they cant stand there

ToffeePennie · 23/08/2026 10:43

“Hi, can I ask you to please move your stop a tiny bit farther down the road? I completely support your running group, but being woken up and I would really appreciate a little bit more sleep. Thanks”

Livelovebehappy · 23/08/2026 10:43

DooDallyHallie · 23/08/2026 09:03

Yabu
8am isnt early

Give over. Maybe not for you but op has said Sunday is the only day she doesnt work. Another case of inconsiderate runners/cyclists etc showing inconsidersation towards others. Seems to be a common theme within the healthy lifestyle brigade....

IJustMight · 23/08/2026 10:42

DooDallyHallie · 23/08/2026 09:03

Yabu
8am isnt early

It is on a Sunday for a large percentage of people who want one day to lie in.

godmum56 · 23/08/2026 10:41

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 23/08/2026 10:37

They're getting a 'virtue pass' because it's exercising. Any group of people arranging to meet and shout in front of somebody's house at 8am every Sunday is selfish and antisocial - nobody would be happy if it was a bunch of youths noisily hanging out there.

this. TBH Id be pretty fed up to have a group of people regularly meeting and shouting outside my house at any time.

wherearemypeople · 23/08/2026 10:39

DooDallyHallie · 23/08/2026 10:32

Your road is a publicly owned. The car park might not be and thete are obvious safety concerns (snd hence iliability /nsurance issues) around a group of pedestrians congregating there. The large field is slso presumably owned by a farmer and thesebplaces might not be on their route.
I tbink its a you problem. Earplugs?

It's not a her problem it's a them problem. I wouldn't want a group making noise outside my house at 8am every Sunday.
How do you know the road is publicly owned? The only info the OP has given is that she doesn't own it.

Gwenhwyfar · 23/08/2026 10:39

DooDallyHallie · 23/08/2026 09:03

Yabu
8am isnt early

WTF! Of course it's early on a Sunday!

RoseField1 · 23/08/2026 10:38

DooDallyHallie · 23/08/2026 09:03

Yabu
8am isnt early

It is early on a weekend!

FlorenceLawrence · 23/08/2026 10:38

Yanbu, if it's disturbing you on your only lie-in day. I think 8am on a Sunday is too early, and you can politely suggest an alternative.
I get regularly woken by local cyclists early on Sat/Sun mornings, as I live in a village and my road is on their loop. They shout conversations & instructions at each other - so you hear loud snatches of conversation or "Pothole!" as they sweep past. Nothing to be done about that, sadly, but at least it's not every weekend.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 23/08/2026 10:37

They're getting a 'virtue pass' because it's exercising. Any group of people arranging to meet and shout in front of somebody's house at 8am every Sunday is selfish and antisocial - nobody would be happy if it was a bunch of youths noisily hanging out there.

LauritaEvita · 23/08/2026 10:36

Yeah that’s dead rude. This is where being on a street of people who aren’t afraid of conflict comes in as my neighbours would have been out kicking off about this the first time the group had tried it 🤣 I agree with others that this wouldn’t be acceptable at ANY time.

Iheartmysmart · 23/08/2026 10:35

I feel your pain. I live opposite a small row of shops and the local cycling club have started to use the car park as their meet up place. Every Sunday morning they start arriving from around 6.30am and then proceed to bellow the day’s ride route to each individual person as they turn up. There are flats above the shops and the residents have asked them to keep the noise down but it still happens.

I am sorely tempted to make a note of their route, follow them to the cafe where they’ve planned to stop and accidentally drive over all their bloody bikes.

LondonLass2026 · 23/08/2026 10:34

People underestimate how horrible this is if they haven't gone through it.

My former flat in London was on a path of two primary schools and one private nursery. We would have parents after drop off who would congregate outside my flat and chat for such a long time. A lot of them used to even let their younger kids (who were with them) run around my private front garden to let off steam so they could chat in peace!

I worked in the office back then) 7 or 8 years ago) but could never enjoy days off, or the odd day I worked from home.

The annoying thing is the place was full of parks and coffee shops yet so many chose my house to gather around for some reason. And the talking.. It was so LOUD. Just, yapping for an hour or so.

MinimumRage · 23/08/2026 10:33

Yup.

They are not being unreasonable to exercise there. You are not being unreasonable to ask them to go elsewhere.

DooDallyHallie · 23/08/2026 10:32

Welshmum2010 · 23/08/2026 09:01

About the local running club. I live in a smallish village with others close by. Someone who doesn’t live locally has started a running club in the area , due to I would guess demand and you can also do a good circuit on very quiet roads and through flat fields. This as a concept is absolutely great and I have no overall issue. However they have one of their ‘exercises stops’ outside my house at 8am on a Sunday. This includes a a lot of shouting and then loud chatter from 10-15 people for 5 mins. It wakes me up , this is the only day I don’t have work. Now I don’t own the road and I understand that. But I think it’s inconsiderate. There is a large secluded car park area they could use literally 50m down the road or a field 50m the other way. Also for context I have neighbours but I don’t think it would be so loud for them. So I am really considering asking them to move to one of the other areas not near houses. It’s not the crack of dawn but it’s really annoying and seems no reason why it’s right there. I have the organisers fb from her promoting the activity.

Your road is a publicly owned. The car park might not be and thete are obvious safety concerns (snd hence iliability /nsurance issues) around a group of pedestrians congregating there. The large field is slso presumably owned by a farmer and thesebplaces might not be on their route.
I tbink its a you problem. Earplugs?

Goditsmemargaret · 23/08/2026 10:29

Obviously just ask but I don't think they've been inconsiderate so far and i definitely would not suggest that in your message.

I'd go with "hi, we haven't met in person but I'm aware of your running club (and think it's a great addition to the place). I'm sorry to be a pain but your stop is right outside my house and the group noise is disturbing my only lie-in of the week. Would it be possible to move to the carpark 50m away? Thanks"