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Original poster

to ask if you own a sex toy?

100 replies

Isitwrongtoask · 22/08/2026 19:45

Do you?
Ive just turned 45 considering getting one.
Interested to know who has one

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gillefc82 · 22/08/2026 21:46

I’ve got one vibrator that I’ve had for about 20 years, but it’s usually shoved in the back of a bedroom drawer with dead batteries, never getting used. Mainly that’s because I prefer sex with my DH when I’m in the mood, but even when I’m ‘self servicing’ I don’t use it as I actually don’t like the vibrating sensation. In fact, I even struggle holding my DH’s electric hair clippers when shaving the back of his head as the buzzing makes my hands/fingers feel funny.

If you fancy trying a toy, I’d say go for it! There’s no harm in a bit of ‘me time’ or in looking at spicing things up with a trusted partner.

ReyRey12 · 22/08/2026 21:41

Satisfyer pro 2

Additup · 22/08/2026 21:40

Of course 😉. I bought my first over 30 years ago. Give it a go OP.

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/08/2026 21:27

Idontjetwashthefucker · 22/08/2026 21:20

James Nesbitt in Cold Feet

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Thanks, @Idontjetwashthefucker.

Neverstopwondering · 22/08/2026 21:26

Epoisses · 22/08/2026 19:47

I have DH

I have DH and sex toys

Sometimes he uses my sex toys on me

Which is rather amazing

Mumtotornadoes · 22/08/2026 21:24

Yes loads. Get a little suction rose to start you off 🤌

gamerchick · 22/08/2026 21:24

Ilovelurchers · 22/08/2026 20:40

There is a sex topic. If this is a genuine enquiry, get it moved to there.

Strange place the sex topic. Full of Pervy men wanting online sex in PMs.

WiddlinDiddlin · 22/08/2026 21:22

Loads, a whole drawerful of 'em.

If you want one, get one, get three, enjoy. What does it matter whether other people have them or not, I mean the sex toy industry exists and is HUGE so that ought to give you a clue that lots of people buy them!

Idontjetwashthefucker · 22/08/2026 21:20

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/08/2026 21:19

Oh ok. I vaguely remember an episode of something where a bloke put a rose up his arse, but I’m not sure whether it was Cold Feet or Corrie.

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James Nesbitt in Cold Feet

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/08/2026 21:19

Greenmouldycheese · 22/08/2026 21:17

No its a toy that looks like a rose. No stem.

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Oh ok. I vaguely remember an episode of something where a bloke put a rose up his arse, but I’m not sure whether it was Cold Feet or Corrie.

Greenmouldycheese · 22/08/2026 21:17

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/08/2026 21:15

Roses? With thorns?

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No its a toy that looks like a rose. No stem.

principalskinna · 22/08/2026 21:17

Yes. Ofc

Porkpieandmustard · 22/08/2026 21:16

No

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:16

Oohhh good idea!"😂

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/08/2026 21:15

Greenmouldycheese · 22/08/2026 21:10

No but I would like to try one. My friend has a large box of them in her bedroom. Strap ons, roses, dildos. It has made me curious to buy one.

Roses? With thorns?

NotAnotherScarf · 22/08/2026 21:13

ChopSueyCharcuterieBoard · 22/08/2026 19:49

Why would you need to know if a bunch of strangers have one before you decide to get one? 🤨

There's some 15 year old in his bedroom very happy with some of these responses 😱

Recycledblonde · 22/08/2026 21:13

Yes, happily married for 36 years.

Greenmouldycheese · 22/08/2026 21:10

No but I would like to try one. My friend has a large box of them in her bedroom. Strap ons, roses, dildos. It has made me curious to buy one.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 22/08/2026 21:08

Isitwrongtoask · 22/08/2026 21:01

That’s exactly what this is Rose. It’s a dilemma

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🙄

Original poster
Isitwrongtoask · 22/08/2026 21:01

roseymoira · 22/08/2026 20:29

It’s for asking AIBU about some kind of life situation, a dilemma perhaps.

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That’s exactly what this is Rose. It’s a dilemma

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Ilovelurchers · 22/08/2026 20:40

There is a sex topic. If this is a genuine enquiry, get it moved to there.

BringBackTheLight · 22/08/2026 20:40

Yes, many. And a dh. We enjoy them both together and independently.

MyLuckyPeachOtter · 22/08/2026 20:38

I have a toy but I don’t have a very high sex drive so I don’t use it all that often (I’m single). I bought my first in my twenties.

MyLuckyPeachOtter · 22/08/2026 20:36

Shatenoeuf · 22/08/2026 20:30

Nope, ive never really got the point. Dh turns me on, not a piece of rubber or plastic or whatever. i orgasm pretty easily from penetrative intercourse.

Can you never get turned on by yourself?!