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AIBU to think tatty lampost flags are imposing on communities?

257 replies

Warmlight1 · 22/08/2026 12:42

To think.that people continuing to put up tatty flags on lamposts are imposing on communities?
There are people putting them up again near roads. They hang by a thread eventually causing a clear hazard. It looks disrespectful and costs money to make safe. And the intention looks less and less like they give a fig for anyone especially in diverse places.
Everywhere has a civic hub where flags are flown properly at the proper time.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 22/08/2026 22:46

Greenmouldycheese · 22/08/2026 21:08

I live in a country that has always had our flags up everywhere. Why do you dislike the flag of your country?

I live in a part of the UK where flags on lampposts are used like dog piss. To mark territory.

I dislike using flags like dog piss. I think it's disrespectful, unpatriotic and fuelled by hate. Because it is.🤷‍♀️

Tickingcrocodile · 22/08/2026 21:59

oviraptor21 · 22/08/2026 21:40

Just as well you don't live in Switzerland. Flags fluttering in every village from flagpoles, lampposts, businesses and individual houses. All well kept of course and looks lovely.

Round here there are still a few flags flying but they seem in good condition and well fastened so not a problem.

I wouldn't think most people have any issue with individuals hanging good quality flags from their own property. Individuals are free to display flags at their own premises. What we don't like is tatty rags hanging from communal street furniture.

Our local self-named "flag man" not so long ago pleaded guilty in court to assaulting a woman by beating her so maybe that's why he hasn't had time to maintain his flags.

oviraptor21 · 22/08/2026 21:40

Just as well you don't live in Switzerland. Flags fluttering in every village from flagpoles, lampposts, businesses and individual houses. All well kept of course and looks lovely.

Round here there are still a few flags flying but they seem in good condition and well fastened so not a problem.

MasterBeth · 22/08/2026 21:28

Would the people who support right wing thugs cable-tying the flags they like onto lampposts also support left wing thugs cable-tying the flags they like onto lampposts? And what about middle of the road people who aren't even thugs? Can they tie stuff to lampposts?

Who should decide which flags are cable-tied onto lampposts? Should everyone be free to tie stuff so that every lamppost in the country has someone's flag, symbol, slogan on it, no matter how offensive, intimidating, provocative, rude or joyous other people may find it? Or maybe we should all agree not to do that and keep our streets clear of all that guff, which seems to me to be a very British thing to do.

It might get some of that twee knitted postbox shit out of the public realm, too...

soddingspiderseason · 22/08/2026 21:23

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:12

How shocking and ignorant are YOU that you assume everyone who enjoys their own flag in their own country is racist!!

Enjoy them in private then please. Rather than littering public space with plastic tat. Its embarrassing as a country to have this kind of ridiculous behaviour.

NewLifter · 22/08/2026 21:23

I cannot stand flags either

Theworldsgonemadagain · 22/08/2026 21:20

Yabvu calling 999 over an England flag. Did they laugh at you? 999 is for emergencies not for complaints. I'm English so no I'm not offended by England flags.

Baldrapunzel · 22/08/2026 21:17

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:12

How shocking and ignorant are YOU that you assume everyone who enjoys their own flag in their own country is racist!!

So why did people only start to hang flags off lampposts when rascist grifters told them to? Could have been celebrating their country's flag for years, nice flagpole in the garden, raised on St George's Day, the jubilee, England getting to the final stages of a sporting tournament. But no, only when a couple of rascist criminal thugs tell them to. Go figure.

Velumental · 22/08/2026 21:16

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:12

How shocking and ignorant are YOU that you assume everyone who enjoys their own flag in their own country is racist!!

I don't at all, it was entirely the specific tone of the posters 'gosh no our flags are a beauteous delight' feigned innocence.

The problem in the UK actually is that the union jack has been so massively used to present views of xenophobia and colonialism that it's hard to separate out. Anyone who actually wants to feel a positive identity with their flag should be as horrified as the rest of us at the xenophobic hijacking.

That's you're actually annoyed at it being pointed out instead suggests your own feigned innocence is just the same

soddingspiderseason · 22/08/2026 21:14

ThatJadeLion · 22/08/2026 21:09

Only the English seem to get offended or talk negatively about the country's flag and use of derogatory words. I like them, none are 'tatty' where I live. English and proud. What's wrong with being patriotic!

Absolutely nothing wrong with being patriotic. Absolutely everything wrong with putting cheap plastic Chinese made flags on lampposts that look incredibly tatty, make an area look chavvy and waste public resources taking them down.

CatsAreCool222 · 22/08/2026 21:13

It's a sign you're in a run down area where people have not had the opportunity of education.

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:12

Velumental · 22/08/2026 21:10

Gosh how shocking that that's your point of view when you were simply innocently commenting on the joy you derive from flags.

How shocking and ignorant are YOU that you assume everyone who enjoys their own flag in their own country is racist!!

Baldrapunzel · 22/08/2026 21:12

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raise_the_Colours_(organisation)

Eta this works

Marroon · 22/08/2026 21:10

ThatJadeLion · 22/08/2026 21:09

Only the English seem to get offended or talk negatively about the country's flag and use of derogatory words. I like them, none are 'tatty' where I live. English and proud. What's wrong with being patriotic!

Nope, not only in England, plenty of us in NI hate the notion of plastering a flag everywhere too.

Velumental · 22/08/2026 21:10

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:08

No sorry I haven't seen any of this! I only hear stories of illegal immigrants murdering and raping etc

Gosh how shocking that that's your point of view when you were simply innocently commenting on the joy you derive from flags.

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:09

Baldrapunzel · 22/08/2026 21:05

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/RaisetheColours(organisation)

The haters are the criminal grifters behind the 'raise the colours' tripe.
Eta why on earth would you want to align yourself with these chancers

Edited

Your link just says bad title

ThatJadeLion · 22/08/2026 21:09

Only the English seem to get offended or talk negatively about the country's flag and use of derogatory words. I like them, none are 'tatty' where I live. English and proud. What's wrong with being patriotic!

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:08

Velumental · 22/08/2026 21:05

I live in Glasgow, twice I've been caught in throngs of them in the city centre. Once with my children. You've not seen it?

No sorry I haven't seen any of this! I only hear stories of illegal immigrants murdering and raping etc

Greenmouldycheese · 22/08/2026 21:08

I live in a country that has always had our flags up everywhere. Why do you dislike the flag of your country?

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 22/08/2026 21:07

Oh Dahling,nylon flags are sooo last year.

Baldrapunzel · 22/08/2026 21:05

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:02

Haters gonna hate!😘

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/RaisetheColours(organisation)

The haters are the criminal grifters behind the 'raise the colours' tripe.
Eta why on earth would you want to align yourself with these chancers

Velumental · 22/08/2026 21:05

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:03

Who are these people? I think you have been watching too many BBC drama programs!

I live in Glasgow, twice I've been caught in throngs of them in the city centre. Once with my children. You've not seen it?

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:03

Velumental · 22/08/2026 20:51

There we go. And the balaclava'd men from this country wrapped in Union jacks terrorizing women on high streets, thoughts on those?

Who are these people? I think you have been watching too many BBC drama programs!

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 21:02

saveforthat · 22/08/2026 20:58

Our flags are maintained too @MyLimeGuide apparently that makes us racists.

Haters gonna hate!😘

saveforthat · 22/08/2026 20:58

MyLimeGuide · 22/08/2026 20:56

No I don't know if the council does it, its definitely maintained, and been there for months.

Our flags are maintained too @MyLimeGuide apparently that makes us racists.