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AIBU to think tatty lampost flags are imposing on communities?

257 replies

Warmlight1 · 22/08/2026 12:42

To think.that people continuing to put up tatty flags on lamposts are imposing on communities?
There are people putting them up again near roads. They hang by a thread eventually causing a clear hazard. It looks disrespectful and costs money to make safe. And the intention looks less and less like they give a fig for anyone especially in diverse places.
Everywhere has a civic hub where flags are flown properly at the proper time.

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Marroon · 23/08/2026 16:29

OvernightBloats · 23/08/2026 16:27

I think that looks great (and the flag too!) 😀More sculptures on roundabouts are needed!

Not when they’re used specifically to intimidate and lay claim …

OvernightBloats · 23/08/2026 16:27

Marroon · 23/08/2026 16:24

And then some have other sculptures on them.

I think that looks great (and the flag too!) 😀More sculptures on roundabouts are needed!

Happyher · 23/08/2026 16:24

I think they look a shabby mess and lower the tone of an area. Happy to see a proper flag on a flagpole but these cheap flags tied to lamposts look stupid. I also think they’re racist

Marroon · 23/08/2026 16:24

OvernightBloats · 23/08/2026 15:32

There are some roundabouts that have sculptures on them - it makes sense that the sculpture reflects the local area (and not foreign animals!) @BermudaRhombus . This one looks amazing

Recycled sculpture gives wow factor to Leatherhead roundabout – East Surrey News – Leatherhead Living

And then some have other sculptures on them.

AIBU to think tatty lampost flags are imposing on communities?
MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 16:13

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/08/2026 15:49

Our roundabouts used to have a statue of Our Lady on them. To keep motorists safe.☺️

Thats lovely:-) why were the statues taken down? Deemed offensive i can imagine!😭

Boomer55 · 23/08/2026 16:10

I don’t mind them at all, but you can contact your council if they bother you. Some councils remove, others don’t. Litter bothers me more.

NotSurveying · 23/08/2026 15:52

I do love festive flags though during special events. Summer fairs, and jubilees. Made our street look lovely then.

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/08/2026 15:49

Our roundabouts used to have a statue of Our Lady on them. To keep motorists safe.☺️

NotSurveying · 23/08/2026 15:46

CatsAreCool222 · 22/08/2026 21:13

It's a sign you're in a run down area where people have not had the opportunity of education.

Yes. I would never move somewhere with flag-festooned lamp posts and painted roundabouts, however lovingly maintained. I am grateful to live in a bit of London where no flags or graffiti of any political persuasion are on display.

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 15:43

saveforthat · 23/08/2026 15:28

We had a rabbit roundabout where I used to live. A family of wild rabbits had made their home there and kept breeding. It was delightful if a bit distracting. They disappeared eventually, I hope they were OK.

Amazing! 😍

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 15:30

BermudaRhombus · 23/08/2026 15:14

They wouldn’t want a roundabout zoo because a lot of the animals would be “foreign”.

“British roundabouts for British squirrels “.

saveforthat · 23/08/2026 15:28

BermudaRhombus · 23/08/2026 15:14

They wouldn’t want a roundabout zoo because a lot of the animals would be “foreign”.

We had a rabbit roundabout where I used to live. A family of wild rabbits had made their home there and kept breeding. It was delightful if a bit distracting. They disappeared eventually, I hope they were OK.

BermudaRhombus · 23/08/2026 15:14

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 13:52

I disagree that roundabouts are supposed to look dull! I love looking at ones with lovely flowers etc! I think there should be more features on roundabouts, like roundabout zoo from league of gentleman 😂

They wouldn’t want a roundabout zoo because a lot of the animals would be “foreign”.

BermudaRhombus · 23/08/2026 15:12

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

I thought that the flags had nothing to do with immigration and were simply about patriotic people expressing their love of England? At least that’s what we kept being told (quite aggressively) when we queried why people were doing it.

CelticSilver · 23/08/2026 14:58

You're right. The tatty flags should be replaced with newer ones.

Warmlight1 · 23/08/2026 14:24

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

Can you give examples of abuse and vitriol? Bearing in mind they are breaking the law? People have been criticised and intimidated for taking them down it's true.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 23/08/2026 13:59

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

Be thankful its just flags

Instead of what?🫤

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 13:52

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 11:44

Roundabouts are supposed to be dull. Plant some British wildflowers if you find it too boring. Imposing your “patriotism” on others is hardly comparable to someone putting a whimsical post box topper on to celebrate Easter. At least the crocheters remove their creations before they look tatty.

I disagree that roundabouts are supposed to look dull! I love looking at ones with lovely flowers etc! I think there should be more features on roundabouts, like roundabout zoo from league of gentleman 😂

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 13:28

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

This sounds quite threatening. Says absolutely everything about the attitude of the people imposing their flag shagging Temu tat on ordinary communities. Begone.

Baldrapunzel · 23/08/2026 12:56

The abuse (physical and verbal) has been directed at those attempting to remove flags illegally hung on lamp posts and telegraph poles.

The group behind the flagging mess are involved in fraud, assault and other criminality.

If people wanted to fly an England or UK flag, why did they wait to do so until encouraged by a group of rascist criminals? Surely they could have put a wee flagpole up in their garden and proudly raised a flag on high days and holidays?

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/08/2026 12:53

Ammandaaa · 22/08/2026 12:56

We have one near us which I think some kids put up. I am tempted to cut it down as I when I see aot of flags I assume the area is a bit downmarket

Same. Its like having a giant banner across the street saying “Brexit Corner”. Naff.

Thatladdo · 23/08/2026 12:49

The abuse and vitriol directed at people putting flags up makes me want to put some up now.
Its a reaction to being gaslit and branded racist/xenophobic by the government and media because people have reservations and serious concerns about the rate and type of immigration and the negative effect its had.
No one wanted or voted for this, quite the opposite in fact.
Be thankful its just flags

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 11:44

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 10:32

Where did I say I worship the flags! Lol! They make a dull roundabout look pretty thats it! Same as I enjoy looking at those wool creations people are making to decorate post boxes.

Roundabouts are supposed to be dull. Plant some British wildflowers if you find it too boring. Imposing your “patriotism” on others is hardly comparable to someone putting a whimsical post box topper on to celebrate Easter. At least the crocheters remove their creations before they look tatty.

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 11:37

LauraNorda · 23/08/2026 10:08

It's probably that prevalent that you just don't see them any more.

Nope. None. They just aren’t there.