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AIBU to think tatty lampost flags are imposing on communities?

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Warmlight1 · 22/08/2026 12:42

To think.that people continuing to put up tatty flags on lamposts are imposing on communities?
There are people putting them up again near roads. They hang by a thread eventually causing a clear hazard. It looks disrespectful and costs money to make safe. And the intention looks less and less like they give a fig for anyone especially in diverse places.
Everywhere has a civic hub where flags are flown properly at the proper time.

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CreativeGreen · 25/08/2026 16:16

YANBU, they look bloody awful.

Warmlight1 · 24/08/2026 10:10

Isittimeformynapyet · 24/08/2026 07:00

large couple of square meters of material

All square metres are the same size - they don't come in small/medium/large.

Can't believe you called 999.

Well try to believe it. ' Yes there was a pile up because a windscreen got draped.....but at least my report was gramatically correct your honour'....

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Sartre · 24/08/2026 07:04

They always looked tacky but now they’re weather beaten and look like floppy rags.

Isittimeformynapyet · 24/08/2026 07:00

Warmlight1 · 22/08/2026 13:05

Well exactly ! But I cannot lie driving round a roundabout over a busy by pass with a large couple of square meters of material flapping towards me just metres away from my car only secured by one corner to the bridge....that's what I saw. I called 999, because I could see how it could unfold. And I saw this in different places more than once
Just because it never happened yet doesn't mean it can't. ..

large couple of square meters of material

All square metres are the same size - they don't come in small/medium/large.

Can't believe you called 999.

Donttellhim · 24/08/2026 06:56

Maddy70 · 22/08/2026 13:41

I totally agree they look "common" and would definitely put me off buying a house in that area

Exactly this. I am house hunting now and if I see flags on the lamp posts I don’t even bother stopping. Dirty old, worn out flags sadly flapping about in the wind is not patriotic, it’s pathetic looking and frankly the opposite of patriotic!

Gealach · 24/08/2026 06:54

OvernightBloats · 23/08/2026 16:31

That's your interpretation. I don't see how that can be intimidating. Other countries proudly fly their flag without this overwrought handwringing - why can't we?!

People in Ireland fly our flag with pride all the time during sporting events or on St paddy’s day. It’s the national flag.

But there has also been times where it has been hijaked by other groups and used for different meanings like the IRA or more recently far right groups. Context matters. It’s not the flag itself.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 23/08/2026 23:04

Yep, it certainly gives an impression that "Hi, we're a bunch of racist chavs here!"

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 23:01

TheHateIsNotGood · 23/08/2026 18:26

@soddingspiderseason your viewpoint demonstrates the lack of understanding that makes these cheap, nylon flags proliferate.

Myself I object to cheap nylon tat altogether on many grounds; environmental, human rights, slave labour, carbon footprint etc.

By objecting to the display of English national flags you're adding fire to the fuel you dimwit. I thought the insult d'jour was 'crackhead skank' and "chav" went out of fashion yonks ago.

You can do better surely.

Your comment makes absolutely no sense. Its not my fault that chavs want to put up cheap plastic tatty flags on lamposts. I think they should be arrested for littering personally.

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/08/2026 22:10

OvernightBloats · 23/08/2026 17:41

I can understand that flying the Union Flag in Northern Ireland is used as an intimidating tactic with the history of the Troubles. But this does not mean that flying the flag in the rest of UK is intimidating as well. To make a sweeping statement that the flag is used to always intimidate is making a huge generalisation.

There is no 'faux innocence' here. I am aware that some are using it to their own political ideals but this doesn't mean that every flag put up = racist.

No one said flag is used to always intimidate. Most have posted about how they love to see the flag flown appropriately and with respect.☺️

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/08/2026 21:57

TheHateIsNotGood · 23/08/2026 18:26

@soddingspiderseason your viewpoint demonstrates the lack of understanding that makes these cheap, nylon flags proliferate.

Myself I object to cheap nylon tat altogether on many grounds; environmental, human rights, slave labour, carbon footprint etc.

By objecting to the display of English national flags you're adding fire to the fuel you dimwit. I thought the insult d'jour was 'crackhead skank' and "chav" went out of fashion yonks ago.

You can do better surely.

What? You are blaming @soddingspiderseason for the flags?🤯

Not the people who use cheap, plastic facsimiles of our flags like dog piss to mark territory on lampposts?🤔 Not the intimidating, threatening men who put them up?🤔

No, it's the fault of women on Mnet for calling it out and objecting.🙄

"She made me do it", the cry of abusers everywhere.

Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden · 23/08/2026 21:56

We are all know they were put up by racist scum, so anyone supporting or defending them are also likely to be racist scum. Our council have just had to replace street furniture that said racists also painted their little wonky crosses on.

Absolutely no problem with people flying flags on their own property. The public buildings here also have both the Union Flag and St George Cross, and our city and county flag are flown at various places in our city centre.

Warmlight1 · 23/08/2026 19:32

TheHateIsNotGood · 23/08/2026 17:53

Are you in England? If so there is no real reason to find the English flag objectionable. I'd hazard a guess that if fewer people found displaying the English national flag objectionable within England then fewer England flags would be displayed.

I'm guessing you feel you can't say Merry Christmas, or wear Poppies- would I be right?

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JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 23/08/2026 19:31

So last year don't you know.
Said in abfab style voice.

Warmlight1 · 23/08/2026 19:27

FoldItIn · 23/08/2026 17:05

I quite like them @Warmlight1 but I live oop North in a multicultural area (not perfect, lots of tension at times. You know, real life). People seem pretty good at changing them when they get tatty. I like the colour and seeing different cultures being represented, even the St George's flag shock horror.
I hope they are maintained in winter and not left to fade etc, my opinion might be different then.

Do you get various flags on lamposts then? Is your community involved in changing and maintaining them? Which ones get out up?
We have a display that changes for the occasion: St George's for st george-:Welsh flag for St Davids etc- but they are on specific supports, time limited and changed. I think our council does it. I've no problem with that.

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Warmlight1 · 23/08/2026 19:18

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 18:22

It could be seen as pathetic to get so upset about them? Is it a big deal? Letting such trivial things interfere with your life in such a negative way is totally embracing that inner chimp IMO

There's an angle come up here which I hadn't thought about but quite a few people said they wouldn't buy in an area with flags on lamposts. Now that seems awful because as I said it's often outsiders picking a street and putting them up. So those people in the street have no control over how it looks and it could put off a potential buyer for a house.
It's all very well pooh pooing people's reactions but we live in a very class ridden society. Still.
It really comes home when it starts to affect people's chances of selling their houses.

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MasterBeth · 23/08/2026 19:08

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 18:22

It could be seen as pathetic to get so upset about them? Is it a big deal? Letting such trivial things interfere with your life in such a negative way is totally embracing that inner chimp IMO

Yes, it's a big deal if you have experienced a rise in racist abuse to you and your kids in recent years both online and in the street and you know that the lamppost campaign has been created by violent racists with criminal records who have designed it to embolden their followers and intimidate people of colour.

Maybe think beyond your own cosy experience towards people who might not find it so "trivial".

Katigee410 · 23/08/2026 19:06

I have no problem with displaying the England or UK flag per session, I mean it looks amazing in London along the mall. But tatty flags tied to lamp posts just looks a bit common and actually disrespectful.

Warmlight1 · 23/08/2026 19:05

OvernightBloats · 23/08/2026 16:54

'Claim part of another country' ? I don't understand what you mean.

When I visit another country, I expect to see flags flying of the country I am visiting. I don't get intimidated. I like to see it.

The problem is with this generalisation that flying the flag in this country is negative. There is an inference that we should be ashamed of the national flag. I disagree.

Yes, tatty flags don't look great but this judgement that flying the flag is racist is insulting.

Can you quote where anyone has said flying the flag is racist?

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TheHateIsNotGood · 23/08/2026 18:26

@soddingspiderseason your viewpoint demonstrates the lack of understanding that makes these cheap, nylon flags proliferate.

Myself I object to cheap nylon tat altogether on many grounds; environmental, human rights, slave labour, carbon footprint etc.

By objecting to the display of English national flags you're adding fire to the fuel you dimwit. I thought the insult d'jour was 'crackhead skank' and "chav" went out of fashion yonks ago.

You can do better surely.

QuietComet · 23/08/2026 18:22

I'm not bothered by flying national flags, I'm bothered by the intent and reason behind them being flown. I used to love it when I saw the Saltire being flown, it lifted my heart. I loved it when I worked in England during the week and saw loads of St George's Cross flags being flown during football season. It felt like being part of a massive community.

Now every time I see them, I think of the horrible hatred and polarisation that seems to be on the rise, and how social media is just fuelling the mis- and dis- information causing the hatred.

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2026 18:22

PeopleWatching17 · 23/08/2026 17:53

I completely agree. How stupid do people think we are, with that ridiculous line about other countries being proud to fly their flag? I have no issue with a flag flying from a proper flag pole, in a church for example. Hanging them from lamp posts and bridges is pathetic.

It could be seen as pathetic to get so upset about them? Is it a big deal? Letting such trivial things interfere with your life in such a negative way is totally embracing that inner chimp IMO

soddingspiderseason · 23/08/2026 18:14

TheHateIsNotGood · 23/08/2026 17:53

Are you in England? If so there is no real reason to find the English flag objectionable. I'd hazard a guess that if fewer people found displaying the English national flag objectionable within England then fewer England flags would be displayed.

Ridiculous circular logic. Cheap plastic tatty flags put up by sad flag shaggers, is what demeans both the union flag and the St George flag. Its just so chavvy.

RunningJo · 23/08/2026 18:11

What amazes me is the people who wanted to fly the flags, acting because they are proud, and it was important to do it. Are quite happy for them to sit, tatty, half ripped, looking awful. So, proud of the English flag but not proud enough to want to maintain them.
I don’t think they should be on lampposts anyway, but the way they look now is awful.

Perhaps they’d have been better spending money on buying a flag pole for their garden!.

TheSunBeatsDown · 23/08/2026 17:55

I live in a 'flag' area, it marks it out as tatty and depressing, the flags haven't worn well and many are tangled in trees. It's bringing house prices down for sure, I've thought of moving out myself.

I'm a big believer in flags being flown on flagposts, in public buildings and in areas that denote national pride.

That's not my area, sadly!

TheHateIsNotGood · 23/08/2026 17:53

Are you in England? If so there is no real reason to find the English flag objectionable. I'd hazard a guess that if fewer people found displaying the English national flag objectionable within England then fewer England flags would be displayed.

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