AIBU to be angry that my husband is unconcerned about women’s safety?

Not sure why it happens on mn this much.

Do we live in the same country? I work with DV survivors and child abuse survivors regularly and the vast majority of their perpetrators are British. Reckon they could do with that leaflet being sent to all British people as well.

The government is making significant inroads into the number of illegal immigrants getting in, and also in terms of deporting those already here. You're wrong to say it's doing nothing about this.

I took it to mean that if someone shows up in a boat, we have no idea who they are, what they have been up to in their home country, whether they are fleeing persecution or if they were perpetrators, criminals, rapists etc.

There are plenty of anti racist/AIBU to ditch my 'far' right friends - are those campaigns as well. Quit the personal attacks as well.

The legal and hard working Black immigrant is racist for feeling unsafe around large amounts of unvetted men coming to the country who don’t share our common values? Well I suppose the lesson here is to never bat an eyelid when someone shouts ‘racist’ to your own logical thoughts on the subject!

Men you enter into romantic relations with are a far bigger risk than random strangers in the street. Random attacks obviously can and do happen but they are and always have been vanishingly rare. You are at the most risk from male relations or partners.

Patriarchy relies on the average man being largely unbothered by sexism and VAGW.

Well David Lammy never was the brightest. How desperate is the situation when court action is being taken to prevent those stats. getting into the public domain? Everything now is being shaped by race. It's being rammed down our throats.

We shouldn't be importing people from anywhere - we have a highly educated and large population of our own. No excuse. We've known for decades that we need doctors etc.

The care sector would have put its wages up if we stopped exploiting overseas staff, as it would become a more attractive job to UK staff.

If there is no evidence that people from certain cultures are more of a risk, then just release the data. Pretty simple wouldn't you think!

Agree, disgusting how this government wants to keep crucial data from us. You can see why their voters are sucking up the must be racist trick. Still no evidence as to where anyone has been racist on the thread.

The very fact that we have to use other country's data to know the statistics, is, in itself, terrifying.

It is but they'd rather tell people they are racist, ignore per capita data and try and be the good ones, rather than face reality.

Our culture is very different to India too. How do you think the health and care sector would look in the UK without any Indian doctors/nurses/care workers?

You really can't see the difference. Fucking hell.

The utter ignorance on this thread is astounding. It is real. It is happening.

Where's the racism?

Most university student have to go to a how not to rape people lecture in freshers week these days.

School children have how not to rape people lesson at school as well.

I guess this leaflet is to ensuring arrivals get the same baseline info we give homegrown young men.

Racism is no joke. Strange how these threads seem to be full of it though, and lots of posters saying it does not matter. Well it does.

I see many more people trying to fall over themselves to make out it is only an immigration problem and i think certain groups are actually putting women at more risk by ignoring the risk from white British men in their rush to make it an immigration problem.

Some sections of community seem almost disappointed if a perpetrator has a British sounding name!

I just don't understand why people are falling over themselves to ignore what is happening right in front of their eyes.

Women aren't just being let down by men; they are now being let down by other women. I know which side I'm batting for and it's not the one that makes us doubt our own minds. They can fuck off with their labels.

You won’t get much from this lot I’m afraid, majority seem to be very left wing, welcoming the third world into our country whilst it literally the country is falling to its knees.

youll be called racist for having these worries.

i agree with everything you say. Back in the 90s I walked the streets freely as a teenager, never once was I in danger. I live in a northern town which has been inundated with illegal migrants, the streets are unsafe, messy and frankly frightening. The people with the views that it’s white men causing problems are in areas filled with white men (all southern middle class no doubt) you should dip your toes into what it’s really like, coming soon to a town near you.