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The weather has changed for my holiday

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youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:18

Due to holiday in the south of France next week, and all along the long range forecast has been beautiful.

Now it’s changed. Rain every fucking day apart from the day I leave. I have to unpack all the beautiful dresses and clothes I’ve packed and change them out for rain jackets and boots. I’m fuming, I actually can’t believe it. It’s just my luck!

AIBU to just not want to go? I was due to do so many lovely day trips and now they’ll just be awful - damp and grey, any pictures I take will look awful. I just can’t believe it

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Slowlymelting · 21/08/2026 12:11

I live in the South of France and it very very rarely "pours for days". Yes the forecast looks a bit shit but it'll still be fairly warm. The forecast for today where I am was rain and clouds all day - this morning I ate breakfast lying by the pool in the sun! Even now, the weather outside is chillier than the 37 degrees we've been having recently, but the sun is still out. Don't catastrophise, you'll be absolutely fine, it's never bad weather for long here.

Negroany · 21/08/2026 12:11

Itsbeenalongtimeincoming · 21/08/2026 10:53

I mean if you live in the UK this would be a big problem....

Not recently!

Scalottia · 21/08/2026 12:10

You sound very unpleasant OP. Please say 'pissing rain' again...I don't think you've said that enough yet in your very mature and delightful posts. Poor you, I will be so sad if your tiktok holiday is ruined. Where do I send the condolence card?

Ginmonkeyagain · 21/08/2026 12:07

The French weather gives zero fucks about your holiday, also summer rain in the med tends to be in short, heavy bursts rather than day long drizzle.

Also you ae the best of what you have been given - many people this summer have had holidays changed or disrupted by extreme heat and drought.

We went to Toulouse in late June/early July. On the first full day we were there Sunday we had the most epic thunderstorm and it absolutely poured with rain for about four hours - bang went our plans to wander around the town in search of food and a post dinner drink. We ran to nearest restaurant to our hotel and it actually turned out to be pretty decent and we sat under the canopy with other guests marveling at the storm.

TheJoyousHiker · 21/08/2026 12:06

Hopefully, the OP will cancel and it will be one less of these influencers and wannabe influencers hogging the best spots to enjoy scenery and blocking the view for others while they pose endlessly to get the best photo.

Justtryingthis · 21/08/2026 12:04

Can you just clarify OP?

Is it the “Rain” or the “Pissing Rain” that you are most concerned about? As you mention both and I’m leaning towards “Pissing Rain” being the worst of the two… but can you clarify this so I’ve got it settled in my mind ?
Just so I can fully appreciate the scale of what you’re dealing with.
TIA.

friedaklein · 21/08/2026 12:03

This is a wind-up.
But if not, this is why I despise influencers.
One of my friends has become one abd she can't enjoy anything without turning it into content. Not even a coffee.

TheJoyousHiker · 21/08/2026 12:01

You sound ridiculous and spoilt and petulant. No-one wants rain on holidays but most still get out, make the most of it and gave a great holiday. What has the world come to when a holiday is basically for showing off outfits and social media likes ?

Why not pivot and take a how to have a fab holiday in rainy South of France ?

Simonjt · 21/08/2026 12:01

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:59

Genuinely who wants to watch videos of trudging about in the rain?

Why do you change your walking style during rain?

NotAtMyAge · 21/08/2026 12:00

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:29

Don’t care about that. There’s not been any where I’m heading anyway

And with one short post all sympathy for your disappointment vanished and I bet I'm not the only one thinking this.

My daughter and I planned a special holiday in Italy last year and the weather broke 2 days after we arrived. Did we sulk and feel sorry for ourselves? No, we sat down and rethought what we'd intended to do and found other enjoyable things to fill our days. Mind you, we hadn't gone for the sake of pretty pictures on social media, but to experience a beautiful part of the world and enjoy each other's company.

Matronic6 · 21/08/2026 11:59

I was going to express sympathy and encourage optimism but then I read all OP's posts. I sincerely hope it pisses down the entire time she is there.

Yetone · 21/08/2026 11:58

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:46

Yeah lovely. Humid and pissing rain! Aka frizzy hair and no chance of getting a tan

Tanning is bad for you and very ageing.

theemmadilemma · 21/08/2026 11:57
  1. Accuweather actually isn't more accurate. It's forcast for yesterday and today was utter bullshit. My Apple weather app was far more accurate.

  2. I'm about an hour from Nice and used to the weather here. Often they are fast showers. Unless there's a yellow warning for rain, it's unlikely to last long or be the downpour you expect. If they expect a proper downpour it will likely report yellow warnings for flooding like it did yesterday and this morning. It's also now sunny and warm after a torrential down pour and storm overnight.

  3. It can be very spotty in terms of where the rain is falling - doesn't mean all of Nice or the surrounding area will be affected. We can watch rain forecast and it just pass us by and rain 5km away.

  4. Doesn't look that bad apart from maybe Thursday.

BlackCat14 · 21/08/2026 11:57

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:43

I’m not going to be sitting on the quayside when it’s pissing rain!

Everyday is pissing rain. The only day that there’s a chance of it being sunny is the day I’m booked into a beach club, which will be ruined by it raining!

Unless I’m missing something… these screen shots show very little rain. 55% chance of rain… 1.5 hours rainfall in a day…? Really not that bad.

DearDenimEagle · 21/08/2026 11:55

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:31

I’m sure. AccuWeather is more accurate and it’s risk everyday for the days I’m there.

A risk is a risk..not a certainty. With your attitude, I’d not go. But it’s only a risk of rain. I’d go if it was guaranteed..hell, I went to South of Spain and it poured ..the roads washed away so we’re were stuck with the car for a couple of days and the rain even dripped through the ceilings inside the Crowne Plaza during breakfast. Into buckets 🤣
Made for some interesting photographs. And I only take what I can carry in my pockets and shoulder bag, so no wardrobe to carry. Jeez, it’s an adventure

MyCrushWithEyeliner · 21/08/2026 11:54

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 21/08/2026 11:43

I hope you have the holiday you deserve 👍

Beautifully put

friedaklein · 21/08/2026 11:52

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:29

Oh yeah, that’ll look nice on social media!

Are you only going on hols for social media? It was 40 C last week in France with wildfires.

But I think you should cancel, judging by your miserable replies. Tiktok has ruined simple joys for so many.

Gonners · 21/08/2026 11:51

TheVelvetCell · 21/08/2026 11:48

Obviously not real, no one is this vapid.

I reckon it's Amber from The Archers.

Yetone · 21/08/2026 11:49

There is a saying that there is no such thing as bad weather, just unsuitable clothing. I try to bear this in mind.

Shinyhappyapple · 21/08/2026 11:48

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:49

I have a travel TikTok. I don’t want it to look British, I want it to look like the luxury trip it’s supposed to be.

Fair enough - that’s quite key information. But if what is bothering you is how your holiday looks on SM rather than how it actually feels in terms of enjoying the moment, just make sure that you take your videos whilst the sun is out.

Forecasts are always changeable and very often when it’s showing a lowish percentage of rain, the rain never actually happens. Take your dresses but pack one or two things to keep you comfortable if the weather is a bit miserable, and try to review your outlook a bit - eg you can swim in the rain as you’ll be getting wet anyway; a nice meal is still a nice meal even if you are eating it indoors.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 21/08/2026 11:48

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:46

Can you read?

Think people are more concerned about your literacy levels, tbh.

TheVelvetCell · 21/08/2026 11:48

Obviously not real, no one is this vapid.

Gall10 · 21/08/2026 11:46

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:29

There’s no point going out, I won’t be able to get any nice pictures, just trudging about in the pouring rain.

Stay home then… use photoshop for your likes and clicks!

LastOnePlease · 21/08/2026 11:45

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 11:08

I genuinely do not care. That is not my issue.

I do feel for you OP. Not because of the forecast but because of your personality. It must be very hard to be so self obsessed. Have the holiday you deserve.

dottondool · 21/08/2026 11:44

Clearly this is a wind up

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