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The weather has changed for my holiday

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youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:18

Due to holiday in the south of France next week, and all along the long range forecast has been beautiful.

Now it’s changed. Rain every fucking day apart from the day I leave. I have to unpack all the beautiful dresses and clothes I’ve packed and change them out for rain jackets and boots. I’m fuming, I actually can’t believe it. It’s just my luck!

AIBU to just not want to go? I was due to do so many lovely day trips and now they’ll just be awful - damp and grey, any pictures I take will look awful. I just can’t believe it

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GiveMeWordGames · 21/08/2026 11:05

This has to be a parody/wind-up, surely.

Whaleandsnail6 · 21/08/2026 11:05

Whilst your attitude is petulant, and irritating, I get the disappointment when you have an image of how you want things to be and then it isn't whats expected

We holiday in the UK most years and I have had disappointment when the weather has been lovely and dry the weeks around our trip and then its wet and dull when we are away

I have had many trips (including Hadrian's wall and Stonehenge ) that would have just been more enjoyable without rain.

There is no getting away from the fact its a lot more pleasant and easier to eat picnics/takeaway food when its dry and you aren't trying to find a dry bench or patch of grass to sit on.

But, I also get you can't control the weather so you either make the best of it and crack on, or don't go

Askandyforcompo · 21/08/2026 11:05

I understand. A few years ago I went to Corfu and it rained every day, all day and night. People say "you're still on holiday" but that's ridiculous. People say "others can't afford a holiday". Also ridiculous.

Some people don't particularly enjoy being out in the pissing rain being battered by wind, not being able to see the view from the sea view villa they've paid a fortune for.

I don't understand the part about social media though. The only fun part of my holiday was posting pictures of the pissing rain.

shutityouduffer · 21/08/2026 11:05

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:29

Oh yeah, that’ll look nice on social media!

Do you only go on holiday so you can post pictures on social media? If so, you could save a lot of money using this thing called Google Images

DevonKnowsImMiserableNow · 21/08/2026 11:05

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:29

Don’t care about that. There’s not been any where I’m heading anyway

You'd probably care if you were on fire.

Leo800 · 21/08/2026 11:05

You sound about 12. Just going on holiday to post photos on social media & show off.

DollopOfFun · 21/08/2026 11:04

Or what about this? You could make a comedy 'well waddya gonna do' schtick?

The weather has changed for my holiday
Watchoutfortheslowaraf · 21/08/2026 11:04

Happyjoe · 21/08/2026 11:04

100%.

Haha same

DeftGoldHedgehog · 21/08/2026 11:04

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:59

Not true. Pissing rain all next weekend

Not if you look at the detailed forecast. But if you are determined to moan about it, go ahead. You sound a proper snowflake.

StressedOutPeanut · 21/08/2026 11:04

Yabu we've had about 5 months of pure sunshine it was going to rain eventually. It's likely to change anyway not everyday will rain and unless your going in a tent you will be fine.

Watchoutfortheslowaraf · 21/08/2026 11:04

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:59

Not true. Pissing rain all next weekend

You’re so bad at reading forecasts OP. You definitely shouldn’t have a travel TikTok 😂

Happyjoe · 21/08/2026 11:04

Tickingcrocodile · 21/08/2026 11:00

Anyone else who has read OP's comments now hoping it does pour with rain every day?

100%.

DollopOfFun · 21/08/2026 11:03

A bargain OP:

Stylish and practical

YourHeartyFatball · 21/08/2026 11:03

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:59

Genuinely who wants to watch videos of trudging about in the rain?

No one wants to watch your SM. You will literally be the only person that’s interested in it. Sack it off completely and go and make some real memories!

unabashedopossum · 21/08/2026 11:02

The weather forecast for Monaco is wall-to-wall sunshine for the next two weeks barring one day, the same for Nice.

InveterateWineDrinker · 21/08/2026 11:02

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:49

I have a travel TikTok. I don’t want it to look British, I want it to look like the luxury trip it’s supposed to be.

Ah, I see that you're an influenza (named after the nausea-inducing parasite).

ThatCyanCat · 21/08/2026 11:02

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:59

Genuinely who wants to watch videos of trudging about in the rain?

Some time ago I kept seeing a video of a woman in full rain gear dancing about in the pouring rain doing a Shakira parody. "Whenever, wherever, Britain has shitty weather..."

Sparkletastic · 21/08/2026 11:02

Your poor followers - how will they cope without your TikToks if you don’t go??

ginasevern · 21/08/2026 11:01

Tickingcrocodile · 21/08/2026 11:00

Anyone else who has read OP's comments now hoping it does pour with rain every day?

Yep.

Auspiciousminds · 21/08/2026 11:01

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:55

There haven’t been wildfires in Nice.

You are missing the point entirely. This is either a wind up or you are even more ignorant than it first appeared.

gannett · 21/08/2026 11:01

youcantmakethisup · 21/08/2026 10:55

What tips? “Go out and get soaked! Sod all your plans!”

I don't think you need to worry so much about how your photos look, because I wouldn't bet on that travel TikTok being very successful anyway if you can't think of nice things to do on holiday in bad weather.

SunsetDrifter · 21/08/2026 11:01

Where abouts in France are you going? We have just returned from 2.5 weeks on the West Coast, we just wouldn't even consider going to Northern France, anywhere around/south of bordeaux and you get lovely weather. Also the weather changes a lot, we used accuweather when we were away and it was only accurate in the hours before, some days it would predict rain days ahead and we didn't get any at all, it only actually rained in the night when there was a thunder storm, bar 1 day where there was a 1 hour storm in the morning, by 11am it was back to 30 odd and sunny. I wouldn't be cancelling a holiday from a weather forecast anyway.

Your fixation on your photos and social media is odd though, do you only holiday to create content?? It's a bit sad that you can't enjoy a place without your orchestrated insta photos. You can always ai a blue sky in besides 🤣

DeftGoldHedgehog · 21/08/2026 11:01

Autumn starts on Sept 1st @OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon Who says?

Tickingcrocodile · 21/08/2026 11:00

Anyone else who has read OP's comments now hoping it does pour with rain every day?

Happyjoe · 21/08/2026 11:00

I just looked up Nice and St Tropez, both South of France. Sunny every day. You'll probably be ok and I doubt very much it will rain every day.

Like others have said, I'd rather be in France than at home, working. Pull up your big girl pants and stop moaning - you'll have a good time if you allow it.