Why can't I just find some pants?!?!

I wear these too but found the quality shocking. After only a few washes the elastic started to come out and they developed holes too. They are comfy though soon am loathed to throw them away

When I want to wear something like that my go to is Uniqlo airism. I like the full briefs but they also do a lower cut more bikini style. Thin modal material, v comfortable,
last years, cotton gusset that pads stick to:

www.uniqlo.com/uk/en/women/innerwear/underwear?lineup=84087-1

Asda used to be good. I like the seamfree ones. But they've gone the stingy gusset way.
The main problem is that nothing covers my bum properly. Even the big belly warmers. And it's not even a massive bum! But I'd like not to be pulling it to one side all the time.

Yes I took some back yesterday for this reason. I bought three packs but could only take two back as I’d worn a pair as I thought they were fine.

I haven’t read the whole thread but these are amazing!

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You are not alone in being disappointed by how useless seemingly normal pants can become once any form of pad/liner is added.

Wanting a smooth line under leggings, I chose some very sensible Laura Ashley pants.
All seemed fine until I added a liner. The double-layered cotton gusset folded upwards (?!)
Cue some unpeeling of the liner and trying to reposition it smoothly.

The remaining unworn LA pants (multipack) are now my "last resort" back-ups.

I love pour moi

For minor stress incontinence you can wear a menstrual cup. Perfectly safe, it works by pushing the vaginal wall, supporting urethra.
I’ve done this for years when I’m doing jumping around sport or running.

It’s really bad to wear a pad everyday, if you’re doing t to feel clean it can actually encourage more discharge etc, you need to breathe. I use period pants during my period, and have similar underwear that doesn’t like pads the rest of the month (it’s very breathable).

Surely the gusset is cotton and should allow pads to stick.

Natracare Panty Liners | Curved | Pack of 30 X 3 : Amazon.co.uk: Health & Personal Care https://share.google/lG3ydvn0zk1fb1GTf these stick well.

You can also experiment with different types of liner and reusable ones.

I tried an eco brand once with some kind of corn starch that actually melted when exposed to warm temperatures such as those found around a fanjo 😂

Exactly what I bought,3 packs so far and like you I find them very comfy.
But ...
I also wear a daily liner (in case of a too vigorous sneezing fit) and they don't stick well because all knicker manufacturers appear to suffer from the same inability to get the cotton gusset in the right place,I find they're always too far back.
I may of course just have a peculiar layout down there but I'm pretty sure it can't just be me!🤔

Like previous posters, I always recommend Wirarpa from Amazon. They make different styles, are so comfortable and last forever. Size up though.

Agree. I wear the nvpl ones for the gym as I have the fear when I’m running and lifting weights!

£10 for a pack of 2.

These Wirapa are the knickers I always reach for. Wash well, very comfy, and don't look completely horrific.

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have you tried Boody? Best pants ever (and PJs and bras to be honest). Lovely soft material. Wide gusset. Lots of style options.

I think I'd try the light period pants. I have a similar ahem, fear of leakage and honestly, the light period pants from (yep) Primark are absolutely brilliant for me. I don't even know I'm wearing them. Just a thought.

I had such a hard time finding new pants last year, I must’ve spent about £200 overall! I settled on boxers which I never would’ve imagined but it made me realise that basically all other knickers give me constant wedgies. The boxers are great, thin fabric and no VPL, only downside is I can’t use pads with wings. I tried Step One but the sizing is weird, the fabric is thick and there is a seam right across my delicate foof

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Fair enough tho. I am still using a couple year old M&S pants, so I will check out new gusset as was just thinking I need some new ones.. Ta for heads up.

Any M&S knickers I've tried recently have a really narrow gusset which isn't comfortable with any type of pad because the sticky bit is wider and sticks to parts of you it shouldn't be in contact with which can be painful.

I had the same issue with Step One pants, which I also think might be the kind of thing you are looking for. Two washes and everything that should stick, does!

A lady shouldn't have to choose whether to dress to the left or the right
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I've used cloth pads for years, and it is getting hard to have enough gusset so they stay in position and don't do a log roll by mid-morning despite favouring a fuller cut at the waist and bum.

Wirapa. Ugly but great for wide gussets and pads

Ordered these from Amazon recently after trying lots of others, they are perfect

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