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AIBU to think some weekly shops contain far too many snacks?and this is not grocery shopping!?

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Upsetbetty · 17/08/2026 10:59

AIBU to think that the amount of processed snacks people buy in their grocery shopping is getting ridiculous? Watching people share their grocery shop on instagram etc and I can’t see what meals they can even make as it’s all snacks?? And then they say oh grocery shopping is so expensive!Do people really do this? I don’t buy any biscuits, fizzy drinks (18-20 pack slabs) or crisps as a part of me weekly family shop. I buy the meat, veg and pantry items. That is my weekly shopping. I buy one packet of oat bars for my DCs lunches. If my dc want a snack they have fruit, yogurt, homemade flapjacks etc.

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2026letsgo · 31/08/2026 19:13

CandiedPrincess · 26/08/2026 08:50

Well that comes down to having some personal self-control and willpower doesn't it? Nobody is putting it in your mouth. I can quite happily eat one cheeesburger from McDonalds and move on with my day, it doesn't lead to me eating six.

So how exactly has McDonalds become so very successful if people just have “one cheeseburger” very occasionally?

@SquirrelGG so you having a McMuffin is linked to memories? We have kids that completely link junk food to being a normal treat. Same as any other treat that has no health benefits - smoking and drinking. Except that food is essential to your body.. Crap food as a treat is fine. The whole point is that people increasingly have seen it as a meal, not a treat. Make the burger chips (or McMuffin) from scratch if that’s what you fancy.
Except it tastes completely different doesn’t it.

AnnHedonia · 31/08/2026 09:46

Shedsqueek · 29/08/2026 21:44

Do you have a good nose into other peoples trolleys in the supermarket?

And if not, why not? I do. 😆

BleedinglyObvious · 30/08/2026 09:01

@SquirrelGG , They'd burn.

@Lmnop22 , Teaching everything in moderation is a far more effective long term strategy than cancelling all junk food companies because some people overindulge!
It's not the over-indulging that's the problem. It's the people eating little else.
The occasional item probably won't harm someone.

You can try to educate people but some won't be receptive. I've heard plenty of people say that '5 a day' is ridiculously high.

AnnHedonia · 30/08/2026 00:52

OonaStubbs · 29/08/2026 21:40

"Why can’t people who are broadly healthy have the occasional unhealthy snack or meal?!"
They'd be healthier still if they didn't have the occasional unhealthy snack or meal. And the unhealthy people would be much more healthy if they could only eat healthy food. It would be better for society as a whole, and that is what is important.

Nah, that's overkill. Life is for living. Is your own diet 100% healthy at all times?

Shedsqueek · 29/08/2026 21:44

Do you have a good nose into other peoples trolleys in the supermarket?

OonaStubbs · 29/08/2026 21:40

"Why can’t people who are broadly healthy have the occasional unhealthy snack or meal?!"
They'd be healthier still if they didn't have the occasional unhealthy snack or meal. And the unhealthy people would be much more healthy if they could only eat healthy food. It would be better for society as a whole, and that is what is important.

Lmnop22 · 29/08/2026 21:35

OonaStubbs · 29/08/2026 20:57

"Theres nothing good in any local burger takeaway shop, KFC, Pizza Hut, McVities products, Pringles etc etc. Are we to ban them all?"
Yes, ban them all.

Why can’t people who are broadly healthy have the occasional unhealthy snack or meal?!

To ban all junk food would be totally ridiculous.

There are so many things that are bad for your health and you can’t just ban them all - bacon in case it’s used for fatty bacon sandwiches, chicken in case someone deep fries it at home, oil because it could deep fry things, potatoes lest they’re made into chips, cheese in case it’s eaten a kilo at a time, bread in case it’s eaten by the loaf etc etc etc

OonaStubbs · 29/08/2026 20:57

"Theres nothing good in any local burger takeaway shop, KFC, Pizza Hut, McVities products, Pringles etc etc. Are we to ban them all?"
Yes, ban them all.

Lmnop22 · 29/08/2026 20:45

OonaStubbs · 29/08/2026 13:37

McDonalds should definitely be banned. There's nothing good about it at all.

What’s the point in banning McDonalds because there’s nothing good in it though?

Theres nothing good in any local burger takeaway shop, KFC, Pizza Hut, McVities products, Pringles etc etc. Are we to ban them all?

Teaching everything in moderation is a far more effective long term strategy than cancelling all junk food companies because some people overindulge!

Lmnop22 · 29/08/2026 20:43

Yet another post designed solely to be able to boast about superior living 🙄

I have kids and they like to snack sometimes and not solely on fruit and yogurt - god forbid they eat things like breadsticks, cheese and crackers, mini Maryland cookies, cereal bars, chocolate and mini cheddars etc. Doesn’t mean they’re obese or unhealthy, they just sometimes snack on things that aren’t homemade, sugar free, vegan, borefests!

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 29/08/2026 20:38

People share their food shopping on instagram?! Jeez

SquirrelGG · 29/08/2026 20:37

BleedinglyObvious · 29/08/2026 13:40

That's you. I'm a rubbish cook and my food is barely edible.

It's not been great this week because when I last did a supermarket shop I bought things like biscuits and crisps. The yummy veg soon disappeared and there are these miserable UPFs sitting in the cupboard and I just don't want to eat them despite being hungry.

If I open them I'll overindulge and then feel ill.

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I'm a rubbish cook myself, but you would have to be pretty dreadful to not be able to make a batch of biscuits - it's the easiest thing in the world.

SquirrelGG · 29/08/2026 20:34

2026letsgo · 29/08/2026 06:41

That would be ingredients to trigger dopamine flooding your brain.

The sugar, fat and salt ratios are specifically calculated to give you a dopamine hit, as well as the ultra palatable,soft mouth feel. You don’t eat Maccys for the nutrition but because you “fancy” a McDonalds. Think about how different a McDonalds is from a homemade version.

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I can't actually see a difference in what I eat at McDonalds to what I would make at home. Have you actually ever eaten at McDonalds? I go there for breakfast occasionally because it's what my late DF and I used to do, and also when they have a burger specific to the country I live in - which isn't very often. As for the notion of eating there because I "fancy" a McDonalds - isn't that what people do all the time with all sorts of food and drink?

BleedinglyObvious · 29/08/2026 13:40

SquirrelGG · 29/08/2026 01:22

Rubbish. I love home baked biscuits and cake and so don't bake them as I know I would eat far more of them than I do the shop bought equivalent.

That's you. I'm a rubbish cook and my food is barely edible.

It's not been great this week because when I last did a supermarket shop I bought things like biscuits and crisps. The yummy veg soon disappeared and there are these miserable UPFs sitting in the cupboard and I just don't want to eat them despite being hungry.

If I open them I'll overindulge and then feel ill.

OonaStubbs · 29/08/2026 13:37

McDonalds should definitely be banned. There's nothing good about it at all.

2026letsgo · 29/08/2026 06:41

SquirrelGG · 29/08/2026 01:26

Please do enlighten us as to what ingredients there are in McDonalds food which mimics drugs?

I know a lot of people who enjoy McDonalds, I don't know anyone who is addicted to them - most of us are quite able to apply the same self-restraint as the poster you were replying to.

That would be ingredients to trigger dopamine flooding your brain.

The sugar, fat and salt ratios are specifically calculated to give you a dopamine hit, as well as the ultra palatable,soft mouth feel. You don’t eat Maccys for the nutrition but because you “fancy” a McDonalds. Think about how different a McDonalds is from a homemade version.

SquirrelGG · 29/08/2026 01:26

Blued0t · 26/08/2026 09:49

Research shows junk foods have ingredients that mimic drugs so your self restraint doesn’t speak for the population as a whole, far from it.

Please do enlighten us as to what ingredients there are in McDonalds food which mimics drugs?

I know a lot of people who enjoy McDonalds, I don't know anyone who is addicted to them - most of us are quite able to apply the same self-restraint as the poster you were replying to.

SquirrelGG · 29/08/2026 01:22

BleedinglyObvious · 25/08/2026 21:27

UPFs are often food that are moreish, so one would be more likely to overindulge.

Rubbish. I love home baked biscuits and cake and so don't bake them as I know I would eat far more of them than I do the shop bought equivalent.

NiftyKoala · 28/08/2026 22:57

I do not buy a lot of junk food. But I cannot imagine critiquing other people's shopping much less watching Instagram to critique either. I don't think this is the stealth boast you wanted it to be. I cannot imagine being so involved I'd write a post about it. This reads like a sneaky reporter gather info or an incredibly tedious person.

BleedinglyObvious · 26/08/2026 14:23

I can't imagine 'happily eating' anything from McDonald's.

CandiedPrincess · 26/08/2026 11:22

😇Thanks, fits me well.

AnnHedonia · 26/08/2026 10:48

CandiedPrincess · 26/08/2026 08:50

Well that comes down to having some personal self-control and willpower doesn't it? Nobody is putting it in your mouth. I can quite happily eat one cheeesburger from McDonalds and move on with my day, it doesn't lead to me eating six.

Have a halo. 'Personal self-control and willpower' doesn't cut it for everyone.

I don't suffer from disordered eating myself, but someone close to me does and I know the reasons for disordered eating can be very complex and resistant to attempts at moderation. Of course everyone should aim to exercise 'personal self-control and willpower', but personally I feel it would also be helpful to many if there wasn't quite such a plethora of junk food options out there.

BitOutOfPractice · 26/08/2026 10:01

CandiedPrincess · 26/08/2026 08:50

Well that comes down to having some personal self-control and willpower doesn't it? Nobody is putting it in your mouth. I can quite happily eat one cheeesburger from McDonalds and move on with my day, it doesn't lead to me eating six.

Well good for you! Have you read (or listened to) the Ultra Processed People book? I would highly recommend. Its really made me think differently about UPFs and the people who eat a lot of them. It’s also terrified me into trying to eat far fewer of them (and I didn’t eat many before!). I think you’d find it interesting and eye opening.

Blued0t · 26/08/2026 09:49

CandiedPrincess · 26/08/2026 08:50

Well that comes down to having some personal self-control and willpower doesn't it? Nobody is putting it in your mouth. I can quite happily eat one cheeesburger from McDonalds and move on with my day, it doesn't lead to me eating six.

Research shows junk foods have ingredients that mimic drugs so your self restraint doesn’t speak for the population as a whole, far from it.

CandiedPrincess · 26/08/2026 08:50

BleedinglyObvious · 25/08/2026 21:27

UPFs are often food that are moreish, so one would be more likely to overindulge.

Well that comes down to having some personal self-control and willpower doesn't it? Nobody is putting it in your mouth. I can quite happily eat one cheeesburger from McDonalds and move on with my day, it doesn't lead to me eating six.

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