I'm in what some would consider a long term relationship. Been with my boyfriend a few years. Don't live together, each have one child similar ages, rarely spend time all together with the children too, just due to busy lives (I work weekends)
So this weekend we went to a large park which also has deer there...on entry I'd bought both our children animal feed, so they could feed the deer.
A short while after, boyf goes into the little shop and reappears with ice creams... initially I thought he'd bought us all one, then noticed there was only two.
Great I thought, he's bought both our children one...but no! He'd bought himself and his child one, no fucks given whatsoever about my child.
Now, I don't expect handouts. But these ice creams were £1 each. But it's more the fact he didn't consider my child.
I think it was a bit of a realisation at how selfish this man can be and has made me reconsider our whole relationship, to be honest.
AIBU to be so peeved by this? It has given me the serious ick.