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AIBU to find a beach holiday with our only child exhausting?

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Flowydress · 16/08/2026 21:39

We are on a week’s beach holiday with 15 yr old DS. He’s an only child. It’s so intense. He’s really full on and exhausting. I didn’t want a beach holiday as I feel active trips are better for our family dynamic but he and DH wanted to slob about. we also asked DS if he wanted a friend to come but he didn’t - so instead he just tells me several times when here that holidays are when he misses having a sibling. 😬

I love him to bits but he, and it, is hard work and I feel sad and just want to be at home. I know DH feels the same. I feel incredibly sad that DS might feel that way too

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CinderellaGotOld · 16/08/2026 21:43

What are you actually doing on the holiday? Are there trips you can do, go for a walk? Not really understanding what the set up is. Does you ds have additional needs or need more looking after than you would expect? TBH I thought you were going to be talking about holiday with a 15 month old not 15 years!!

DidILeaveTheGasOn · 16/08/2026 21:41

Please can you tell us more?

Venusunbroken · 16/08/2026 21:40

Why is it exhausting, can you explain?