People can be really weird about clothes. Competitive and jealous.
i always dress well, my clothes tend to the expensive, my bil always comments, like ffs why are you wearing that, how much did that cost, I don’t tell him, and “why do you need expensive clothes” , and then refers to himself, “i don’t need expensive clothes” etc. for info, I never talk about the brands or cost, I never talk to him about my clothing full stop. I’m always dressed in my opinion appropriately and comfortably . Usually in midi dresses or wide leg trousers and a silk top or cashmere slouchy jumper. I do wear jeans, but occasionally,
he wears really old jeans or crap his wife bought him from temu, cheap t shirts and hoodies. Always done in as none of it lasts long. They are not short of money, but tight,
i just don’t get it, there is no prize for looking like a hobo , I never comment on his clothes. I love him to bits , he’s such a lovely guy, but for some reason how I dress drives him to comment, and occassionally when he’s coming over I consider wearing jeans and a t shirt just so I don’t get comments, but I don’t as I am who I am and I’m not going down that path.
his wife is worse, as she eyes me up and down and makes a cats arse mouth,I’m sure she talks about me behind my back to him, which could be driving it, but I’d never dream of commenting on someone’s clothes past you look lovely,