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AIBU to think heatwave barbecue reactions are starting to feel a bit Covid?

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PatioDwellers · 15/08/2026 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

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SunwaysSystems · 15/08/2026 11:56

https://www.essex-fire.gov.uk/incidents/garden-fire-started-gas-bbq-spreads-aviary-shed-and-decking-2025-08-24-03-58

"Our firefighters were called to a garden fire in Harlow which started from a gas BBQ and spread to decking, a fence and a neighbouring aviary.
Thankfully, there were no birds inside. Crews quickly tackled the fire and made the area safe."

See my post above. This fire might not have caused a wildfire, but it did require the fire services to attend, thereby increasing the burden of the fire service and reducing their availability to attend when fires are greatly increased during drought conditions.

I hadn't realised this was so hard for the public to comprehend, but here we go.

A dark blue image which says "Incident". A collage of firefighters and fire engines features on the side of the image.

Garden fire started by gas BBQ spreads to aviary, shed and decking | Essex County Fire and Rescue Service

Our firefighters were called to a garden fire in Harlow which started from a gas BBQ and spread to decking, a fence and a neighbouring aviary. Thankfully, there were no birds inside. Crews quickly tackled the fire and made the area safe. Catherine Smit...

https://www.essex-fire.gov.uk/incidents/garden-fire-started-gas-bbq-spreads-aviary-shed-and-decking-2025-08-24-03-58

KayFabe · 15/08/2026 11:55

Almert · 15/08/2026 11:42

It is just like Covid, all the people checking everyone else, thinking they are right, expressing their virtue on here and other online places, making up rules to suit themselves.

I know, ridiculous. You would think common sense might prevail, and instead of agonising over what type of fire I have a right to start, just don't light a fire at all

SunwaysSystems · 15/08/2026 11:54

I think people are missing some of the point of reducing BBQs and reducing risk of fire in general.

If we reduce the risk of ANY house fire, we'll be reducing the burden on fire services.

Some of the risk, however small, will come from home BBQs being unattended, not put out properly, or fuel not being used properly. So they're trying to reduce risk as much as possible.

Cigarette ends are obviously going to be a risk but I guess if you're the kind of muppet who flicks lit ends around you're probably not going to stop doing it.

Pacificbeach · 15/08/2026 11:52

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 11:47

OTT? People's homes have been burned to the ground and miles of countryside destroyed. On the continent people have died from fires for the same reasons.

From a gas bbq on someone back patio? Link please.

Poppingby · 15/08/2026 11:52

I think the alerts should be saved for when there is something concrete that I have to do. Like evacuate or (god forbid) duck and cover. Otherwise people stop paying attention because we get so much messaging everywhere all the time. You can issue info via the press and social media without it being a push message alert.

I had no BBQ or fire starting plans so it was a waste of useful adrenaline my end.

TiredCatLady · 15/08/2026 11:49

YABU.

Nature reserve at the end of the road was set on fire yesterday by some dickhead’s discarded cigarette. It was caught by a dog walker who alerted the fire service. They thankfully managed to put it out before it spread to the houses.

Common Sense isn’t common unfortunately. People are fucking morons.

Personally, I’d like to see disposable bbqs banned entirely - every year they lead to fires and the mess they generate is ridiculous.

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 11:48

Almert · 15/08/2026 11:45

You have to turn off the alerts by going into the settings, being off doesn't stop it

Google says phones off stops it.

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 11:47

Pacificbeach · 15/08/2026 11:44

We have a weber gas grill that sits on our patio against a brick wall. Totally different from a throw away disposable bbq being used on a dry grass field.

Surely most grown up people have common sense?

The alert was OTT in my opinion. It takes the focus away from why the government isn’t busy sorting out new reservoirs and dealing with how pipes will be renewed. (And no, saying renationalise isn’t a solution- we need a plan for pipe renewal and reservoirs either way.)

OTT? People's homes have been burned to the ground and miles of countryside destroyed. On the continent people have died from fires for the same reasons.

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/08/2026 11:46

incrediblyincredible · 15/08/2026 11:42

The only issue I feel about the whole thing is the fact that some vulnerable people have secret phones and that announcement wouldve caused them issues.

This was done To death a year ago in the test alert. It’s straight forward to turn off alerts. DA support services are well versed in advising it also

SunwaysSystems · 15/08/2026 11:46

Almert · 15/08/2026 11:42

It is just like Covid, all the people checking everyone else, thinking they are right, expressing their virtue on here and other online places, making up rules to suit themselves.

When you give advice, do you do it because you want to show how great you are?

Do you ever tell people not to do things purely because you enjoy it, and not to clarify a sensible course of action?

Or do you do it because you think it's necessary and proportionate in your situations?

Almert · 15/08/2026 11:45

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 11:44

I think if their phone is off the alert doesn't come on? I imagine I would have mine off if I had an emergency phone and only use it when I needed to, so that I could avoid having to charge it somewhere it might be seen.

You have to turn off the alerts by going into the settings, being off doesn't stop it

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 11:45

Almert · 15/08/2026 11:42

It is just like Covid, all the people checking everyone else, thinking they are right, expressing their virtue on here and other online places, making up rules to suit themselves.

I don't think people are "expressing their virtue" they are just being reasonable and thoughtful humans by following the spirit of the alert.

Pacificbeach · 15/08/2026 11:44

We have a weber gas grill that sits on our patio against a brick wall. Totally different from a throw away disposable bbq being used on a dry grass field.

Surely most grown up people have common sense?

The alert was OTT in my opinion. It takes the focus away from why the government isn’t busy sorting out new reservoirs and dealing with how pipes will be renewed. (And no, saying renationalise isn’t a solution- we need a plan for pipe renewal and reservoirs either way.)

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 11:44

incrediblyincredible · 15/08/2026 11:42

The only issue I feel about the whole thing is the fact that some vulnerable people have secret phones and that announcement wouldve caused them issues.

I think if their phone is off the alert doesn't come on? I imagine I would have mine off if I had an emergency phone and only use it when I needed to, so that I could avoid having to charge it somewhere it might be seen.

Almert · 15/08/2026 11:42

It is just like Covid, all the people checking everyone else, thinking they are right, expressing their virtue on here and other online places, making up rules to suit themselves.

Jaimelefromage · 15/08/2026 11:42

covilha · 15/08/2026 10:28

@Jaimelefromage - call 999 - it only takes one spark from the bbq to start a fire when the grass is TINDER dry.
Not risking my family and home because neighbour reckless enough to risk hers

You’ll get short shrift from them. They are specifically asking people not to call 999 when someone has a BBQ, as they are being inundated with calls.

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 11:42

Almert · 15/08/2026 11:38

Police have had to tell people to stop ringing 999 to report a neighbours bbq, and to only ring if it's a genuine emergency.

I can't believe people are having BBQs in this weather. Surely the hosepipe ban was a hint that they needed to avoid lighting fires.

incrediblyincredible · 15/08/2026 11:42

The only issue I feel about the whole thing is the fact that some vulnerable people have secret phones and that announcement wouldve caused them issues.

PensionPTake · 15/08/2026 11:41

Ratherhaveacupofteaandabiscuit · 15/08/2026 09:11

Thank you for your polite opinion but our local services (police) want to be informed.
Leaving it till there is an actual out of control fire is too late.

Edited

They want to be informed if someone is using a normal bbq in their garden? No they dont, the gov guidance says you can use normal bbqs at home as long as you dont leave them unattended.

HesterLeggatt · 15/08/2026 11:41

If we learned anything from Covid, it’s that people can be stupid, thoughtless and selfish and it’s important to spell things out if it puts people at risk.

I work in paeds. We will often tell parents they can clean various wounds, skin conditions, conjunctivitis etc with cooled boiled water. Every practitioner I know literally repeats the cooled part multiple times and has the parents repeat it back several times. I’m sure you can guess why.

I live near a popular tourist spot and have twice in the last week had to put out smouldering disposable bbqs that I came across whilst walking the dog. Nobody needs a burger so badly it’s worth setting fire to half of the county.

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 11:39

If people think not having a BBQ for a couple of weeks is against their personal freedoms, then wait until they find out how much personal freedom is lost when you don't have a house, or you die from a fire.

Free rights is about healthcare, education, the right to not be tortured. It's not the right to have a bloody BBQ.

Your neighbours have the right not to have their homes set on fire.

Yorkshirelass04 · 15/08/2026 11:39

Very silly hill to die on - literally. People's homes are burning. If the alert changed the outcome for even one fire that's worth it.

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/08/2026 11:39

Anyahyacinth · 15/08/2026 11:36

The political reasons ...are about avoiding the pathetic IMV outrage about not having bbq..about asking people not to use things they own...so the advice is all soft peddled. So as not to lose politucal support = political reasons.

(Sorry you seems to be stuck on the disposables when the advice is about lighting fires outside too ...I was talking about a wider view of political decision making)

What firefighters are saying when interviewed adjacent to wildfires is no fires outside please

Not too hard is it?

Which is exactly why this thread is questioning people deciding that others can’t have a reusable bbq in their garden. The fire service tried to be specific and people have still made up their own rules- just like Covid

Almert · 15/08/2026 11:38

Police have had to tell people to stop ringing 999 to report a neighbours bbq, and to only ring if it's a genuine emergency.

SunwaysSystems · 15/08/2026 11:37

Daskar · 15/08/2026 11:31

It’s embarrassing. The lack of discernment and common sense is genuinely disturbing. Why people feel the need to get their self worth by being a virtue signaller baffles me.

Do you think that telling people not to start fires feels nice and signals actual virtue?

I don't, and can't see why people insist that it is for others but not them.

It reminds me of the thread where people said OP was bragging because she said her daughter liked fish. Clearly something they thought was worthy of bragging about but most people wouldn't!