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Camping dilemma since fire alert

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SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 07:27

Off camping next week but been told no cooking stoves allowed now - so no hot water, no hot food.
There’s no pub or shops nearby either.

The site is saying we are inside 14 day cancellation so they are charging to move the dates back and we’ll lose full amount if we go elsewhere (although not even sure where else since the phone alert).

Camping with kids, with no hot food or drink - would you do it?

Does anyone know a site where we could cook still?

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Portmore · 15/08/2026 15:45

Most campsites unless they are really basic & completely off grid are supplying hot water in urns or kettles.

Otherwise cold food

ilovesushi · 15/08/2026 15:39

Presume you are going to the New Forest. It is sweltering here right now and staying hot through the night. Not having hot food is a non issue. I would definitely miss a coffee in the morning, but there are plenty of cafes to grab one. I am sure local businesses will be glad of your trade.

BogRollBOGOF · 15/08/2026 15:34

SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 14:17

In that case I wouldn't be going if they can not provide a way to access hot food and water.

I love camping from a couple of days wild camping to holidays with a comfortable camp set up.
But multiple days of denied access to decent hot food and water is not a holiday and not what you've signed up for.

They should give a refund because the conditions that they are providing have changed significantly and they affect basic provision and comfort, and the costs of mitigating that (e.g. eating out) are significant. Hopefully the government can reimburse businesses affected by localised restrictions.

If a refund isn't forthcoming, I'd still rather forgo the trip and additional costs such as fuel than have a shit, stressful time.

(Keen camper, and repeated survivor of cooking in a well-ventilated 7 man tent that's bigger than most kitchens 🤷‍♀️ and no I wouldn't heat a 2 man tent with a stove overnight)

ThreadGuardDog · 15/08/2026 15:20

It doesn’t protect them from having to give a refund in the circumstances though. The cancellation period doesn’t apply here.

Mumtotornadoes · 15/08/2026 15:13

Letmeknowifyouchangeyourmind · 15/08/2026 10:15

There's no pub or shop but obviously there'll be a dominos and a Chinese nearby

@Mumtotornadoes "obviously"?

Why is it obvious? I live literally next door to a campsite. There is definitely no Dominos/Chinese or any other sort of food outlet nearby.

TBF, there is a chip shop and a pub in the village, but they aren't particularly walkable as there are no pavements and a lot of blind bends on the fairly busy road. Not everywhere is exactly like where you live.

We could smell the active bbqs in our kitchen after the alert went off.

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Sarcasm. People are advising OP to just get takeaways or order delivery. Just get a chippy. Get a Tesco meal deal. When OP has already said there's no pub or shop nearby.

Maddy70 · 15/08/2026 15:09

Sandwiches and pub meal , or Buy a small electric job if you have hookup

AnonyMumAuDHD · 15/08/2026 14:59

SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 07:27

Off camping next week but been told no cooking stoves allowed now - so no hot water, no hot food.
There’s no pub or shops nearby either.

The site is saying we are inside 14 day cancellation so they are charging to move the dates back and we’ll lose full amount if we go elsewhere (although not even sure where else since the phone alert).

Camping with kids, with no hot food or drink - would you do it?

Does anyone know a site where we could cook still?

Tbh, I’m not sure I would go camping at the moment - having taken lots of Beavers scouts and brownies in the past, the heat, condensation and inability to sleep would be awful and if there is no substantial risk of rain where you are going, there is still a a risk of fire nearby - you could get trapped at the site and unable to leave easily (am thinking of the New Forest fires and the impact on the A31.) Obviously it has now taken a turn and is becoming cooler, but the safety and general [lack of] enjoyability of the experience would be enough for me to decide to cancel.

FedUpCelery · 15/08/2026 14:58

I think I would push for my money back and go elsewhere. It's easy for them to say just go to a cafe etc.... Not being able to even have a hot drink while relaxing on a morning or evening is pretty miserable.

I'm imagining when my children were younger probably sleeping less well than at home and then having to spend ages getting them ready, rounding them up, piling into the car then driving somewhere to have my first coffee off the day. That's not fun when camping is about taking things slowly and relaxing in nice surroundings.

TheOnlyWayIsIlford · 15/08/2026 14:51

I am ;planning on going next weekend, and my intended site are in the process of clarifying whether they can allow stoves or not.

I can manage fine with cold food but not sure about morning coffee - but they do have a coffee machine at Reception so I could manage with that, maybe.

TheOnlyWayIsIlford · 15/08/2026 14:48

Gemilo · 15/08/2026 08:29

I’m interested to know how much you have to pay for a campsite with no facilities except showers and loos?

I paid £18 a night for a pitch a couple of weeks ago. Glorious site, compost loos, hot shower, hot water tap for washing up, acres of space around me, and peace and quiet.
Bliss.

ThreadGuardDog · 15/08/2026 14:39

SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 14:18

For anyone not clicking the link above:

Due to an extreme wildfire risk identified by Forestry England, BBQs, campfires, stoves and all outdoor cooking equipment are not permitted on any Camping New Forest campsite until further notice.

So you were going to a New Forest camp ground - sorry if I’m being thick but I couldn’t find anything in your updates that said where you were going. Not that it makes any difference OP. If you would rather cancel and try to find somewhere else, then as per my posts above, the holiday provider has significantly changed the terms and conditions of the original holiday, so the 14 day cancellation period doesn’t apply. Legally they have to refund you. They will know this, which is likely why they’re not answering your emails.

TallagallaPenguin · 15/08/2026 14:34

If it were us, OP, and it wasn’t tooo far to drive to get there, I’d compromise and go for a shorter than planned camp. I’d get one of those car plug in things to heat water for coffee, prep loads of cold nice food for evenings, pack the cool box tight with it all, and pre-book a couple of pub meals if possible. If you’re in the new forest there will be pubs nearby by car, even though you’ve said there aren’t any close by (I assume you mean to walk to?).

We go to the same kind of campsite it sounds like you’re talking about - no EHU, def no microwaves in the washing up area, no nearby cafes / pizza delivery. I tend to require campsite freezers to keep ice packs fresh, and hot showers, but beyond that we’re pretty flexible.

We’re only an hour or so from the new forest so for me it’d be worth a short trip, but if it’s many hours drive, I’m not sure I’d want to do that. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

SillyBilly123456 · 15/08/2026 14:24

Get one of those little kettles you can plug into the car lighter. At least then you can have hot drinks or pot noodles, everything else is manageable - a bigger meal at lunchtime out and about and then sandwiches or snack bits in the evening. You could even get a couple of big flasks and ask cafes to fill with boiling water, if you explain why.
It's unfortunate, but not worth losing out on your holiday.

SingSling · 15/08/2026 14:21

I am sorry, OP. When a much longed for holiday doesn’t go to plan, it can be really disappointing. And some of the suggestions on here about takeaways etc are really quite expensive.

SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 14:18

For anyone not clicking the link above:

Due to an extreme wildfire risk identified by Forestry England, BBQs, campfires, stoves and all outdoor cooking equipment are not permitted on any Camping New Forest campsite until further notice.

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Carrie76 · 15/08/2026 14:18

You can get car kettles at least then you could have a hot dtink.

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ThreadGuardDog · 15/08/2026 14:06

Sulgari · 15/08/2026 13:56

I wouldn’t go, it sounds bloody awful. Long days as well, with no cooking to do

I think it’s really unfair of them not to refund you given the circumstances too

Are you definitely not allowed a small camping stove? They’re still allowed at festivals for example.

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OP can take them to small claims court if they don’t offer a refund. The refund policy doesn’t cover anything other than the holidaymaker cancelling for their own reasons, not for the provider changing the terms of the holiday. Which is what this amounts to. That’s likely the reason they’re not answering emails.

ThreadGuardDog · 15/08/2026 14:01

Dliplop · 15/08/2026 13:53

Depending on the cancellation policy does it make sense to go 1-2 nights? Leave home really early one morning and buy a last tea at the final service station, then do iced instant coffee and cold meals for 2 days, maybe drive out for lunches. Make it one of those messed up holidays to remember instead of losing out on the whole thing

The camp site are legally bound to offer OP a refund. These policies only refer to the holidaymaker cancelling because of their own circumstances/change of mind, not when the providers have changed the terms and conditions of the original holiday - which is exactly what imposing a ban on cooking does.

Redintoothandclaw · 15/08/2026 14:01

Do you spend all day in the campsite? I'd want to go out during the day, so I'd buy a croissant or a roll from a shop for breakfast, or have a coffee at a cafe, then have a picnic lunch and then have a meal out in the evening.

hereforthelolz · 15/08/2026 14:01

ThreadGuardDog · 15/08/2026 13:49

Any idea how many people have died doing this ? Dozens of campers die every year from carbon monoxide poisoning from the stoves.

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That’s generally because they are using the stoves or BBQs to heat their tents while they sleep. Not because they’re boiling water for a cuppa with the tent doors open.

Morepositivemum · 15/08/2026 13:59

Gengha

It is crap and I know people don’t want to just make do but it’s better than not going

ThreadGuardDog · 15/08/2026 13:59

Loulou4022 · 15/08/2026 13:52

The campsite have decided that they quite like their surroundings and don’t want to lose their business to a fire so have banned naked flames!!

Yes, I know. Read the comments properly. What I’m saying is that there is no ban on properly used gas camping stoves, but by imposing the ban themselves, the camp site have changed the terms and conditions on which they offered OP the holiday, so they should be offering rebooking at a later date or a refund. Even if the local authority in that area have imposed a local ban, this would still be the case.

Sulgari · 15/08/2026 13:56

I wouldn’t go, it sounds bloody awful. Long days as well, with no cooking to do

I think it’s really unfair of them not to refund you given the circumstances too

Are you definitely not allowed a small camping stove? They’re still allowed at festivals for example.