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Camping dilemma since fire alert

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SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 07:27

Off camping next week but been told no cooking stoves allowed now - so no hot water, no hot food.
There’s no pub or shops nearby either.

The site is saying we are inside 14 day cancellation so they are charging to move the dates back and we’ll lose full amount if we go elsewhere (although not even sure where else since the phone alert).

Camping with kids, with no hot food or drink - would you do it?

Does anyone know a site where we could cook still?

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LillyPeaceFlowerSun · 15/08/2026 09:22

Laura95167 · 15/08/2026 09:20

I dont know.

Im absolutely team let's be safe.

Just wasnt clear from the alert how long it lasts or if we get another alert or what have you

Yes. Will be informed? It’s rained here. Not much but enough that my patio is still damp.

Nutmuncher · 15/08/2026 09:22

We always ate out when we camped so that’s an option but I think it’s due to rain a lot next week so you may be ok? Hopefully the weather in general is good for your holiday but some rain would let you cook?

NotMeNoNo · 15/08/2026 09:21

I think the overall problem is the late change and not being allowed to cancel. I can see the site owners problem too. I just looked into it and some areas like New Forest have banned all open flames specifically including camping stoves.
I feel for you, I love camping but not without coffee!

LillyPeaceFlowerSun · 15/08/2026 09:20

SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 07:27

Off camping next week but been told no cooking stoves allowed now - so no hot water, no hot food.
There’s no pub or shops nearby either.

The site is saying we are inside 14 day cancellation so they are charging to move the dates back and we’ll lose full amount if we go elsewhere (although not even sure where else since the phone alert).

Camping with kids, with no hot food or drink - would you do it?

Does anyone know a site where we could cook still?

Are the camp site offering anything to help? Like offering somewhere to boil a kettle at least? How far away is the nearest cafe/pub etc?

Also where are you going? It rained here last night. So it might change.

You can get camping generators. May be that and a travel kettle?

Laura95167 · 15/08/2026 09:20

DierdreDaphne · 15/08/2026 08:57

Till it rains properly I would hope? It's the fact everything is so dry that's the main problem afaik

I dont know.

Im absolutely team let's be safe.

Just wasnt clear from the alert how long it lasts or if we get another alert or what have you

Owninterpreter · 15/08/2026 09:20

I see you say no electric hook up.
Is that the whole site or just your pitch. Someone might let you borrow thier electric for a kettle, its a gamble?

Id be tempted to go, but shorten the trip

Im not sure id enjoy it as a holiday without a hot drink in the morning to be honest and we tend to cook on site to keep costs down, so we boil water for pasta or rice and fry some bits.

Cold breakfast and lunch is fine an easy and eating out once or twice ok, but sometimes you fancy a pasta pesto for dinner and your morning coffee with a bacon buttie.

SummerDive · 15/08/2026 09:19

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 08:26

I'd just move the date and would just be grateful my house hasn't been gutted by a fire. The idea of trying to find recommendations where you can start a fire while camping in this weather is alarming. There's a reason it's banned.

You realise that in places where fires area much more common thing, it’s totally ok to have a stove to cook?
That having a stove to cook does NOT mean you’re starting a fire in the campsite.
And that the vast majority of the fires we’ve had are started VOLUNTARILY. Theyre not accident.

I actually have a big issue with our PM going on about disposable bbq. Not because they are not a problem (when used carelessly which a lot of people do). But because it gives this feeling that all the fires were started with people having a bbq/stove/camping and being careless. It is not.

watchingthishtread · 15/08/2026 09:18

SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 08:22

lots of questions , i’ll try answer

The site aren’t really replying to emails (1 in 3 so far) - we asked for hot water kettle but no reply
No electric, we are in a tent, not a camper
No communal microwaves/fridges - it’s basic but has showers
No shared area to boil a kettle
It’s Mon-Fri

I think we just have to go, can’t afford to lose the money

You've lost the money whether you go or not. If you think you can still have a good time then go but if you think it'll ruin your holiday why pay for a horrible week away? You'd be better off paying not to go.

LancashireButterPie · 15/08/2026 09:17

Firstly, I don't think the campsite is necessarily being unreasonable. I've stayed at a Norfolk campsite, way out in the sticks, during a drought and we didn't feel safe at all because of the fire risk. People we actually using accelerant to light their barbecues 😬. On a dry heath, surrounded by pines.

Ring the campsite instead of emailing.you are more likely to get a response.

Read all reviews and see if anyone mentions if there is a cookout area (often near the washing up area) where you can plug in a hotplate and/or a kettle.

Take a cool bag or box and freezer packs to keep milk/butter/ mayo cold. I've never stated at a campsite that didn't have a system for refreezing ice blocks.

Croissants/cereal bars/fruit for breakfast.

Lunch out and about or french bread and houmous etc for lunch.

Dinner, you have takeaway options? Visiting food vans? Supermarket cafes (for economy) and pubs.

At the risk of sounding like chat gpt, If you tell us the campsite or area we can be more specific.

SurferRona · 15/08/2026 09:16

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/08/2026 08:19

Ridiculous. I've just come back from a week of camping, ground just as dry as it is now. Bbqs and open fires were banned but not gas stoves. If I were you, I would either boil water on the sly in my tent (but hardly the relaxing trip you were planning) or cancel. Small claims court if they won't refund. A week of camping with no cooking facilities is unacceptable. At the very least, they should be providing a safe hardstanding area where people can gather to cook.

Please please don’t do this. It’s now illegal to cook with an open flame, you would have to close the tent right up and there is the risk of carbon monoxide poisoning. People have died with the dying embers of a barbecue being brought into their tent. Too easy for errors to happen, don’t take the risk.

Wingingit73 · 15/08/2026 09:15

I wouldn't go but does your holiday insurance not cover it or credit card? Etc.

Monty36 · 15/08/2026 09:13

Assuming you don’t intend to stay at the campsite all week but venture out, eat during the day. Go out for breakfast, lunch turn into dinner. And take a snack back for tea.

This is what holiday insurance is for.

Depending on where you are you might get some rain soon though so their policy may change again.

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 09:12

OP - I think you either need to let go of what you thought the week would be like and just embrace what could be funny memories to look back on, or rearrange it.

Some of my favourite memories are when things haven't gone to plan. Don't fret. Just adapt!

Sunshineandrainbow · 15/08/2026 09:10

Depending on what you want to cook and if you have electric at the site.

Look at an electric stove and also an electric grill. Lots available and look pretty good. Can then do pasta etc. the hobs are approx £20 - 40

Edit to say, Sorry just seen you have no electric, do kind of power banks exist for normal 3 prong plug?

GoldenSandy · 15/08/2026 09:09

WonderingWanda · 15/08/2026 08:38

I think breakfasts and lunches are doable but trying to think of a week of cold dinners when your will get a maximum of 2 days out of the coll box and no way to reheat is a real challenge. You will have to eat out in the evenings or travel home each day via a supermarket to pick up cold meats and salad.

How far is the nearest town op?

Wouldn't they have had to do this anyway? Presumably hot food would also need storage?
I think if someone is high maintenance then staying in the middle of nowhere was alway going to be a bad idea in the first place.

teacoffeeorpassthegin · 15/08/2026 09:07

RareRubyRobin · 15/08/2026 09:04

I found one - Car kettle - https://amzn.eu/d/0dee4EPh at least you can have a cuppa.

I travel around for work and often work in my car between visits - I’m so tempted to get one 🤣🤣

Catza · 15/08/2026 09:07

SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 08:22

lots of questions , i’ll try answer

The site aren’t really replying to emails (1 in 3 so far) - we asked for hot water kettle but no reply
No electric, we are in a tent, not a camper
No communal microwaves/fridges - it’s basic but has showers
No shared area to boil a kettle
It’s Mon-Fri

I think we just have to go, can’t afford to lose the money

Go and have an adventure. It's probably too hot for hot meals anyway and you can easily have cereal, salads and sandwiches for a few days and maybe go out for a meal once or twice. I know you said there were no pubs nearby but surely you'll be exploring the area and there will definitely be one in a 10 mile radius.

Muchtoomuchtodo · 15/08/2026 09:07

It’s a shame that the site aren’t being proactive and providing communal hot water urns, microwaves etc.

it would be doable with cold food, it’s just a matter of whether or not that would be acceptable to your and your family.

With young kids, a lack of hot water would be pretty unhygienic. We always had a bowl of hot soapy water to wash hands before eating and for a quick wash before bed when they were young.

Not sure if it’s worth it if the site fees were reasonable but would your travel insurance cover the costs as there’s been a significant chance to the t’s and c’s?

Tulipvase · 15/08/2026 09:05

ifonly4 · 15/08/2026 08:53

We went camping a couple of weeks ago. It was so hot, I think we boiled the kettle twice, and come to think of it, I don't remember the other four parties we were with drinking a hot drink. Admittedly we usually eat out once (usually have to drive) and get a takeaway once. The rest of the time we eat cereals, crossiants, brioche, fruit, yogurts for breakfast, mainly sandwiches/wraps and fruit for lunch, in evening everything seemed to be salad based and we did a mixture of things between us. I took loads of boiled eggs, and we had tuna, cheese and chicken slices, with salad. Other parties took some cold pizza and pre-made frittatas. You could cook some quinioa/coucous before living to add something to. Also, could take quiche. Others would buy a made salad in. I guess at some point you'll go out during the week, so you can pick up extras then, have a hot drink, if funds permit you could also have a hot meal then if it's essential.

Hope you still manage to go away and have a nice time. It's cooling down a bit, so should be much nicer.

It doesn’t look as if it’s going to be anywhere near as hot next week but unless it rains, the ban will likely still apply. In my area it looks to be 22 in the day and lows of approx 10-12. One night showing 8. I’d certainly be more inclined to want to cook in those temps. And I’m in the SE, where it has been unbearably hot. I’m glamping the week after, luckily with a full kitchen available but I will be disappointed if we can’t have a fire of an evening.

Foodielady · 15/08/2026 09:04

Is electric hook up available on the site at all? Could you buy a small, portable electric hob (single hobs are about £36 on amazon and doubles are about £75).

MildlyMoist · 15/08/2026 09:04

It’s so easy to knock over a camping stove, many of them aren’t very stable. Camping equipment is all nylon and other flammable fibres, and the grass is desiccated as are surrounding bushes and trees. I could see a major fire taking hold in a few minutes on a campsite in England until we have had significant rain and the grass has greened back up.

Fire is terrifying and fire on a campsite would be doubly so. I would be over over cautious or making other plans.

fluffythecat1 · 15/08/2026 09:03

I would take it as not allowed to use a bbq or anything ground level, however a gas stove on a table well clear of the ground to boil a kettle for cups of tea and a pan for cooking would be ok?

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