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Lindsay Clancy was let down

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hds873banana · 14/08/2026 10:47

For those of you who may not know, Lindsay Clancy is an American mother who killed her three children (all under age 5) then tried to commit suicide by throwing herself out of a window, and is now wheelchair bound as a result. Her defence is she was in the throws of post natal psychosis.

You can watch the full trial on Court TV. The trial is ongoing now.

She was totally let down by the system, the doctors, maybe even her husband. I’ve never watched a full trial and been so appalled at what I am seeing and hearing. Kevin Reddington her lawyer needs an award.

It is interesting to me because I have a close relative who I’ve cared for for over a decade who is regularly in psychosis. The lack of understanding of psychosis generally is wild. I My relative can slip in and out of psychosis on a minute by minute basis some days.

I really hope Lindsay’s defence lawyer gets the best outcome for her even though her life is completely ruined whatever the outcome of the trial.

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11AndCounting · Today 00:07

I suppose I'm underselling it a little, because Fake Patrick would also need to match Real Patrick's biometric profile due to the Apple Watch tracking. What we probably need is a long lost identical twin who, in adulthood, has maintained biometrics identical to those of his brother.

I do accept there is going to be real egg on my face if the long lost twin is found, and Patrick's extraordinary powers of mind manipulation are established.

11AndCounting · Yesterday 23:40

Grammarnut · Yesterday 23:30

Are you suggesting he murdered his DC and threw his wife out of the window. Wouldn't she say if this had happened?

I believe the theory is that he (Real Patrick) had a doppelganger (Fake Patrick) collect his mobile phone from the house, drive on some errands (so that there would be extensive evidence that he was out of the house at the time the killings took place).

Meanwhile, Real Patrick murdered the children and successfully implanted false memories in Lindsay's head, convincing her that she did it after hearing voices in her head, prompting her suicide attempt.

Then, Fake Patrick drove back to the house, handed Real Patrick the phone, and then he promptly called the police, while Fake Patrick make his escape.

Grammarnut · Yesterday 23:30

TheJuryIsOut · 14/08/2026 10:48

I'm not one for conspiracy theories but I'm actually starting to wonder if she did it at all. The husband is quite suspicious in what he says and has contradicted himself on a few occasions now.

Are you suggesting he murdered his DC and threw his wife out of the window. Wouldn't she say if this had happened?

11AndCounting · Yesterday 22:31

pinkdyno · Yesterday 20:58

Well, because

they have to follow her instructions, so she thinks she did.

why do they not blame him? Because they don’t have to. They have to prove she didn’t.

nothing else.

And because she did it, of course, and no-one whose brain hasnt been rotted by "true" crime and social media would claim otherwise.

pinkdyno · Yesterday 20:58

Chickadiddy · 05/09/2026 21:31

And yet her highly paid professional defence lawyers with access to a lot more information than you, accept she did it.

Wonder why?

Well, because

they have to follow her instructions, so she thinks she did.

why do they not blame him? Because they don’t have to. They have to prove she didn’t.

nothing else.

Firefly1987 · Yesterday 20:51

Usually people are at pains to point out that mental health issues don't make someone more prone to violence and they are usually the victim. Yet here we have a woman who was not even diagnosed with PPP and people are jumping at the chance to blame a mental health condition for what she did.

My brother has schizophrenia and I can't imagine him getting an ounce of sympathy like this woman has if he hurt anyone. Is this all because she killed her own kids not other peoples so women don't feel threatened by her?

Gloriia · Yesterday 12:04

MintChocCat · Yesterday 09:48

Do people not realise that she isn’t claiming to have not killed her children.

This court case is about whether she should be held criminally responsible for her actions, with lawyers arguing that Lindsay was suffering from PPP/extreme mental illness at the time.

Yes we do realise that. It was only the one poster who declared that she hadn't killed them but thanks for the reminder for those not up to speed with this atrocity.

Most of us agree yes she admitted to it but is trying to get off with a very unusual never seen before or since psychotic episode excuse/explanation call it what you will.

You can have mental health issues and still plan and kill children and be absolutely responsible. Google it, it has happened before. Most get found guilty and locked up so no idea why the jurors think Clancy is a special case.

MintChocCat · Yesterday 09:48

Do people not realise that she isn’t claiming to have not killed her children.

This court case is about whether she should be held criminally responsible for her actions, with lawyers arguing that Lindsay was suffering from PPP/extreme mental illness at the time.

MintChocCat · Yesterday 09:45

Gloriia · 05/09/2026 20:24

'That’s why we have trained professionals who can diagnose presentations!'

Yep and the trained professionals said a psychotic episode does not usually last 18 minutes only, never seen before or after and people do not usually take calls mid episode.

Edited

Actually a psychotic episode can last from
a few hours to several months.

Missey85 · Yesterday 02:58

PolkaDotPorridge · 05/09/2026 20:46

FFS. 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️No need for this thread. She didn’t do it and I would bet my house on that. A years wages too.

So the children killed themselves? What a bloody moron! She killed them and deserves to rot in a cell

11AndCounting · Yesterday 01:41

PolkaDotPorridge · 05/09/2026 20:46

FFS. 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️No need for this thread. She didn’t do it and I would bet my house on that. A years wages too.

Were you experiencing an episode of psychosis when you posted this?

FOJN · 05/09/2026 21:43

marvelousmarmaladian · 05/09/2026 08:21

Is an 18 minute psychosis actually real? I have had a close relative with psychosis and it took months for him to be back to himself.

The improbability of that seemed to be key to the prosecution but LC was intubated and in no condition to be properly evaluated by a psychiatrist for several days afterwards. First responders said she could not talk. She would likely have received sedation whilst the was intubated which would also mask signs of psychiatric disturbance. I don't think it's possible to establish, with certainty, the length of her psychosis, if that's what happened.

Chickadiddy · 05/09/2026 21:31

PolkaDotPorridge · 05/09/2026 20:46

FFS. 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️No need for this thread. She didn’t do it and I would bet my house on that. A years wages too.

And yet her highly paid professional defence lawyers with access to a lot more information than you, accept she did it.

Wonder why?

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 21:03

PolkaDotPorridge · 05/09/2026 20:46

FFS. 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️No need for this thread. She didn’t do it and I would bet my house on that. A years wages too.

Really? Why didn’t the defence team say this?

PolkaDotPorridge · 05/09/2026 20:46

FFS. 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️No need for this thread. She didn’t do it and I would bet my house on that. A years wages too.

Chickadiddy · 05/09/2026 20:44

Maybe the husband was an out and out twat.
Maybe she was suffering severe psychosis.

But killing your own children is an abomination whatever the circumstances.
She is a monster.

Gloriia · 05/09/2026 20:24

'That’s why we have trained professionals who can diagnose presentations!'

Yep and the trained professionals said a psychotic episode does not usually last 18 minutes only, never seen before or after and people do not usually take calls mid episode.

MintChocCat · 05/09/2026 20:20

I don’t think all murderers will be able to plea psychosis. That’s why we have trained professionals who can diagnose presentations!

It seems this case has brought out the “black and white thinking” in a lot of people. We have diminished responsibility for a reason, and that’s what court is there to establish.

Gloriia · 05/09/2026 19:43

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We disagree, that is what happens on chat forums. Try to debate politely though.

Obviously it's a really distressing case but talking to posters like this is really unpleasant.

hds873banana · 05/09/2026 19:38

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Gloriia · 05/09/2026 13:35

'A diagnosis is often not helpful anyway for the day to day'

What do you suggest then because otherwise all murderers will plea psychosis because well labels are 'not helpful' and it can change minute by minute?

Experts examined her behaviour, they testified that her presentation was atypical/fake. It lasted 18mins never seen before never to be seen after. That is not how psychosis works.

Again, sorry for what you endured with your parent but you keep trying to equate it to this atrocity.

People can have mental health issues, murder children and still be responsible. Google it. Loads of them sadly.

hds873banana · 05/09/2026 11:59

Interesting that many seemed really fixated on whether ‘she had a diagnosis’ of psychosis. Getting a diagnosis for many conditions linked to the brain can take many years. Because the conditions are so complex, change minute by minute, hour by hour, in many cases. A diagnosis is often not helpful anyway for the day to day. What is more helpful is to look at the individual as a whole person and how they are presenting and what their symptoms and behaviour are - seen and unseen. You could be in psychosis for many months and years, and no one would know. Like my own DM. Well I knew - I just didn’t know the name for it for the first few years and everyone gaslit me. And my DM was capable of presenting perfectly sane in front of experienced doctors and experts. Often - there has to be a huge, outwardly obvious crisis for other people to see it. And that can take time.

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TrishM80 · 05/09/2026 11:46

Waiting for someone to start an "Alan Hawe was let down" thread and see how long it stays up.

YourWatermelonship · 05/09/2026 08:46

Gloriia · 04/09/2026 14:02

Mental health issues can and do affect anyone true. I don't dispute that. Everyone seems to be on meds for mh nowadays.

The point is mental health issues <even hormonal post partum issues> should not be considered sufficient excuse for killing children. She knew what she was doing was wrong.

The two women I know of who had PPP had to be sectioned for months. They were very clearly a danger to themselves and others, including their babies. This is a severe, life-changing disorder and describing it as "a hormonal issue" is minimising the seriousness of it.

waitinginwonderland · 05/09/2026 08:34

marvelousmarmaladian · 05/09/2026 08:21

Is an 18 minute psychosis actually real? I have had a close relative with psychosis and it took months for him to be back to himself.

Some mental health professionals argue it needs to be one full day for diagnosis, others say it can last minutes to years, it just depends. The diagnostic criteria is also different depending on the type of psychosis.