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Do you hang your undies on the washing line?

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sweetpickle2 · 12/08/2026 11:17

Just that really.

I had a friend round for a cup of tea and as I was hanging up my washing she was horrified I was putting up my undies (just basic M&S black knickers, nothing out of the ordinary!) and said she always hangs her delicates inside as she "doesn't think her neighbours want to see that".

Am I the weird one??

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BlibBlabBlob · 12/08/2026 13:45

Don't care if anyone sees my knickers drying on the line outside.

DO care if anyone sees my middle aged lumpy body actually wearing the knickers!

But the only thing on my line right now is actually DD's white reusable period pads. Because they need the sun to bleach them fully white again after use. She's an easily-embarrassed teenager, but it hasn't occurred even to her that this is unacceptable. Interested to hear that reusable pads (not pants) are where others draw the line!

Davros · 12/08/2026 13:43

It helps with knowing what time it is:
What’s the time? Half past nine
Hang your knickers on the line
Ten o’clock, take ‘em off
Put ‘em on a dirty cloff
When a copper comes along
Hurry up and put them on

KoiTetra · 12/08/2026 13:39

I run round the garden holding them up hoping to wind dry them

namechange6766333545544 · 12/08/2026 13:30

DeanGaffneysCumFace · 12/08/2026 13:14

Why though? Are you ashamed of your turds? Do you do rabbit droppings and not proper danger to shipping logs?

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Mine are like chocolate log cakes, so if someone does see them they might put them on a wooden board and attempt to slice them and serve the slices with cups of tea. That wouldn’t be healthy at all.

muddyford · 12/08/2026 13:26

I always hang mine on the line. Our front faces south so in the winter I sometimes put out a clothes horse in the sun. Except I handwashed my sports bras and put them out there and forgot. Only remembered when I was saying goodbye to our priest and noticed them. He's young enough to be my son and didn't turn a hair!

QuintadosMalvados · 12/08/2026 13:20

AtlasPine · 12/08/2026 11:36

I helicopter mine over my head up and down the high street singing Gregorian chants to ensure the front and back bottom devils leave and fresh genital angels enter.

Its always worked for me and means they don’t have to be visible on the line in my back garden.

High Street? Full of toxic fumes.
Everybody knows you should only do this while walking through country fields.

F*ing skank.

LittleRobins · 12/08/2026 13:19

Yes everything goes out. Our neighbours don’t hang theirs out though so maybe we’re being judged?!

allgoodhere783 · 12/08/2026 13:16

I remember a guy getting annoyed by seeing his female flatmate's laundry out in the open. I found that odd too. Can he not control himself when he sees a garment hanging out to dry?

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 12/08/2026 13:16

Everything goes out.
I remember Mum being under strict instructions from Dad not to hang his long johns outside as he didn't want the neighbours to know he wore them !

RedGlassHeart · 12/08/2026 13:15

MsIceSandwich · 12/08/2026 11:26

When we renovated our house we specifically built a cupboard to dry wet underwear in, it saves us any embarrassment from the neighbours seeing them. It's also a good way of stopping the devil from entering.

Love this, true or not 😂

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DeanGaffneysCumFace · 12/08/2026 13:14

namechange6766333545544 · 12/08/2026 12:48

We also all have poos but i don’t want anyone to see my poos. It’s not weird to have boundaries.

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Why though? Are you ashamed of your turds? Do you do rabbit droppings and not proper danger to shipping logs?

allgoodhere783 · 12/08/2026 13:13

What's all this about the devil?? Is this some British cultural thing that I've never picked up on? (am an immigrant so am intrigued).

I've never thought not to, period stuff, nappies and all! Esp. since sunlight is good to kill germs. But neighbours don't really have a good line of sight to my laundry either.

noonames · 12/08/2026 13:13

I don’t, but it’s because there isn’t usually room on the line for a whole wash, so small items (up to and including vests and shorts) go on the clothes horse and larger items on the line. If I can be arsed I’ll put the clothes horse outside.

lcakethereforeIam · 12/08/2026 13:12

Hang my undies out, gussets facing away from the neighbour (I do have some standards!), but I dry my bras inside. Partly because they're expensive if some pervert did nick 'em. Mostly because if the wind caught them...I'm under a flightpath and I'd hate to bring down a plane 😁

WearyAuldWumman · 12/08/2026 13:06

Your friend is weird.

Silverbirchleaf · 12/08/2026 13:04

DramaAlpaca · 12/08/2026 11:28

I do. The neighbours can't see my washing line, but I put undies on the inside bits of the twirly-gig thing hidden behind the t-shirts just in case anyone is interested in my underwear ;)

Me too. Undies on the inside so hidden by T-shirts etc.

emuloc · 12/08/2026 13:03

No, never.

danceon · 12/08/2026 13:01

I had never thought not to. But will now be watching to see who is ogling my washing from the trampoline next door.

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sweetpickle2 · 12/08/2026 13:01

2ndHandLou · 12/08/2026 12:33

Out of interest why do so many posters on here have friends who have extreme reactions to things?

So many threads where friends are shocked, horrified, amazed etc

I can't remember a time when I or anybody my friends over-reacted to normal everyday things. It's very strange to me

Not understanding hyperbole is very strange to me.

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Tryagain26 · 12/08/2026 12:51

I hang everything out. I doubt me neighbours peer into my garden to look at my washing!

CeeJay81 · 12/08/2026 12:50

Yep and so do my neighbours(a couple in their 70s). We have a low wall, so no privacy in our garden but I dont care and I'm pretty sure they don't either. We just want the washing dry.

namechange6766333545544 · 12/08/2026 12:48

Wingingit73 · 12/08/2026 12:47

We all wear underwear. She's strange.

We also all have poos but i don’t want anyone to see my poos. It’s not weird to have boundaries.

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 12/08/2026 12:48

Yes, I wouldn't deny my neighbours the pleasure.

cinquanta · 12/08/2026 12:47

I regard myself as fairly laid back with most things, but I don’t hang my knickers on the line.

I quite often have chats with my neighbours over the garden wall and I would feel a bit self conscious with my smalls dangling in the background.

MajorProcrastination · 12/08/2026 12:47

You are not the weird one!

I am not ashamed to wear knickers. It's normal to wear underwear.
I am not ashamed that my neighbours might see proof that I wash my knickers. It's normal and preferable to clean your pants.
My neighbours shouldn't be paying attention to what's on my washing line.

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