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Do you hang your undies on the washing line?

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sweetpickle2 · 12/08/2026 11:17

Just that really.

I had a friend round for a cup of tea and as I was hanging up my washing she was horrified I was putting up my undies (just basic M&S black knickers, nothing out of the ordinary!) and said she always hangs her delicates inside as she "doesn't think her neighbours want to see that".

Am I the weird one??

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sueelleker · 12/08/2026 21:25

The only reason I don't hang mine out is that they'd take up too much space on the line. Not from modesty.

ComtesseDeSpair · 12/08/2026 21:18

I concede actually that I did once pay mild attention to my neighbours’ boxers on the line because I was curious about the laundry taxonomy: they’d washed and hung out five work shirts, four skirts, four dresses, and a single pair of boxers. Surely there must have been more boxers worn? Why did one pair of boxers desperately need washing? Are they his only pair? His lucky pair he desperately needed for an interview the following day? Who knows.

Mylovelygreendress · 12/08/2026 21:16

Guarddogdaschunds · 12/08/2026 21:14

Sorry, but I think hanging up your undergarments is incredibly undignified and slovenly. I was always taught that it was something the common neighbours would do, so I ensure that my undergarments are hung up to dry inside rather than letting them hang in the garden in the manner of discoloured bunting. There may well be men in the surrounding houses that may feel uncomfortable at the sight of your underwear. I certainly wouldn't want the men in the surrounding houses gawping at my M&S briefs!

Edited

Are you my DD’s neighbour ??

Pinkflamingo10 · 12/08/2026 21:15

I hang all mine out. Granny pants, Spanx pants, period pants, the works. I doubt anyone gives a shit about other peoples laundry ?! If they do they are one sad article.

Guarddogdaschunds · 12/08/2026 21:14

Sorry, but I think hanging up your undergarments is incredibly undignified and slovenly. I was always taught that it was something the common neighbours would do, so I ensure that my undergarments are hung up to dry inside rather than letting them hang in the garden in the manner of discoloured bunting. There may well be men in the surrounding houses that may feel uncomfortable at the sight of your underwear. I certainly wouldn't want the men in the surrounding houses gawping at my M&S briefs!

lazyarse123 · 12/08/2026 21:14

I don't but only because we live in a park home and it has a glass porch which is hotter than hell so i put them on an airer in there and at the moment they are dry in a couple of hours. It just happens that it's easier for anyone passing to see in there than the garden. I do get sick of saying to dh that clothes dry quicker in there than outside as every time I do it he pipes up "why don't you hang them out?" My system works for me.

tigger1001 · 12/08/2026 21:10

It's honestly never occurred to me not to put them out. They are just clothing. And if it upsets others they have the option not to look.

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 12/08/2026 21:09

Communal drying area dw no
Mine yes
No expensive clothing hung outside
Communal area also a short cut.

Screamingabdabz · 12/08/2026 21:06

Mylovelygreendress · 12/08/2026 21:00

DD1 has a neighbour who had twice asked her to stop hanging out underwear . Apparently it upsets her DH and teenage son to see female underwear .
DD told her to suggest they stop looking .

😮

Ffs. I dread to think what kind of depraved men get their wife to censor their neighbour’s laundry because it sends them into a frenzy. I would be pegging out letters of the alphabet to say ‘GET A LIFE YOU SAD LITTLE PERVS’.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 12/08/2026 21:04

MsIceSandwich · 12/08/2026 11:26

When we renovated our house we specifically built a cupboard to dry wet underwear in, it saves us any embarrassment from the neighbours seeing them. It's also a good way of stopping the devil from entering.

The devil enters your fanny through your knickers?

IAmNotMyJobTitle · 12/08/2026 21:01

We have a septic tank and I’ve just started using washable bamboo wipes instead of toilet paper for wees. They go on the line too

Mylovelygreendress · 12/08/2026 21:00

DD1 has a neighbour who had twice asked her to stop hanging out underwear . Apparently it upsets her DH and teenage son to see female underwear .
DD told her to suggest they stop looking .

Specialneedsnightmare · 12/08/2026 21:00

No I dry underwear inside. I'm in a flat and share a washing line with other households so I would feel funny about having my knickers and period pants on display.

IAmNotMyJobTitle · 12/08/2026 20:59

8TinyToeBeans · 12/08/2026 11:21

I hang everything on the line, apart from washable period pads, I draw the line there!

When I had periods mine went on the line!

Clydebuilt · 12/08/2026 20:54

Yes…our underwear gets hung out!

Liverpoolxxx · 12/08/2026 20:50

8TinyToeBeans · 12/08/2026 11:21

I hang everything on the line, apart from washable period pads, I draw the line there!

That was my plan. First time I wanted them we had friends coming. I planned to whip the pads out of the machine and hide them on the radiator in my room.

Got home to find dp had gone home at lunchtime and hung them outside, on the line our friends, who had already arrived, had walked past to get to the house. They've gone on the line ever since (and the sun bleaches them for me).

(Turns out DP thought they were something to do with the animals but would have done the same thing regardless.)

FairViewRosie25 · 12/08/2026 20:43

Underwear socks towels go in the dryer everything else on the line

RedRiverShore6 · 12/08/2026 20:41

Yes on one of those octopus things

TeethAreImportant · 12/08/2026 20:40

sweetpickle2 · 12/08/2026 11:17

Just that really.

I had a friend round for a cup of tea and as I was hanging up my washing she was horrified I was putting up my undies (just basic M&S black knickers, nothing out of the ordinary!) and said she always hangs her delicates inside as she "doesn't think her neighbours want to see that".

Am I the weird one??

Good grief, was your friend visiting from 1872? What a thing to worry about, I've never given a moments thought to what hangs on my washing line and I've never looked at what's on my neighbours lines either.

Icecreamandcoffee · 12/08/2026 15:55

Everything goes out here. Everyone's Knickers, period underwear and reusable pads, nappies, nappy liners, boxers.

I don't even hide them because the wife of a neighbour who backs onto us actually complained to the neighbours on all sides that her husband didn't like seeing washing on the line, especially underwear as it made him uncomfortable. Said husband actually does not care because I actually mentioned it to him in a jokey way and he was baffled - I don't think he even noticed there was washing on the line. Poor man was a topic of conversation for a week on the street WhatsApp and several neighbours thought he was a Herbert for a bit. They moved up from the south for cheap housing during COVID and were apparently horrified that people up north dry all their washing outside. Apparently it's not a thing down in Surrey 😂. Everyone has tumble dryers down there and tumble dries everything. I just told her it's what we do up here as we are all poor hence the cheap houses and they will get used to it 😁. I know everyone else surrounding them also just eye rolled and they also all openly hang all their underwear on the line. In fact most of us surrounding them did it more just for a laugh 😂.

DetailRedacted · 12/08/2026 15:43

I not only hang them outside on the whirligig but - brace yourselves - I hang them on the very outermost lines with longer items on the inside 😱😱😱

dottydaily · 12/08/2026 15:22

i hand them out but i am aware of many who do not.

2ndHandLou · 12/08/2026 15:07

sweetpickle2 · 12/08/2026 13:01

Not understanding hyperbole is very strange to me.

I don't understand, do you mean she wasn't horrified and you've just made this up?

RobertaFirmino · 12/08/2026 15:02

Yes, I'm happy to hang knickers out on the line. Reusable go outside too, but laid flat rather than hung, as a PP said, the sun is the best thing for them.

hahabahbag · 12/08/2026 14:58

Everything on the line, even reusable period pads. Nobody cares!

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