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Do you hang your undies on the washing line?

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sweetpickle2 · 12/08/2026 11:17

Just that really.

I had a friend round for a cup of tea and as I was hanging up my washing she was horrified I was putting up my undies (just basic M&S black knickers, nothing out of the ordinary!) and said she always hangs her delicates inside as she "doesn't think her neighbours want to see that".

Am I the weird one??

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sheitani · 26/08/2026 19:01

sweetpickle2 · 24/08/2026 11:29

I'm sorry this happened to you- yuck!

Although surely all this story does is demonstrate that if a pervert can't find your undies on the line, they'll break into your home and nick them out of the hamper? I'd rather they took them from the line!

I'd never thought of it that way. The idea of a man using our unwashed undies was really nauseating so maybe slightly better if he had stolen clean underwear.
What it did teach me & my girlfriends was to never rent a ground floor flat again, or to stay in a ground floor hotel room. Just too dangerous for women.

EverythingIsComputer · 24/08/2026 11:39

I hang them out. Would find it more embarrassing for my neighbours to think I didn’t wear knickers

sweetpickle2 · 24/08/2026 11:29

sheitani · 23/08/2026 13:30

I never put my underwear outside to dry. To explain:
When I was single and sharing a ground floor flat with 3 girlfriends, someone broke into our flat. When we arrived home to find a window had been forced open, we didn't at first notice anything missing, then one of my friends noticed her laundry hamper had been upturned, and all her unwashed knickers had been stolen. The rest of us checked and found the same. When the police came to take fingerprints, interview us, etc. one of them casually mentioned that this was not the first time he'd attended this type of crime, and that women's underwear was also regularly stolen from washing lines by perverts. He surmised that clean undies that had been worn were more "desirable" than buying new women's underwear, but that the "best" (from pervs' PoV) were used and unwashed undies.Made me and my girlfriends feel sick re what the thief was doing with our stolen underwear.
My friends & I left that flat and found somewhere else to live, not on the ground floor, And ever since I have not hung my bras or knickers on the line to dry.

I'm sorry this happened to you- yuck!

Although surely all this story does is demonstrate that if a pervert can't find your undies on the line, they'll break into your home and nick them out of the hamper? I'd rather they took them from the line!

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sheitani · 23/08/2026 13:30

I never put my underwear outside to dry. To explain:
When I was single and sharing a ground floor flat with 3 girlfriends, someone broke into our flat. When we arrived home to find a window had been forced open, we didn't at first notice anything missing, then one of my friends noticed her laundry hamper had been upturned, and all her unwashed knickers had been stolen. The rest of us checked and found the same. When the police came to take fingerprints, interview us, etc. one of them casually mentioned that this was not the first time he'd attended this type of crime, and that women's underwear was also regularly stolen from washing lines by perverts. He surmised that clean undies that had been worn were more "desirable" than buying new women's underwear, but that the "best" (from pervs' PoV) were used and unwashed undies.Made me and my girlfriends feel sick re what the thief was doing with our stolen underwear.
My friends & I left that flat and found somewhere else to live, not on the ground floor, And ever since I have not hung my bras or knickers on the line to dry.

Katigee410 · 23/08/2026 11:17

I hang everything out for freshness, but the neighbours can see everything so the date night stuff I try to hide behind something like a sheet!

CloudyWithAChanceOfCustard · 13/08/2026 22:32

Yup 👍🏻 everything gets hung outside…I very much doubt my neighbours are interested in my granny pants! But if they are, so what 🤷‍♀️ It’s just knickers 😂

Your friend is being weird OP.

RampantIvy · 13/08/2026 22:22

Guarddogdaschunds · 12/08/2026 22:52

I think that both of us will just have to agree that we both have differing standards of privacy, dignity and modesty. You may prefer to wave your private undergarments at half mast to entice all of the neighbourhood men, but I prefer to keep mine drying indoors, away from lascivious glances. I don't want to give my neighbours the wrong impression about my husband and I, we are respectable people and not slovenly heathens or- god forbid- swingers!

Oh, you are so funny 😁

2Rebecca · 13/08/2026 22:19

My underwear doesn’t tumble dry. I really don’t care what my neighbours think of my knickers. The main neighbour who would see is in her 80s anyway but the whirligig is overlooked by a couple of other houses in another street but I really don’t care ifsome bloke I never speak to has a pants fetish, as long as he doesn’t try to nick them. I just want dry fresh pants

ThatWhiteElephant · 13/08/2026 19:01

Yes, everything goes outside on the line to dry.

Two of my friends don’t hang anything outside, they tumble dry everything. One doesn’t want neighbours looking at their clothes 🤷🏼‍♀️ the other doesn’t want birds shitting / sitting on their clothes!

Screamingabdabz · 13/08/2026 15:24

Guarddogdaschunds · 12/08/2026 22:52

I think that both of us will just have to agree that we both have differing standards of privacy, dignity and modesty. You may prefer to wave your private undergarments at half mast to entice all of the neighbourhood men, but I prefer to keep mine drying indoors, away from lascivious glances. I don't want to give my neighbours the wrong impression about my husband and I, we are respectable people and not slovenly heathens or- god forbid- swingers!

Oh you were joking! I fell for it like a dick. Well done 👏🏻😉

AlwaysExtraHot · 13/08/2026 14:27

Why are some people so weird about this?
Yes, I hang knickers (and bras!!) out in my garden. I tend to assume my neighbours have better things to do than examine my underwear on its drying rack.

Hiddenmnetter · 13/08/2026 14:09

Our line isn’t big enough for everything. All the sheets/towels etc go on the line, t-shirts/trousers etc on the inside horse, all smalls in the dryer. Who has the time?! 4 children, 2 adults, by itself knickers and socks is a lot. Just chuck ‘em in the dryer.

iloveanearlynight · 13/08/2026 13:51

I live in a flat, communal washing lines and I don't want my undies viewed by others. I always hang them inside.

Thestealer · 13/08/2026 13:43

I hang mine on the octopus thingie. Think mine came from Home Bargains. DH had someone come round to buy something the other day and they were standing chatting in the garden while my sturdy undies were blowing in the breeze. Did I care? no.

DancingOctopus · 13/08/2026 13:30

StripyHorse · 12/08/2026 11:22

I put them on the maid inside. Don't like them on the line. This is not something I have picked up from my mum because she hangs them out.

Doesn't your maid complain?

sueelleker · 13/08/2026 13:29

user1471538275 · 12/08/2026 22:08

What do those with a fear of underwear do when walking through supermarkets?

Do they faint when they pass the knickers aisle?

Do they cover their husband and sons eyes in case they suddenly lunge away from the tomatoes and into the bras?

If you don't want your own underwear on the line - fine, but keep your (batshit) opinions to yourself - your neighbours have no obligation to prevent your menfolk from thinking salacious thoughts when they see granny pants.

Have you watched this?

caringcarer · 12/08/2026 23:06

I don't have a wShing line. I've got a massive cricket net in garden. I buy knickers a size big and wash then throw in the dryer.

BCBird · 12/08/2026 23:06

My reasons for being reluctant are to do with me being uncomfortable not anyone else

BCBird · 12/08/2026 23:04

I recently moved. The back garden is open view for all and sundry. I held off for about 3 months then started doing it. At my previous home it was more enclosed so not an issue.

WatchingTheStarsFromMyHammock · 12/08/2026 23:01

Yes, but I put underwear in the middle of my whiryline and put larger garments, or sheets and towels on the outer edges, so it obscures the view of the things in the middle, especially if I have washing on all four sides, which I tend to do so that things are spaced out.

2Rebecca · 12/08/2026 22:55

Some people are weirdly coy about their knickers

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 12/08/2026 22:53

My mum always used to hang them on the inside of the washing line and then put larger clothes like t shirts or whatever on the outside of the washing line so they were out but not really visible.
I just put everything on the line as it comes out of the basket. I assume my neighbours are not too offended by the sight of underwear. I never even think to look what is on other people's washing line.

Guarddogdaschunds · 12/08/2026 22:52

Screamingabdabz · 12/08/2026 21:38

God forbid our small domestic necessary actions might make men ‘uncomfortable’ 🙄 If only the world of men gave one iota of a shit about making women uncomfortable in every. single. sphere. of. life.

Wake up to your own internalised misogny 👏🏻👏🏻

I think that both of us will just have to agree that we both have differing standards of privacy, dignity and modesty. You may prefer to wave your private undergarments at half mast to entice all of the neighbourhood men, but I prefer to keep mine drying indoors, away from lascivious glances. I don't want to give my neighbours the wrong impression about my husband and I, we are respectable people and not slovenly heathens or- god forbid- swingers!

Pollymollydolly · 12/08/2026 22:49

sweetpickle2 · 12/08/2026 12:05

Can the people who don't hang theirs outside explain why??

I don’t - because I’m lazy and can’t be arsed with hanging underwear and socks on the line, it takes forever! I wash undies and socks together, so a full load, then feck them in the dryer.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 12/08/2026 22:48

OP you missed a fantastic opportunity to be horrified right back and tell her all her neighbours must think she goes commando! 😂

I hang mine on the line - and it's a long line not a rotary one so they're not even in the middle. I figure if anyone is actually looking at them then that's definitely a them problem. What my pants do when I'm not wearing them is none of my business. Just like whatever happens under the fridge.

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