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Lucy Letby (2)

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Oftenaddled · 30/07/2026 10:01

Not only the second thread of course, but maybe with them filling so fast it is time to start numbering them?

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DailyEnergyCrisis · 19/09/2026 16:39

I can only speak for myself but I do call them babies, and a baby born before term medically is a pre-term neonate. A pre-term neonate isn’t as developed as a full term neonate, but both are babies.

Personally speaking, I haven’t seen/read about anyone in this case who has said the infants weren’t babies.

H202too · 19/09/2026 16:37

Oftenaddled · 19/09/2026 16:35

I think his point is pretty clear, but badly phrased, that's all. He's not especially articulate. I wouldn't use this to judge his respect and compassion for the parents (or to judge anything about the case)

oh has he apologised to them?

Oftenaddled · 19/09/2026 16:35

H202too · 19/09/2026 15:57

Yes not sure of your point though. We don't call them not babies. We just don't. It's indefensible however much you all try. Especially when he bleats on about caring about the parents.

I think his point is pretty clear, but badly phrased, that's all. He's not especially articulate. I wouldn't use this to judge his respect and compassion for the parents (or to judge anything about the case)

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H202too · 19/09/2026 15:57

Oftenaddled · 19/09/2026 15:53

A neonate is a newborn and that is very standard medical terminology - I wouldn't see that as offensive. Baby D was new-born, but full-term. She had congenital or neonatal pneumonia after her mother's waters broke early, the mother was denied antibiotics, and the newborn Baby D's antibiotic treatment was delayed. Baby D was the only baby Lucy Letby is accused of killing who wasn't born prematurely: she was in intensive care following care failings. The others were all premature.

Yes not sure of your point though. We don't call them not babies. We just don't. It's indefensible however much you all try. Especially when he bleats on about caring about the parents.

Oftenaddled · 19/09/2026 15:53

H202too · 19/09/2026 15:15

It is an absolutely horrific phase. Absolutely he could have phrased it better . Baby D was full term yes some were under the 28 day limit. Do all Mothers not say the 'baby' is born? Do they say they have a neonate?
He knew what he was saying and he didn't care.

A neonate is a newborn and that is very standard medical terminology - I wouldn't see that as offensive. Baby D was new-born, but full-term. She had congenital or neonatal pneumonia after her mother's waters broke early, the mother was denied antibiotics, and the newborn Baby D's antibiotic treatment was delayed. Baby D was the only baby Lucy Letby is accused of killing who wasn't born prematurely: she was in intensive care following care failings. The others were all premature.

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H202too · 19/09/2026 15:15

It is an absolutely horrific phase. Absolutely he could have phrased it better . Baby D was full term yes some were under the 28 day limit. Do all Mothers not say the 'baby' is born? Do they say they have a neonate?
He knew what he was saying and he didn't care.

DailyEnergyCrisis · 19/09/2026 15:06

I have had miscarriages and don’t object at all to the use of accurate medical language to describe the factual reality. And I feel strongly that factual/precise language is important at times and this case is an example of when it especially matters.

But I also accept that some people would find it extremely hard to hear, and I do have empathy for those people. The choice of phrasing could have been improved without compromising the integrity of the messaging in my opinion.

I agree with @EyeLevelStick that it speaks to the vulnerability of the babies in question and that they deserved/required a far higher standard of care in the unit than they received.

H202too · 19/09/2026 15:05

Oftenaddled · 19/09/2026 14:36

Doctors have certainly said it in my hearing. The point is obvious - premature children don't have fully formed respiratory, endochondral systems etc. Anyone who thinks they wouldn't make that kind of slip occasionally under pressure to explain rapidly to a live TV audience is either inexperienced or enviably articulate - some are indeed better at avoiding this kind of misspeaking than others

Always an excuse. 🤦‍♀️

Oftenaddled · 19/09/2026 14:36

H202too · 19/09/2026 14:19

If you think..
not a baby, not a fully formed baby is not dehumanising you have a real problem. Wow.

People grieved miscarriages as a baby. Do we say that to those women?

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Doctors have certainly said it in my hearing. The point is obvious - premature children don't have fully formed respiratory, endochondral systems etc. Anyone who thinks they wouldn't make that kind of slip occasionally under pressure to explain rapidly to a live TV audience is either inexperienced or enviably articulate - some are indeed better at avoiding this kind of misspeaking than others

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H202too · 19/09/2026 14:19

Frequency · 17/09/2026 21:35

What he said was factual. Neonates are not fully formed. There are nicer ways of putting it, I agree, but what he said was not dehumanising, it it is a fact. Their lungs, digestive system, and immune systems are not fully developed, hence the need for serious medical intervention.

If you think..
not a baby, not a fully formed baby is not dehumanising you have a real problem. Wow.

People grieved miscarriages as a baby. Do we say that to those women?

PinkTonic · 19/09/2026 08:41

I think this is really excellent from Dr Ellen Storm:

Dr Ellen Storm: A Question of Statistics: Suspicion is Not Enough, 18th September 2026

"Witch Hunts begin with one person in authority standing up in public and saying 'Suspicion is Enough' "

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EyeLevelStick · 17/09/2026 21:44

Firefly1987 · 17/09/2026 21:09

Mark Mcdonald actually referred to the babies as "not fully formed" in an interview yesterday (it's about 7 mins in). All part of dehumanising her victims. I've always said he's a disgrace but this is a new low even for him. I'm sure her supporters will say this is fine, because they've lost all perspective and decency when it comes to defending her.

I’m not going to defend his choice of words, which were crass and insensitive in this context.

However, they were accurate for all of the pre-term babies, by definition.

The words used also (to anyone with relevant medical knowledge) go to their vulnerability and deserving of top notch neonatal care, which they did not receive.

Frequency · 17/09/2026 21:35

Firefly1987 · 17/09/2026 21:09

Mark Mcdonald actually referred to the babies as "not fully formed" in an interview yesterday (it's about 7 mins in). All part of dehumanising her victims. I've always said he's a disgrace but this is a new low even for him. I'm sure her supporters will say this is fine, because they've lost all perspective and decency when it comes to defending her.

What he said was factual. Neonates are not fully formed. There are nicer ways of putting it, I agree, but what he said was not dehumanising, it it is a fact. Their lungs, digestive system, and immune systems are not fully developed, hence the need for serious medical intervention.

EyeLevelStick · 17/09/2026 21:27

Firefly1987 · 17/09/2026 20:59

There is nothing stopping experts who have confidence in the verdict from speaking out to defend Evans' case.

Only abuse and death threats from the Letby camp.

Death threats? That’s disgusting and definitely not OK. Who has been threatened?

Oftenaddled · 17/09/2026 21:11

Firefly1987 · 17/09/2026 20:59

There is nothing stopping experts who have confidence in the verdict from speaking out to defend Evans' case.

Only abuse and death threats from the Letby camp.

Haven't seen death threats. People of all opinions are unnecessarily rude all over social media, definitely. Sad to see

But seriously, when Channel 5 made their earlier documentary about the case they were silhouetting Svilena Dimitrova, who now openly acts with the defence team. Could be done if necessary though honestly I'm not convinced it is.

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Firefly1987 · 17/09/2026 21:09

Glowingup · 17/09/2026 05:57

Where there is credible evidence that no crime was committed that definitely meets the criteria for an appeal. There just isn’t that evidence. You’re just being fed bullshit by a media-hungry extremely second-rate lawyer.

Mark Mcdonald actually referred to the babies as "not fully formed" in an interview yesterday (it's about 7 mins in). All part of dehumanising her victims. I've always said he's a disgrace but this is a new low even for him. I'm sure her supporters will say this is fine, because they've lost all perspective and decency when it comes to defending her.

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Firefly1987 · 17/09/2026 20:59

Frequency · 17/09/2026 11:45

That wasn't my point. I never asked whether the case presented at court convinced a non-qualified jury. I asked if the case presented at court was sound where are the medically qualified experts defending it?

There is nothing stopping experts who have confidence in the verdict from speaking out to defend Evans' case.

There is nothing stopping experts who have confidence in the verdict from speaking out to defend Evans' case.

Only abuse and death threats from the Letby camp.

FrippEnos · 17/09/2026 19:54

Glowingup · 17/09/2026 05:57

Where there is credible evidence that no crime was committed that definitely meets the criteria for an appeal. There just isn’t that evidence. You’re just being fed bullshit by a media-hungry extremely second-rate lawyer.

This really just shows thatyou have no idea what you are talking about when it comes to the reasons for allowing an appeal.

Maybe you should read up on it.

Frequency · 17/09/2026 11:45

Glowingup · 17/09/2026 08:42

Nonsense. They were presented at trial and challenged by the defence. Evans was one of several medical experts.

Anyway she will stay in until she dies. Even if the CCRC refers her case back to the court of appeal that doesn’t mean a retrial for her and it seems highly unlikely that they will refer her case anyway. Maybe she can do an open university degree to pass the time she will spend in the clink. I hear Myra Hindley did that.

That wasn't my point. I never asked whether the case presented at court convinced a non-qualified jury. I asked if the case presented at court was sound where are the medically qualified experts defending it?

There is nothing stopping experts who have confidence in the verdict from speaking out to defend Evans' case.

EyeLevelStick · 17/09/2026 09:58

Glowingup · 17/09/2026 05:54

Just that there’s a big overlap between people who believe in insane conspiracy theories like the ones about Covid and also think Lucy Letby is innocent. I suspect you know her personally in some way or the family as I can’t understand why anyone would be so obsessed with defending a convicted murderer otherwise.

Is there?

I mean, I’m sure there’s an overlap, but is that overlap greater than that with people who were pro-vaccine and pro-mask during COVID?

I’d be really interested to see your evidence.

Oftenaddled · 17/09/2026 09:46

Glowingup · 17/09/2026 05:54

Just that there’s a big overlap between people who believe in insane conspiracy theories like the ones about Covid and also think Lucy Letby is innocent. I suspect you know her personally in some way or the family as I can’t understand why anyone would be so obsessed with defending a convicted murderer otherwise.

Not at all, no. I've no connection whatsoever with any person or institution involved in these events.

Enough people are concerned about this conviction that I am sure some must have views on COVID and vaccines I don't share. That's not relevant to a single post I've seen anyone make on this case, so I don't see the point in smearing people this way.

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Glowingup · 17/09/2026 08:42

Frequency · 17/09/2026 08:38

Where is the credible evidence that there were murders? By credible, I mean medical evidence that is not heavily disputed by numerous experts vastly more qualified and experienced than those who originally put it forward.

If Evan's theories were robust enough to safely convict someone for life, where are the experts defending them? Even he's backed away from a lot of his theories.

Nonsense. They were presented at trial and challenged by the defence. Evans was one of several medical experts.

Anyway she will stay in until she dies. Even if the CCRC refers her case back to the court of appeal that doesn’t mean a retrial for her and it seems highly unlikely that they will refer her case anyway. Maybe she can do an open university degree to pass the time she will spend in the clink. I hear Myra Hindley did that.

Sunnibee · 17/09/2026 08:42

Glowingup · 17/09/2026 07:07

Dude, she’s a baby killer. It’s not weird to hate her and want her to stay locked up. It’s really not. If you think it is, your head is too far down the rabbit hole.

They never make any reasonable arguments, it’s just dogma and ad hominem attacks

Q.E.D

Frequency · 17/09/2026 08:38

Glowingup · 17/09/2026 05:57

Where there is credible evidence that no crime was committed that definitely meets the criteria for an appeal. There just isn’t that evidence. You’re just being fed bullshit by a media-hungry extremely second-rate lawyer.

Where is the credible evidence that there were murders? By credible, I mean medical evidence that is not heavily disputed by numerous experts vastly more qualified and experienced than those who originally put it forward.

If Evan's theories were robust enough to safely convict someone for life, where are the experts defending them? Even he's backed away from a lot of his theories.

EasternStandard · 17/09/2026 07:17

PinkTonic · 17/09/2026 07:06

What is actually really weird and highly suspect is the vitriolic insulting of people who question the verdicts, the desperate attempts to debunk and attack the credibility of serious, highly credentialed experts, the so called strategising from certain online communities who dedicate an inordinate amount of time and energy to this. Theirs is not a rational position at this point, given what has emerged about the bad science used in the trial. For people who use the NHS and are subject to the British justice system however, it is entirely rational to want to pursue an explanation for the discrepancies between what the actual qualified neonatologists, statisticians, legal eagles have to say v the so called evidence used to convict her. At this point no one who is capable of reading a paper or trial transcript, and exercising critical thinking, can legitimately believe there is no reasonable doubt. So what’s their motivation? They never make any reasonable arguments, it’s just dogma and ad hominem attacks.

The reply you got to this fits with that last line.