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Relative in ICU with heat stroke and is not going to make it

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SmokeyMountainRain · 29/06/2026 14:10

Posting for traffic. Has anybody been through this? Close relative, relatively young 50s), was found incoherent last Wednesday. Rushed to hospital straight to ICU as she'd fallen into a coma. They've kept her asleep, tried to wake her twice and she cannot breath on her own whatsoever. They've ran repeated scans which show due to the heat stroke damage the part of her brain that tells her to breath is severely damaged. They've pretty much said she's incompatible with life now and we will have to turn the machines off this week unless by some miracle she wakes up. Her core temp was 41 degrees for 4 days, she's now at 40. Not responded to any medication, antibiotics etc.

She wasn't even doing anything strenuous. Just in her flat watching telly. Has anyone been through this? Does anyone have any advice? I don't even know what to think and feel it just seems so so cruel. No brain bleeds or blockages on the scan. Substantial brain swelling and damage.

posting for traffic as can't see any similar threads

Any advice or miracle stories please send them my way. Thank you x

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JenniferBooth · 17/08/2026 18:24

how are you @SmokeyMountainRain Flowers

SmokeyMountainRain · 25/08/2026 10:04

JenniferBooth · 17/08/2026 18:24

how are you @SmokeyMountainRain Flowers

Thank you for asking and thinking of me. I'm okay thank you! I took some time off work to spend with family and my daughter and it was very well needed. My auntie had a beautiful send off. Back to reality now and have been for a couple of weeks! But we're holding up okay, thank you ❤️

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Diamondsareforever72 · 25/08/2026 11:11

SmokeyMountainRain · 25/08/2026 10:04

Thank you for asking and thinking of me. I'm okay thank you! I took some time off work to spend with family and my daughter and it was very well needed. My auntie had a beautiful send off. Back to reality now and have been for a couple of weeks! But we're holding up okay, thank you ❤️

I’m so sorry for your loss, I remember reading your OP.
I’m glad your auntie got a lovely send off. Take care x

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