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Relative in ICU with heat stroke and is not going to make it

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SmokeyMountainRain · 29/06/2026 14:10

Posting for traffic. Has anybody been through this? Close relative, relatively young 50s), was found incoherent last Wednesday. Rushed to hospital straight to ICU as she'd fallen into a coma. They've kept her asleep, tried to wake her twice and she cannot breath on her own whatsoever. They've ran repeated scans which show due to the heat stroke damage the part of her brain that tells her to breath is severely damaged. They've pretty much said she's incompatible with life now and we will have to turn the machines off this week unless by some miracle she wakes up. Her core temp was 41 degrees for 4 days, she's now at 40. Not responded to any medication, antibiotics etc.

She wasn't even doing anything strenuous. Just in her flat watching telly. Has anyone been through this? Does anyone have any advice? I don't even know what to think and feel it just seems so so cruel. No brain bleeds or blockages on the scan. Substantial brain swelling and damage.

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Any advice or miracle stories please send them my way. Thank you x

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LooksLikeIPickedTheWrongWeekToQuitDrinking · 29/06/2026 14:18

Gosh, that’s awful. I’m sorry this happened to your loved one, and for what you and your family are going through.

Early 50s is no age, so it’s strange this happened to her. Did she have any underlying health conditions? So scary this can happen to someone not old or apparently vulnerable.

justrelaxandsleep · 29/06/2026 14:16

That’s so sad, no advice apart from to maybe try and get a second opinion?

SummerPunch · 29/06/2026 14:13

Oh no that's sad. Wednesday was horribly hot where I was with no breeze. I know my grandpa suffered heat stroke once and recovered. I hope your relative recovers.

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