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Bums hanging out of the bottom of teeny tiny shorts

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Noodleschicken · 28/06/2026 20:42

Don’t know if this really AIBU or a question!
AIBU to think that shorts have become way too short ?
I have seen a LOT of girls in shorts today - with their bum cheeks hanging out the bottom ! Personally I wouldn’t let my daughter out like that. And I wouldn’t were them myself (I would give everyone nightmares !).
so what’s the consensus on bums hanging out of shorts ?

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GrillaMilla · 28/06/2026 21:30

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:25

The male equivalent of camel toe is often on show in our local cycle track cafe.
Chipolata in lycra.
It's bloody grim.

I knew someone would try to draw a parallel with this.

Wearing lycra for a particular sport, like cycling or swimming isn't the same as walking around in public showing your bottom. It's embarrassing.

MidnightMeltdown · 28/06/2026 21:29

I saw one the other day and did a double take! 😂

She wasn’t very old, definitely still in her teens. I thought it was pretty disturbing to be honest.

If it had been an older woman I would have assumed that she was a sex worker.

PancakeCloud · 28/06/2026 21:29

oviraptor21 · 28/06/2026 20:49

The usual fatuous answer.

But it’s rather a fatuous thread.

These fashions are not new and honestly why are people so invested in what other people are wearing.

LizandDerekGoals · 28/06/2026 21:28

Frenzi · 28/06/2026 21:00

I am 58. If I had a bum that looked good hanging out of teeny tiny shorts I would do it. Sadly if I did people would think I had a growth on the back of my knees.

If they have it let them flaunt it. Why, as women, do we feel it is okay to criticise other women!

It isnt women. It is girls. Children and teenage girls.

we have the same at school. The skirts are so short we can see butt cheeks.

icannotlivelaughloveintheseconditions · 28/06/2026 21:28

I’m torn between people should wear what they want and sod the male gaze and we shouldn’t be showing off our bits for men to ogle!

shuggles · 28/06/2026 21:27

Strangecat · 28/06/2026 21:26

Honestly it’s ridiculous to follow this type of fashion and let our kids go out in no clothes. Freedom is one thing but dressing up in a way that exposes private parts is distasteful!
The world is already full of pedos!

There's no evidence that women wearing revealing clothes causes paedophilia.

Strangecat · 28/06/2026 21:26

Honestly it’s ridiculous to follow this type of fashion and let our kids go out in no clothes. Freedom is one thing but dressing up in a way that exposes private parts is distasteful!
The world is already full of pedos!

shuggles · 28/06/2026 21:26

@Noodleschicken Seems a bit weird that you are wanting to control women's bodies, and wanting to control something that does not affect you in any way, shape, or form.

DanceMumTaxi · 28/06/2026 21:26

I really hate it. You can have short shorts without arse cheek hanging out. Round here this last week local schools have let the kids come in PE kit. The boys all had normal length shorts (like football shorts) but the girls were a different style. They’re a much shorter style than the boys and there was definitely bum cheek hanging out and this is for school! It’s obscene. I think some of the older girls are squeezing into the shorts they had in year 7.

Ilovegolf · 28/06/2026 21:26

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:25

The male equivalent of camel toe is often on show in our local cycle track cafe.
Chipolata in lycra.
It's bloody grim.

Oh god. Awful but true!

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:25

GrillaMilla · 28/06/2026 21:19

I'm glad someone has mentioned this.
I cringe seeing women and young girls showing the shape of the most intimate part of their body in public, why would you want to do that??

What's the male equivalent of this, oh there isn't one. Funny that.

The male equivalent of camel toe is often on show in our local cycle track cafe.
Chipolata in lycra.
It's bloody grim.

Huckleberries · 28/06/2026 21:24

nomas · 28/06/2026 21:13

This is what I don’t get. Why they were fine in the 1970s but why the women who were born in the 1970s only have an issue with girls wearing them today.

And I speak as a conservative dresser.

But those are just shorts

No one is objecting to those kind of shorts.

It's the ones that don't cover your bum that people are talking about

Piggywaspushed · 28/06/2026 21:23

nomas · 28/06/2026 21:13

This is what I don’t get. Why they were fine in the 1970s but why the women who were born in the 1970s only have an issue with girls wearing them today.

And I speak as a conservative dresser.

Those are all longer than what girls are wearing. They wear them under very rolled up school skirts too.

Just like a 60s mini skirt is longer.

Baggy jeans are also in fashion. It doesn't make much sense!

SunnySunnyDayz · 28/06/2026 21:22

Is the bar really 'as long as you can't see labia'??

I think it's inappropriate, people used to dress appropriately to the situation. Clothes like this are suitable for beach or clubbing not the supermarket.

ThatCyanCat · 28/06/2026 21:22

I've seen this lately too on young women. Not hotpants, not Daisy Dukes, but just plain naked bum cheeks right out in a busy city street. I do try not to be judgemental about sexy clothes and while I don't really like thong swimsuits, they don't seem out of place in a pool or beach. But essentially naked bums on the high street does feel really off and I really can't help thinking it just looks horrible whatever the person's physique. It's just an unpleasant aesthetic.

I know I'm getting old but while I wore some crazy stuff in my youth, I never had my arse full out in public.

Wishihadanalgorithm · 28/06/2026 21:21

Yesterday in town a girl aged about 16 was walking towards me with her boyfriend. She was wearing a pair of those “arse cheeks hanging out shorts” but had the zip and button undone so I could see the top of her pants.

I looked at DC who was with me and we were no the aghast.

The only word for that was grim.

Beamsss · 28/06/2026 21:19

TinyTempest · 28/06/2026 20:45

Bums have been hanging out of shorts since the late 1980s.

Daisy Dukes anyone?

Earlier than that I reckon. I remember being embarrassed when my mum dug out some old shorts to wear on holiday (probably becuase she couldn't afford new) c. 1976.

GrillaMilla · 28/06/2026 21:19

ladygindiva · 28/06/2026 21:09

I don't find it any worse than the mums on the school run in their sports lycra flashing their camel toes tbh

I'm glad someone has mentioned this.
I cringe seeing women and young girls showing the shape of the most intimate part of their body in public, why would you want to do that??

What's the male equivalent of this, oh there isn't one. Funny that.

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:19

nomas · 28/06/2026 21:13

This is what I don’t get. Why they were fine in the 1970s but why the women who were born in the 1970s only have an issue with girls wearing them today.

And I speak as a conservative dresser.

They just look like short shorts though - lots of leg and no bum cheeks. The kind of shorts the OP is talking about are cut away like Brazilian knickers so they show half of people's buttocks.

Greedybilly · 28/06/2026 21:18

Fashion dictated by the male gaze innit? I mean - are men doing it?

Hotafternoon · 28/06/2026 21:17

There are a lot of young women down at the beach this past week wearing teeny thong bikinis, tight low slung leggings and shorts with bum cheeks on display.

In the 70s I wore hot pants and also wore crop tops too but your backside was well covered with material..

Personally, I think they reveal rather too much but do have a twinge of envy at the bum shape on a lot of them.

I dream of having a bum that looks that good as mine seems to have slipped out of sight as I've aged, I think it's halfway down my thighs. 😳

StraightTalkingTina · 28/06/2026 21:15

i saw a lot of this on young teenage girls at an event last weekend. It’s less that the bum cheeks are hanging out and more that the shorts are like Brazilian underwear, and are so far up their arse there is no material to cover their bums.

it’s come from tik tok. Ruffle trim shorts.

its not either that they are buying smaller shorts. They are fitting exactly how they are designed.

Its not liberating. Its purely for the male gaze.

tillyandmilly · 28/06/2026 21:14

I hate seeing young girls with their bums hanging out - why? I would never allow my daughter to have her bum exposed in public whats wrong with normal short shorts? Sorry it’s grotesque and unhygienic if they sit on public transport with their bare bum cheeks!

Devilsmommy · 28/06/2026 21:13

ladygindiva · 28/06/2026 21:09

I don't find it any worse than the mums on the school run in their sports lycra flashing their camel toes tbh

😂😂😂😂

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