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Bums hanging out of the bottom of teeny tiny shorts

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Noodleschicken · 28/06/2026 20:42

Don’t know if this really AIBU or a question!
AIBU to think that shorts have become way too short ?
I have seen a LOT of girls in shorts today - with their bum cheeks hanging out the bottom ! Personally I wouldn’t let my daughter out like that. And I wouldn’t were them myself (I would give everyone nightmares !).
so what’s the consensus on bums hanging out of shorts ?

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PeachySmile2 · 28/06/2026 22:03

Bloody awful. In town today, we were waking behind a girl no older than 13 with her shorts rolled
up as high as she could, ass cheeks fully on display! Just awful. I expect they were not rolled up when she left home as surely no mother would allow their child to dress like that.

Sayswho546 · 28/06/2026 22:02

it doesn’t really bother me (though there is some envy that my arse cheeks are somehow much larger and at the same time much saggier and flatter….also they never seem to have the dimples aka sink holes that I also have 😂)

MasterBeth · 28/06/2026 22:01

ThatCyanCat · 28/06/2026 22:00

These shorts aren't what we're talking about. They cover the bum. To give you an idea, I've seen women wearing literally belts with a couple of inches of fringe, and a G string, and that's it.

We're not talking hotpants or Daisy Dukes. Honestly, this is next level.

Have you never been to a beach?

Women are allowed to wear G-straings.

DancingLions · 28/06/2026 22:01

The thing is though, if this was fat hairy builder Dave with his butt cheeks on display you can bet everyone would be calling it grim and saying he should cover up. I really dont think people would be defending his right to wear what he wants!

A lot of places have rules around men being topless in the summer months. Its not allowed in many places. But there's nothing "private" about mens chests so why do we need that rule? Because people find it gross!

Oh but if its young attractive women its ok? Well yes, no men are going to complain about it are they!

shuggles · 28/06/2026 22:01

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:51

You are taking my post too seriously and getting your gusset in a tangle over nothing.

No I didn't. You incorrectly implied that there would be no reason for someone wearing lycra to be in a cafe. Yet, it should be common knowledge that cyclists frequently stop at cafes during long cycles.

AhhhSchtop · 28/06/2026 22:01

I refuse to be scandalised by what young women wear. It’s so…Mary Whitehouse.

p.s. I was wearing short shorts circa 1993. We called them ‘batty riders’. This is not new.

Isittimeformynapyet · 28/06/2026 22:01

user1471538275 · 28/06/2026 20:57

If it's not your kind of fashion - don't wear it.

However, you don't get to bitch about what other people wear and then expect to be able to make choices for yourself.

Either we choose for ourselves, or we have some sort of forced uniform that is decided by ?who - is that what we want? Clothing forced upon us by others.

However, you don't get to bitch about what other people wear and then expect to be able to make choices for yourself.

Well, we do actually. Sorry, but you don't make the rules.

ThatCyanCat · 28/06/2026 22:00

nomas · 28/06/2026 21:13

This is what I don’t get. Why they were fine in the 1970s but why the women who were born in the 1970s only have an issue with girls wearing them today.

And I speak as a conservative dresser.

These shorts aren't what we're talking about. They cover the bum. To give you an idea, I've seen women wearing literally belts with a couple of inches of fringe, and a G string, and that's it.

We're not talking hotpants or Daisy Dukes. Honestly, this is next level.

LettingItAllHangOut · 28/06/2026 22:00

Flamingojune · 28/06/2026 21:10

I don t want an eyeful of arse when i'm out n about

Agreed. 🫣

Piggywaspushed · 28/06/2026 22:00

nomas · 28/06/2026 21:49

The 1970s one show buttocks too.

People upthread said they wore even shorter in the 70s.

Those women are posed in a particular way. Standing up the shorts would cover the bottom. The ones women, including young teens, are wearing are cut entirely differently.

AurielleBaies · 28/06/2026 21:59

Thawtfulpanda · 28/06/2026 21:58

Try getting on an escalator with the girl in front having her vulva literally in your face.

I think if you buy these then you should have to do an escalator mirror check before final purchase.

Oh for Christ sake. Her vulva in your face?

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:59

JillThePlantKiller · 28/06/2026 21:55

Of course if all of us middle aged mums started wearing them, we could kill the trend stone dead in a week.

Exactly!
There's an article in the Daily Mail today telling women over 50 what not to wear.

Sleeveless things, capri pants and anything that makes you look like a mum are on the list.

MasterBeth · 28/06/2026 21:59

Thawtfulpanda · 28/06/2026 21:58

Try getting on an escalator with the girl in front having her vulva literally in your face.

I think if you buy these then you should have to do an escalator mirror check before final purchase.

Her vulva literally in your face??

Do you know what any of these words mean?

MasterBeth · 28/06/2026 21:58

MidnightMeltdown · 28/06/2026 21:55

Glad we’ve got you here to dictate to rest of us what should and shouldn’t be considered indecent or obscene 🙄

Indecent and obscene are legal terms.

No-one's getting arrested for showing a bit of bum cheeks.

Thawtfulpanda · 28/06/2026 21:58

PancakeCloud · 28/06/2026 20:43

If you don’t like it, don’t look.

Try getting on an escalator with the girl in front having her vulva literally in your face.

I think if you buy these then you should have to do an escalator mirror check before final purchase.

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:58

nomas · 28/06/2026 21:54

But that was the fashion of the time. There was a hotpants craze in the 1970s.

People upthread said they wore them.

I remember the 1970s.

These were 1970s hotpants. VERY different.

Bums hanging out of the bottom of teeny tiny shorts
Saz12 · 28/06/2026 21:57

Meh, there are worse things people do. Bum cheeks arent less hygenic than hands. I'd not choose to wear them, admittedly.

JillThePlantKiller · 28/06/2026 21:55

Of course if all of us middle aged mums started wearing them, we could kill the trend stone dead in a week.

MidnightMeltdown · 28/06/2026 21:55

AlmostAJillSandwich · 28/06/2026 21:04

Are their genitals and arsehole covered? As long as the shorts are covering the area normal swimwear or knickers (full, high leg, bikini etc, not thong/string) would cover, then they aren't indecent.

It is a fashion choice i certainly wouldn't make myself, but a bit of lower/side bum cheek is hardly obscene, its not labia or bum crack/hole.

Glad we’ve got you here to dictate to rest of us what should and shouldn’t be considered indecent or obscene 🙄

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:55

JustSetFireToIt · 28/06/2026 21:49

I dont like it and hope to god that men's fashion doesn't follow suit!

Especially after all the threads on here about poster's DHs who don't wipe their backsides properly.

AurielleBaies · 28/06/2026 21:54

BridgetJonesV2 · 28/06/2026 21:51

I believe women should dress exactly as they chose.

I also believe that they should consider the people who have to look at what they're wearing.

So they can dress exactly as they choose, but they have to consider the opinions and feelings of everyone else around them? Got it.

canklesmctacotits · 28/06/2026 21:54

I sort of admire girls wearing this sort of thing, especially when they don’t have the bodies of lithe models but have the confidence anyway. That’s a style in and of itself, and it’s really about the girl in question enjoying her body and clothes at an age/in a place when it’s ok to do that.

The 50+yo mother in me is absolutely horrified. I tell my DD straight: you go out like that and you’re asking for trouble. No, wearing this or that gives nobody permission to assault or harass or follow you or chat you up or do anything at all to you. But until she and I are living in a perfect world where that never happens, the reality is that it will happen and whoever is at fault makes no difference to the fact that she will be the one to suffer.

nomas · 28/06/2026 21:54

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:53

Those are obviously 'poster girl' shots.

We're talking about people wandering around Lidl on a Thursday afto.

But that was the fashion of the time. There was a hotpants craze in the 1970s.

People upthread said they wore them.

PintofFizz · 28/06/2026 21:53

nomas · 28/06/2026 21:49

The 1970s one show buttocks too.

People upthread said they wore even shorter in the 70s.

Those are obviously 'poster girl' shots.

We're talking about people wandering around Lidl on a Thursday afto.

BashfulClam · 28/06/2026 21:53

I saw a beautiful young girl yesterday and she had the shortest nylon skirt on that kept riding up and showing bum cheek and pants every few steps. She had to keep pulling it down. It just seemed a faff and uncomfortable. My line was always that my Fanny and arse were covered at the very least and I had a banging figure in my early 20’s.

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