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Bums hanging out of the bottom of teeny tiny shorts

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Noodleschicken · 28/06/2026 20:42

Don’t know if this really AIBU or a question!
AIBU to think that shorts have become way too short ?
I have seen a LOT of girls in shorts today - with their bum cheeks hanging out the bottom ! Personally I wouldn’t let my daughter out like that. And I wouldn’t were them myself (I would give everyone nightmares !).
so what’s the consensus on bums hanging out of shorts ?

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SuitcaseAndSecrets · 29/06/2026 15:41

I wore them in the 70s.. made my own cutting up a pair of old jeans. Frayed the edges.. wore with cheese cloth top that tied at under the bust.. it's nothing new.. oh to be 18 again with the lovely figure l had then.. lovely long legs. Pert bum and boob's that stayed up... unfortunately I'm now 68.. as long as no bits on show.. live and let live.

KeepPumping · 29/06/2026 15:38

Kokonimater · 29/06/2026 15:24

No. This is different. Yes shorts and short shorts have been around. But the new ones literally have the lower buttocks on show. And I’ve seen a young woman out wearing a thong. I don’t know what to think

As with all trends, when people are laughing at you online it is over! They are officially no longer edgy or cool, LOL.

ThatCyanCat · 29/06/2026 15:36

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 15:31

That’s the message they are giving out if they are showing their wares, whether they like it or not. They are indecent and vulgar

They absolutely are not, that's something that's come out of your own head and you're blaming and projecting it on them. It's pretty bad taste and unpleasant, but no, there's nothing that suggests to any decent or reasonably intelligent person that they must be actually objects for sale, especially given the age of some of them. Stop it.

Flamingojune · 29/06/2026 15:35

Underage teenage arses on display will keep a lot of the male population happy. If that's the aim then crack on. Scuse pun

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 15:31

ThatCyanCat · 29/06/2026 15:26

Their what?

I don't like this trend either, as my posts will show, and I don't think it's in good taste, but are you actually suggesting that women who wear revealing clothes must be for sale? That they have become commodities?

That’s the message they are giving out if they are showing their wares, whether they like it or not. They are indecent and vulgar

ThatCyanCat · 29/06/2026 15:26

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 15:21

But their daughters should be told that they will be judged and catcalled- because they are! What is disgusting is the fact that are walking around knowing they are displaying their wares!

Their what?

I don't like this trend either, as my posts will show, and I don't think it's in good taste, but are you actually suggesting that women who wear revealing clothes must be for sale? That they have become commodities?

Kokonimater · 29/06/2026 15:24

MeganM3 · 28/06/2026 20:49

It’s hardly a new thing is it. Very popular year in year out for over a decade!

No. This is different. Yes shorts and short shorts have been around. But the new ones literally have the lower buttocks on show. And I’ve seen a young woman out wearing a thong. I don’t know what to think

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 15:21

Anarchy99 · 29/06/2026 14:12

We have teleported back to Victorian times…

This thread is sad. I have never worn revealing clothes but anyone has the right to do so if they want. Telling your daughters that they will be judged and catcalled is so bloody disgusting. And laughing about schoolgirls being told they are tarty is insane.

But their daughters should be told that they will be judged and catcalled- because they are! What is disgusting is the fact that are walking around knowing they are displaying their wares!

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 15:17

KeepPumping · 29/06/2026 15:02

It is silly, and they are silly, but large numbers of the public have no self-awareness or individual thought process.

No self respect or sense of responsibility. I think they are perfectly aware that what they are showing, is vulgar and disgusting and likely to attract the wrong sort of attention.

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 15:15

Lemonymint · 29/06/2026 06:18

I just can't help wondering how anybody persuaded young women that it was empowering to expose their buttocks to public view. Why would anybody believe that? Anyway, I feel public buttock baring and display is something best left to other primates like baboons.

Oooh you’ll upset Gloria! You’re right, though!

Allseeingallknowing · 29/06/2026 15:11

Beamsss · 29/06/2026 10:54

This is true. Very overweight young people seem happy to wear revealing clothes now, when they (the few) would have kept well covered back then.....which is a good thing?

Definitely not!

KeepPumping · 29/06/2026 15:02

SummerPunch · 29/06/2026 12:52

I saw people walking along the beach esplanade in thong bikinis. They looked like they had bare bums. It looked silly

It is silly, and they are silly, but large numbers of the public have no self-awareness or individual thought process.

Yodellayhehoo · 29/06/2026 15:02

OtterlyAstounding · 29/06/2026 05:35

I don't want to see the arse cheeks of men and teenage boys hanging out of teeny tiny shorts while they strut about the high street, or their bulges in skin tight leggings, and my bar is set no differently for women.

Obviously though, it's women and girls catering to the male gaze or generally putting their value in their sex appeal, not men and teenage boys who expose themselves like that.

Equally, I don't want to get an eyeful of either men's or women's nipples while out and about.

The bare minimum for civility should be entirely covering one's bottom, one's genitals (in such a way that people can't see the clear outline of said genitals), and covering one's breasts (male or female). It's really not a big ask.

Spot on

Yodellayhehoo · 29/06/2026 15:00

narcASD · 29/06/2026 00:21

I don't like it, no need for everyone to see your arse, same with topless men, put it away

Or men that unbutton several shirt buttons is really cringe too

Yodellayhehoo · 29/06/2026 14:58

u3ername · 28/06/2026 23:47

I normally don’t care but I was shocked today by an obese young lady who had A LOT of uncovered bum right in front of my car window in an Aldi car park for some time (I was waiting for dh with dc in the car).

She was wearing something supposedly like a scort but it was ridiculously small and tight and I will indeed have nightmares as will probably my dc.

It was public indecency. But who to report to and what could they do?!

Human evolution has officially turned into regression.

I hope you would have been equally grossed out if she was slim

KeepPumping · 29/06/2026 14:54

TeaBiscuitsNaptime · 29/06/2026 00:19

😂 when you say it like that, it is very odd. It's like saying, lads I can wear whatever I want and you can't stop me so I'm going to parade around with my butt cheeks hanging out. But if you comment on it or come on to me too aggressively, it's game over for you. Ya, I think gender dominance is a part of it alright. I hope they are actually wearing it for themselves like they say

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They know young men are not going to approach them, not in the way that used to be normal if maybe too pushy sometimes, many young men totally ignore women now, not sure if that is because they don"t know what sex they are themselves or if the girls are too choosy and think they can snag a footballer because they see themselves as "hot" so ordinary young guys don"t bother, or if it is online social dynamics influencers preaching about "indifference" etc. This all feeds into it, going out in a group dressed like a hip hop video that would have been censored a few years ago just screams - "I"m here, look at me, I have a body, pay attention to me...please!" The danger starts when the less confident girls who are just following the pack end up wandering about drunk after a club, then they are in danger from real predators who might be triggered by the clothing, or see it as an invitation.

Everlore · 29/06/2026 14:44

anotherside · 29/06/2026 10:18

Unfortunately if you look at pop music today it’s like feminism never happened. Half if not more of the most popular female stars are stripped off half the time - Sabrina Carpenter, Taylor Swift, Black Pink, Beyoncé, Olivia Rodrigo, Dua Lipa etc

'Female stars nowadays' eh? I assume you haven't seen a photo of any female pop stars since the 1950s if you are shocked by contemporary stage attire and that you have never heard of a popular singer called Madonna who had a few hits from the 80s onwards!
Seriously though, as someone who is a huge fan of many of the artists you name, particularly my queen, Taylor Swift, I think this is a gross and unfair characterisation of these talented women. Female pop stars of today are far more likely to write their own music, play multiple instruments and have a much greater level of control over their image and careers than was typically the case in times gone by. Yes, Sabrina Carpenter dresses saucily on stage, but she is a grown woman and her image in keeping with her fun, catchy and frequently cheeky music.
As for Taylor, yes, as part of the epic Eras tour shows, comprising three to four hours of extraordinary and often gruelling choreography, and dazzling sets and costume changes, some of her outfits were more skimpy than others, but completely suitable for a professional dancer to where while engaging in energetic and complex choreography. Did you want her to wear a full length ballgown throughout the whole show? She does in fact where some long flowing outfits as part of her dazzling and extensive array of stage outfits, but she can hardly be expected to do so for the whole show! People often comment on what a classy dresser TS is off-stage, so she seems like a weird subject for your ire. Not that I think it should matter how any woman chooses to dress, famous or not, as long as they are happy.

ThatCyanCat · 29/06/2026 14:34

cookbookjunkie · 29/06/2026 14:32

Depends who is noticing and appreciating it. If it's the right kind of man they'll be flattered and delighted. If it's the wrong kind of man they'll be appalled at being sexually objectified. And therein lies the problem. All types of men will notice. Not just the ones you wanted to.

I wonder how you know so much about it.

cookbookjunkie · 29/06/2026 14:32

ThatCyanCat · 29/06/2026 14:10

To be fair, I'm not sure it's the wearers who are complaining.

Depends who is noticing and appreciating it. If it's the right kind of man they'll be flattered and delighted. If it's the wrong kind of man they'll be appalled at being sexually objectified. And therein lies the problem. All types of men will notice. Not just the ones you wanted to.

Anarchy99 · 29/06/2026 14:12

We have teleported back to Victorian times…

This thread is sad. I have never worn revealing clothes but anyone has the right to do so if they want. Telling your daughters that they will be judged and catcalled is so bloody disgusting. And laughing about schoolgirls being told they are tarty is insane.

ThatCyanCat · 29/06/2026 14:10

cookbookjunkie · 29/06/2026 14:05

And then complain indignantly when they do.

To be fair, I'm not sure it's the wearers who are complaining.

Om83 · 29/06/2026 14:06

I completely agree, but when I took my 13 yr old shopping recently to a big town with major high street shopping chains, all the shorts are v short. It was very difficult to find something even half decent, and she certainly wasn’t going to entertain me taking her into M&S or similar to shop for her in there!!

so I think it is the fact that this is all the shops for that age group seem to be selling as the reason why there are so many girls wearing teeny shorts right now. And spirals as then all the other girls follow the trend of showing off their bum cheeks 🫣

cookbookjunkie · 29/06/2026 14:05

Lemonfrost · 28/06/2026 20:45

The whole point of these shorts is to get people to look.

And then complain indignantly when they do.

Anarchy99 · 29/06/2026 14:00

Two2TooAlsoToToward · 29/06/2026 12:24

True. I would NOT want to be following a man up the tube escalator whose hairy butt cheeks were in my face (as I did with a girl’s bum cheeks in my face whilst leaving the tube yesterday).

It may be because I’m ND but I wouldn’t even register that. Many of you need to work on a more exciting existence to spare yourself the pearl clutching

PinkPonyCIub · 29/06/2026 13:50

LittleWaterRabbit · 28/06/2026 23:30

But these people are wearing them out and about town, you dont wear them to do shopping or get on the train, or do you?

No, I literally meant no different to wearing bikini bottoms out! Sorry I wasn't clear! I didn't word it well!
I should have said they might as well wear bikini bottoms as there's less on show 😂
It must be a thing as I saw a load of school leavers, and they ALL had them on!