AIBU to think neighbours should not be naked in their garden?

Eeeeew that's gross!!

I wouldn't be happy if my kid's bedroom looked out over rando's with their danglies out.

Foisting the sight of your naked body on someone, just because you can get away with it is quite aggressive and crosses boundaries. It's not the body that bothers, me, it's the lack of permission: "You have to look at my nakedness because I have decided to make you see".

If you can see your neighbours and their naked guests, when you're doing normal garden activities, you should tell them to put up fencing.

Exactly.

Naturists don't do that sort of thing. Being naked isn't a sexual thing at all at naturist beaches et, and they don't just strip off anywhere.

The neighbours know what they're doing, they know they're overlooked, and they seem to be getting a kick out of being observed.

YANBU. Would not want to see a naked man in a changing room, nor out of my window.

Walking about naked where other people can see you just means you're desperate for attention. Mind you, walking about naked in the depths of winter would get you all the attention you need.

So what? They're just bodies. It'll help him understand normal bodies are less than perfect porn bodies.

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i beg to differ. Having sex orgies in a visible hottub would absolutely be indecent exposure.

No. It does not.
Neither does standing at your window naked.

If OP and her neighbours, quite rightly, arent happy about what's going on then they should report it

Its not illegal.

If you're not happy about people doing legal stuff then that gives you no rights whatsoever.

So dont waste police time

Ah yes, Donald and Jacqueline entertaining the West Mulberry Swingers Association. Big Dom was unable to make it this year, he's at a stamp fair in Accrington.

Naked sunbathing I can understand. But anything else and I’d be mortified. It would make me very uncomfortable in my own garden knowing they were next door naked!

No you shouldn’t be naked in your garden. Unless it’s totally private. But if other homes naturally overlook the garden - as with the OP’s kid seeing them - it’s fucking creepy boundary crossing.

YANBU and it’s really boring the people saying you are

YANBU and it’s really boring the people saying you are

Agreed. It’s just MN in general - I swear you could post saying someone drove into your car and the same people would say “well why were you out driving” 😂

Probably makes a difference if they are good looking or not 🫣

Oh no I’d be knocking on the door telling them to cover up. I don’t want to look out the window to see Jim’s conkers on show. It’s weird behaviour in the middle of a housing estate

Yes. And onlyfans is BAD! But taking naked selfies in the garden for the world to see: OK.

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In a new build estate there is no privacy between gardens.

We moved into a new build. We have been here 12 yrs and there is still very little privacy between gardens, plus upper floors give a commanding view of very many gardens.

The neighbours could only get away with this if their garden was secluded.

YANBU.

Sorry but if this was just a naturist couple occasionally sunbathing I wouldn't be bothered. But naked parties are quite different in intent.

This would not bother me at all. It’s very unusual, it I think my family would just laugh about it. In this country the naked- season is not very long. It will soon rain again.

I love these threads, they are always the same. Naked neighbours and the issue is always the person who can see them, like it’s totally normal to be naked in your over looked new build garden and the neighbour who can see them is some form of window using pervert.

i certainly don’t want to be unable to use my windows as if I do I get a view of Jim’s saggy balls.and Mary’s sweaty arse crack.

but on planet mumsnet, looking out your actual windows is the issue, not said bollocks and arse crack being on full public display to the neighbours.

it’s absolute comedy gold 😂

Well I wouldn't like having those neighbours.