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What’s disliked on Mumsnet but very popular in everyday life?

697 replies

coulditbeme2323 · 12/06/2026 10:25

What's hated on MN, but insanely popular in real life?

Disney World
Starbucks, Costa, Nero etc
Center Parcs
A sensible political stance
McDonald's

What else?

OP posts:
Mangelwurzelfortea · 12/06/2026 12:32

Thepeopleversuswork · 12/06/2026 12:26

Surely you can understand that a "sensible political stance" is in the eye of the beholder?

"Common sense" is such a cop out. One person's common sense is another person's extremism/stupidity/self-indulgence.

When people evoke "common sense" or a "sensible" position to win an argument it just means either that they dislike anyone who doesn't agree with them or that they can't articulate their own position properly.

It's always people on the right who do this too. There are as many left-leaning people as right-leaning, but it's only the ones on the right who feel attacked for their views, despite them apparently being the 'sensible' views that everyone secretly shares. I wonder why.

CaesarAugusta · 12/06/2026 12:31

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 12:29

Stanley Baxter and Danny la Rue were immensely popular.

Also Dame Edna Everage

ChipDaleRescueRangers · 12/06/2026 12:31

Eating......

chanel925 · 12/06/2026 12:31

I don’t thing anyone that drinks alcohol is allowed to join Mumsnet?

CaesarAugusta · 12/06/2026 12:31

Letting anyone see your baby before they are three months old.

tombombaclot · 12/06/2026 12:30

Dogs

Kids at weddings

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 12/06/2026 12:29

BABY SHOWERS

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 12/06/2026 12:29

Dummies for babies
having babies unmarried

HotEgg · 12/06/2026 12:29

Everyone halt! @Mangelwurzelfortea is here and knows everything and has the final word on everything!

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 12:29

Differentforgirls · 12/06/2026 12:28

Not by anyone I know!

Stanley Baxter and Danny la Rue were immensely popular.

HelenaWaiting · 12/06/2026 12:29

Adequate amounts of food (if you can't make a medium-sized chicken fees a family of four for a week, you're a spendthrift).

corblimeygvnr · 12/06/2026 12:28

A hard stance against asylum seekers.

happygreenscissors · 12/06/2026 12:28

Men is a great one!

Fun. In real life, most people like holidays, having friends, seeing friends, organising parties, celebrating birthdays, weddings.

Differentforgirls · 12/06/2026 12:28

coulditbeme2323 · 12/06/2026 11:33

I think you will find blokes pretending to be women is disliked in real life as well!

Not by anyone I know!

Lifeomars · 12/06/2026 12:27

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 12/06/2026 10:53

Alcohol. Most here have a thimbleful of sherry max. 🤣

I once mentioned having two glasses of wine a week and had a reply telling me I was poisoning my body and my soul .

PrueRamsay · 12/06/2026 12:27

Dogs
Cats

Thepeopleversuswork · 12/06/2026 12:26

CapstanFullStrength · 12/06/2026 12:21

"A sensible political stance"

YANBU

Sorry not read the thread but I'm wondering if people will pretend not to understand what you're talking about or go straight into calling you a bigot

Surely you can understand that a "sensible political stance" is in the eye of the beholder?

"Common sense" is such a cop out. One person's common sense is another person's extremism/stupidity/self-indulgence.

When people evoke "common sense" or a "sensible" position to win an argument it just means either that they dislike anyone who doesn't agree with them or that they can't articulate their own position properly.

NoWordForFluffy · 12/06/2026 12:26

Netcurtainnelly · 12/06/2026 11:10

I don't 👍

I do. 👍

Mangelwurzelfortea · 12/06/2026 12:25

MoleskineNotebooks · 12/06/2026 12:24

There's no need for 'pretence'. People's idea of what a 'sensible political stance' might be is going to be entirely subjective. The OP has since clarified that she means a Conservative one. Which is definitely subjective.

Also ironic, given the title of the thread, as the Conservatives are NOT very popular in real life. Destroyed in the last GE and polling at an all-time low!

furimosa · 12/06/2026 12:25

Friends
Family
Food, eating in general

TheKittenswithMittens · 12/06/2026 12:24

The Royal Family

HotEgg · 12/06/2026 12:24

Mangelwurzelfortea · 12/06/2026 12:20

Just facts.

Naturally.

MoleskineNotebooks · 12/06/2026 12:24

CapstanFullStrength · 12/06/2026 12:21

"A sensible political stance"

YANBU

Sorry not read the thread but I'm wondering if people will pretend not to understand what you're talking about or go straight into calling you a bigot

There's no need for 'pretence'. People's idea of what a 'sensible political stance' might be is going to be entirely subjective. The OP has since clarified that she means a Conservative one. Which is definitely subjective.

corblimeygvnr · 12/06/2026 12:23

Underwear from M and S 😂

MoleskineNotebooks · 12/06/2026 12:22

Ard · 12/06/2026 12:16

The understanding that people make decisions based on what they knew at the time, and sometimes make mistakes. I can't imagine anyone I know IRL saying 'why on earth did you marry this prince of a man?'as though it's the wittiest sentence ever.

But it's not something you would say to your friend, just as you wouldn't say 'Fuck me, that's one ugly name' when a friend or relative tells you they've called the baby Lexi-Patricia. Whereas when someone posts on here about their DH's completely inability to cook, or how terribly puzzling it is that their DH has such a Big Job he needs to be out of the house 7-8am till 8 pm 6 days a week while a new friend has exactly the same job at the same level of seniority in the same office and manages to do it perfectly well between 9 and 5, and WFH two days a week, pointing out that they've married a dud may be completely accurate and useful.