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Does anybody else dislike Pride?

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coulditbeme2323 · 04/06/2026 13:12

Does anybody else dislike Pride?

We have one in our town for the second year running, and it's just really off.

Now before I get the "don't be homophobic comments" I am very much live and let live.

It's just that it can be very adult in the middle of the day.

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 05/06/2026 14:05

Andylion · 05/06/2026 14:00

Where I live Pride gets a whole month.

Black history month. Women's history month. Gypsy / Roma month. Disability Pride month. South Asian Heritage month.

spannasaurus · 05/06/2026 14:05

Slightyamusedandsilly · 05/06/2026 13:49

That is ONE person.

In the same way not all Americans are spray tanned, orange, raping, megalomaniacs.

And the same way not all working class people support Reform.

Maybe that is the issue? If working class Reform voters automatically assume everyone on their social and economic level votes Reform, that is why they think every trans person is a bearded, penis toting woman.

Not all males who identify as lesbians have a beard. Not all males who identify as women identify as lesbians.

But some due and it's not hysteria or hyperbolic to say so.

Have you heard of the overcoming cotton ceiling workshops run by Morgan Page? This is where men who identify as lesbians were taught how to break down the sexual boundaries of lesbians.

Andylion · 05/06/2026 14:00

AlternateLook · 05/06/2026 08:16

Why do the War Dead only get a day in November in commemoration? Wasn't their sacrifice the ultimate one? Gay Pride gets a week. I'll never work that one out...

Where I live Pride gets a whole month.

Triskellion75 · 05/06/2026 13:52

When my kids were small we happened to be in town when our Pride march was on and we happily watched and waved. Not sure I'd be as keen now, because it's not the same. I'm not into sex shaming but I do believe fetishes should be private. Nor am I impressed by the accounts of some lesbians and gay men who no longer feel welcome at Pride.

I also can't be doing with the 'if you don't like it don't look' crap. Having been flashed as I child can attest you don't always get the bloody choice.

moderate · 05/06/2026 13:49

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 05/06/2026 12:30

That image could be the cover pic for "How To Lie With Statistics".

Your comment could be the cover blurb for “How To Pretend Away Inconvenient Truths”.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 05/06/2026 13:49

spannasaurus · 05/06/2026 13:43

we’re laughing at you thinking a 6ft bloke with a 5 o clock shadow saying he’s a lesbian with a lady dick is just as much a woman as you.
This is peak hysteria / panic / exaggeration / hyperbole. WHATEVER synonym you want to use

Do you not believe that bearded men are calling themselves lesbians? Let me introduce you to Alex Drummond

That is ONE person.

In the same way not all Americans are spray tanned, orange, raping, megalomaniacs.

And the same way not all working class people support Reform.

Maybe that is the issue? If working class Reform voters automatically assume everyone on their social and economic level votes Reform, that is why they think every trans person is a bearded, penis toting woman.

spannasaurus · 05/06/2026 13:43

we’re laughing at you thinking a 6ft bloke with a 5 o clock shadow saying he’s a lesbian with a lady dick is just as much a woman as you.
This is peak hysteria / panic / exaggeration / hyperbole. WHATEVER synonym you want to use

Do you not believe that bearded men are calling themselves lesbians? Let me introduce you to Alex Drummond

Does anybody else dislike Pride?
Slightyamusedandsilly · 05/06/2026 13:35

MightyDandelionEsq · 05/06/2026 10:39

There’s no hysteria in my post (nice use of the often male misogynistic word to downplay a woman’s opinion btw).

I’m just sick of people like yourself talking down to working class people and making out we’re all thick because we don’t conform to kink displays and men invading women’s spaces and immediately comparing us to the BNP who haven’t been around in decades (eye roll). There is a real concern that parties like Reform will gain power and you downplaying real societal issues will inevitably lead to harder policies from parties and the pendulum swinging too far the other way to compensate.

As I said, you reap what you sow. You can chortle to your hearts content but they’re leading in the polls. Same as everyone laughed and chortled at Trump but he’s behind the desk at the White House. If you don’t meet people in the middle, those people will choose a harsher option. But as long as you just laugh at others concerns then I’m sure we’ll all be okay.

Perhaps check your comments before you start (continuing) to throw accusations.

You’re laughing at us
Nope. Discussing.

Most people like you look down upon those in different socio economic circumstances
Nope. I'm probably on the same economic level.

preaching
Nope. Discussing.

There’s been a lot of Labour MPs done over recently for child SA
Related to my points how?

Reform have some unsavoury characters
Yes. Many many of the Reform supporters (I read a 40% statistic but that is probably not accurate) have a DV conviction or accusation.

do the apparent champion party of the working class
EH?

we’re laughing at you thinking a 6ft bloke with a 5 o clock shadow saying he’s a lesbian with a lady dick is just as much a woman as you.
This is peak hysteria / panic / exaggeration / hyperbole. WHATEVER synonym you want to use.

preach about patriarchy and women’s rights thinking you’re so virtuous.
If not hysteria, certainly highly emotive.

You and your ilk
I'm one of your ilk. Other than supporting a fascist party actually. (Or not being a racist, homophobe or TERF).

you’re the ones waving in the apparent facists by emulating facist and bigoted behaviour yourself
Yup, still pretty emotive.

Maybe police what you write a bit better if you don't want to be accused of being hysterical.

Just to note. Being working class doesn't = Reform / racist / homophobe / trans phobe. Don't tar us all with that brush. Just because your jackboot fits you it certainly doesn't fit me.

moderate · 05/06/2026 13:27

sweetpickle2 · 05/06/2026 11:02

This infographic has been debunked as manipulating the stats- the trans women's rate is taken from the prison population, whereas the men and women's rate is taken from the general population.

People sharing stuff like this on forums like it's fact without doing due diligence is exactly why bigotry spreads as quickly as it does. People see something like this, apply no critical thinking, and hit repost to get everyone else in their bubble frothed up too.

No, it hasn’t been debunked. The men’s and women’s rates come from the prison population.

Try again. And maybe have a little think about why your little bubble lied to you about this “debunking”, and why you swallowed it.

vezesez · 05/06/2026 13:26

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 05/06/2026 12:11

But I'm not saying ONLY bots are concerned, real people become concerned when they are bombarded with propaganda and the propaganda is frightening! Comparing trans women to male rapists makes people frightened about sharing female spaces. Most people rarely even interact with trans people yet some will consider it a bigger issue than the NHS, there has been a massive push to make trans people vilified for political leverage.

Same has happened with immigration and barely any real media analysis that immigration has increased because of Brexit yet the architects of Brexit are still benefitting from the leverage of this issue. God forbid we have a real discussion about foreign policy rather than "stop the boats" rhetoric.

People aren’t scared to share female spaces with trans people.

Women don’t want to share their single sex spaces with men, even if a man identifies as a woman.

If you ask yourself why we sometimes, not very often, segregate spaces into female and male it has to be for good reason. Those reasons are due to sex not how they feel.

Men remain male, even if they wear a dress, prosthetic breast and make up and as segregated single sex spaces are reliant on sex differences, men should never be in woman’s spaces if those spaces are single sex. Ever.

1dayatatime · 05/06/2026 13:10

Verv · 05/06/2026 12:44

Cant stand Pride.

It's an absolute circus drenched in "kink" and imo has contributed to the resurfacing of the good old "gays are degenerates" brand of homophobia.

The LGB marched for equality and to be unremarkable, normal, and a part of society that you no longer needed to bat an eye at.

Now we've got cross dressing porn addled incels combined with men nursing semis in front of children while wearing leather masks in "puppy pens" and lesbians being physically removed for rejecting penises combined with a load of spicy straights who think that they're the voices of the "queer community" just because theyve dyed their hair blue and have "identified" their way out of heterosexuality.

Im delighted that its on its starting to die on its arse.

Perhaps we can start to be linked with being really boring members of society who go to work, pay taxes, walk the dog, go to the supermarket, and spend time with our same sex partners without being an utter spectacle again.
Wouldnt that be bloody nice.

I absolutely love this post "start to be linked with being really boring members of society ".

Spot on 😀

Verv · 05/06/2026 12:44

Cant stand Pride.

It's an absolute circus drenched in "kink" and imo has contributed to the resurfacing of the good old "gays are degenerates" brand of homophobia.

The LGB marched for equality and to be unremarkable, normal, and a part of society that you no longer needed to bat an eye at.

Now we've got cross dressing porn addled incels combined with men nursing semis in front of children while wearing leather masks in "puppy pens" and lesbians being physically removed for rejecting penises combined with a load of spicy straights who think that they're the voices of the "queer community" just because theyve dyed their hair blue and have "identified" their way out of heterosexuality.

Im delighted that its on its starting to die on its arse.

Perhaps we can start to be linked with being really boring members of society who go to work, pay taxes, walk the dog, go to the supermarket, and spend time with our same sex partners without being an utter spectacle again.
Wouldnt that be bloody nice.

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 05/06/2026 12:30

moderate · 05/06/2026 10:34

Not LGB people, but TQ+ people.

Would you like to try your hand at explaining these statistics?

That image could be the cover pic for "How To Lie With Statistics".

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 05/06/2026 12:11

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:20

Mumsnet has been one of the first forums to introduce women to the dangers of trans ideology and of the wider dangers of male fetishy behaviour , hence this thread. No one cares about homosexuality but the gimps, furries, AGP males are unnecessary.

This has been an organic movement, raised from genuine concerns of women (and some men). Some of us have watched the progression of this from back when we couldnt call men, men, without getting deleted and reported.

It’s very funny when people turn up and infer that “only bots” could be concerned.

But I'm not saying ONLY bots are concerned, real people become concerned when they are bombarded with propaganda and the propaganda is frightening! Comparing trans women to male rapists makes people frightened about sharing female spaces. Most people rarely even interact with trans people yet some will consider it a bigger issue than the NHS, there has been a massive push to make trans people vilified for political leverage.

Same has happened with immigration and barely any real media analysis that immigration has increased because of Brexit yet the architects of Brexit are still benefitting from the leverage of this issue. God forbid we have a real discussion about foreign policy rather than "stop the boats" rhetoric.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 05/06/2026 11:54

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:40

I’m sorry, I have no idea what you’re getting at.

🤷‍♀️

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:40

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 05/06/2026 11:32

So why bring bots up
I mean, it literally says in the comments on the conversation about it.
I'm not sure what it is that you're not getting?

I’m sorry, I have no idea what you’re getting at.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 05/06/2026 11:32

So why bring bots up
I mean, it literally says in the comments on the conversation about it.
I'm not sure what it is that you're not getting?

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:29

MistressoftheDarkSide · 05/06/2026 11:24

Nobody is inferring that "only bots" can be concerned about the highlighted issues. The suspicion comes from the leveraging of contentious issues by data gatherers with their own agendas and helping obfuscate the genuine grass roots issues that people are genuinely concerned about.

So why bring bots up? Concerns about males displaying fetishes in public seem organic to me.

The same bot-insistent poster on the Trump thread, after his re-election, was insistent that most people had argued with an online bot at some stage. Which was intriguing to me, given my social media at the time consisted of Reddit cricket, work WhatsApp and Mumsnet.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 05/06/2026 11:24

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:20

Mumsnet has been one of the first forums to introduce women to the dangers of trans ideology and of the wider dangers of male fetishy behaviour , hence this thread. No one cares about homosexuality but the gimps, furries, AGP males are unnecessary.

This has been an organic movement, raised from genuine concerns of women (and some men). Some of us have watched the progression of this from back when we couldnt call men, men, without getting deleted and reported.

It’s very funny when people turn up and infer that “only bots” could be concerned.

Nobody is inferring that "only bots" can be concerned about the highlighted issues. The suspicion comes from the leveraging of contentious issues by data gatherers with their own agendas and helping obfuscate the genuine grass roots issues that people are genuinely concerned about.

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:23

I remember a similar poster, maybe the same one, 🤷‍♀️, insisting that “it was the bots that done it” when Trump was re-elected. Some shifts in cultural perspective are just organic.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 05/06/2026 11:22

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:20

Mumsnet has been one of the first forums to introduce women to the dangers of trans ideology and of the wider dangers of male fetishy behaviour , hence this thread. No one cares about homosexuality but the gimps, furries, AGP males are unnecessary.

This has been an organic movement, raised from genuine concerns of women (and some men). Some of us have watched the progression of this from back when we couldnt call men, men, without getting deleted and reported.

It’s very funny when people turn up and infer that “only bots” could be concerned.

Nobody has said that only bots can be concerned though!
You're making shit up or purposefully missing the point.

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:20

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 05/06/2026 11:03

This is just so ridiculous. Either purposefully obtuse or incredibly naive. Who knows.

Mumsnet has been one of the first forums to introduce women to the dangers of trans ideology and of the wider dangers of male fetishy behaviour , hence this thread. No one cares about homosexuality but the gimps, furries, AGP males are unnecessary.

This has been an organic movement, raised from genuine concerns of women (and some men). Some of us have watched the progression of this from back when we couldnt call men, men, without getting deleted and reported.

It’s very funny when people turn up and infer that “only bots” could be concerned.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 05/06/2026 11:17

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:02

Are the bots in the room with us right now??

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/77th_Brigade_(United_Kingdom)

Mebbe, mebbe not. Who knows?

77th Brigade (United Kingdom) - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/77th_Brigade_(United_Kingdom)

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 05/06/2026 11:03

nolongersurprised · 05/06/2026 11:02

Are the bots in the room with us right now??

This is just so ridiculous. Either purposefully obtuse or incredibly naive. Who knows.

sweetpickle2 · 05/06/2026 11:02

moderate · 05/06/2026 10:34

Not LGB people, but TQ+ people.

Would you like to try your hand at explaining these statistics?

This infographic has been debunked as manipulating the stats- the trans women's rate is taken from the prison population, whereas the men and women's rate is taken from the general population.

People sharing stuff like this on forums like it's fact without doing due diligence is exactly why bigotry spreads as quickly as it does. People see something like this, apply no critical thinking, and hit repost to get everyone else in their bubble frothed up too.

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