Long story short last year I posted about how I was upset that husband didn’t plan anything or get me anything for my birthday, I don’t want much, but even getting the kids to make me a card would have been nice. People said when he asks I shouldn’t brush it off and say I don’t want anything etc. so I told him how I felt and he said next birthday will be special, anyway we’re now 2 days before and he asks me ‘do you want a cake?’ And where should we go to eat. Basically this means he hasn’t done any planning. It’s not the birthday itself that gets to me, it’s more that when it’s his birthday or kids or my immediate family, I plan the cake, food and get together on that persons behalf. Just feels shit that none of them have planned anything for me and he’s asking me 2 days before. I suppose I wanted to know if I’m being unreasonable here..