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The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others

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Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:17

I read this quote and it encapsulates exactly how I feel

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

*the quote is from John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten. He's deliberately provocative in lots of ways, but he meant this one. I fully expect some people to come on the thread to tell us all how he's a horror and said he likes Donald Trump. That would be them missing the point.. but.. Let Them..

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WildGarden · 09/05/2026 19:10

John Lydon has lived in America for 40 years ago and became an American citizen in 2013.

Nothing Reform or any of our politicians do has any impact on him.

Bringemout · 09/05/2026 19:08

Crikeyalmighty · 09/05/2026 19:03

I work in music industry- Hess thoroughly disputable arse even as an older t guy and that’s well known . The only ok thing he did was look after his wife well when she was very ill

He could be the worst person in the world, thats not the point, is he wrong? Thats the question.

On a personal note I have never thought of any politician as cool. I like competent, those are my favourite ones.

Bringemout · 09/05/2026 19:06

I think we’ve elevated identity politics and victimhood status to the extent that it’s engrained itself into everything.

https://heterodoxacademy.org/blog/victimhood-culture-at-emory/

This a really interesting look at what two psychologists call “victim hood
“ culture (as opposed to honour and dignity culture). It’s worth a read and is quite enlightening.

I think it also explains a lot of the way activism around things like Gaza is framed in the west.

Victimhood culture explains what is happening at Emory - HxA

College students on many American campuses are showing an extraordinary mix of fragility and anger that is puzzling to outsiders.

https://heterodoxacademy.org/blog/victimhood-culture-at-emory/

thepariscrimefiles · 09/05/2026 19:05

Reform voters have elected quite a few problematic candidates:

Glenn Gibbins, Reform candidate who said ‘Nigerians should be melted down to fill in pot holes’ wins seat (reported in the Metro news)

Derek Bullock who has said 'shoot the Pakis on the spot'

Jay Leslie Cooper Reform candidate who has called the Holocaust a "hoax" and "propaganda"

Stuart Prior, who stood for Reform in Rayleigh West celebrated the aggravated rape of a Sikh woman in the West Midlands and called it 'a good thing'.

Either Reform's vetting processes are absolutely rubbish or they don't find any of the above problematic in their Councillors which is alarming.

Crikeyalmighty · 09/05/2026 19:03

Plummagic · 09/05/2026 19:01

John Lydon stopped being cool about 40 years ago.

I work in music industry- Hess thoroughly disputable arse even as an older t guy and that’s well known . The only ok thing he did was look after his wife well when she was very ill

Crikeyalmighty · 09/05/2026 19:01

Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:56

So so so typical. I think you'll find the bit I highlighted is the most important aspect of the quote, but it needed context. Obviously you and others like you go to this bit - par for the course, and again, brilliantly demonstrating the point. You couldn't make it up/ Oh yes, you could..

'..and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

Edited

That poster did no such thing - she just pointed out that she appreciates diligence, head down to the job rather than charisma or coolness - that’s just factual - I agree with her too, it’s nothing to do with self righteousness -

Plummagic · 09/05/2026 19:01

John Lydon stopped being cool about 40 years ago.

Eskarina1 · 09/05/2026 19:01

LatterHorn · 09/05/2026 18:39

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones’

I have second-hand embarrassment for you OP and anyone agreeing with this. I have no need for any politician or decision-maker to be ‘cool’. I need them to be competent, principled and hard-working. Beyond the teen years, the pursuit of coolness is probably the most uncool
thing you can do!

I still cringe whenever I remember Tony Blair playing guitar and schmoozing with Britpop stars

mumofoneAloneandwell · 09/05/2026 18:59

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Crikeyalmighty · 09/05/2026 18:58

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:49

I’d say it’s exactly the opposite. It’s the left that hates people who do well for themselves. Because everyone should be poor and state handout dependent in the socialist playbook.

This really depends on what kind of ‘left’ you mean - I’m a centre left voter - and yes I do know a few like this but I also know tons who don’t - I’m originally from a midlands mining town but live somewhere considered quite posh now and I’m all for working class people getting on - myself included.

Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:57

PonyPatter44 · 09/05/2026 18:31

This is Brexit 2.0. You fucking won and you're still moaning. Grow up.

What is Brexit 2.0?
Who are you saying I am?

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ILikeDinosaurs · 09/05/2026 18:56

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:23

Yes the left are now woman hating, working class hating, country hating, just generally a hating bunch of people. Always moaning, always complaining, as usual pulling everyone down to their level.

Working class warriors, they ain’t.

And the right are not woman-hating? You clearly know nothing of Reform's policies! (Proving the adage that the right are thick)..

Reform wants to scrap the Equality act, meaning women will have no equal rights at work, no right to equal pay, no maternity protections, they have voted against increasing protections against violence for women and girls, including the right to not have their drinks spiked or photos taken without permission, they have called for a tax on childless women, less protection for women in DV cases, and I can go on and on.

They are a bunch of men who are sick in the head, and the women who support them... well I just don't understand them at all.

Now tell me, who are the hateful ones?

Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:56

LatterHorn · 09/05/2026 18:39

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones’

I have second-hand embarrassment for you OP and anyone agreeing with this. I have no need for any politician or decision-maker to be ‘cool’. I need them to be competent, principled and hard-working. Beyond the teen years, the pursuit of coolness is probably the most uncool
thing you can do!

So so so typical. I think you'll find the bit I highlighted is the most important aspect of the quote, but it needed context. Obviously you and others like you go to this bit - par for the course, and again, brilliantly demonstrating the point. You couldn't make it up/ Oh yes, you could..

'..and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

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OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:49

Crikeyalmighty · 09/05/2026 18:43

The reverse is also true unfortunately and if you haven’t seen it then you aren’t looking in the right places- Many Reform voters ( and politicians) disdain for anyone who has done ok and not a scaffolder or banker( going on both ends of their support) and simply doesn’t support them .

I’d say it’s exactly the opposite. It’s the left that hates people who do well for themselves. Because everyone should be poor and state handout dependent in the socialist playbook.

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:47

thepariscrimefiles · 09/05/2026 18:44

It's not the Left that are starting all these threads. The vast majority of threads since the election have been posted by Reform or Restore supporters.

And?

thepariscrimefiles · 09/05/2026 18:44

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:37

It’s a strange syndrome that the left have. Call people racist, thick, stupid and all sorts of other other names and then wonder, cry, wail and moan that these people have the audacity to not vote the same way as they do. That these people actually choose to vote for people who don’t call them names and look down upon them with disdain.

It shows. You see it so clearly. Whenever Labour and Green politicians speak, it’s like their persona is dripping with contempt for the little people beneath them. The hate this country and they hate the electorate. They see themselves above us all.

It's not the Left that are starting all these threads. The vast majority of threads since the election have been posted by Reform or Restore supporters.

SlumChum · 09/05/2026 18:44

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:37

It’s a strange syndrome that the left have. Call people racist, thick, stupid and all sorts of other other names and then wonder, cry, wail and moan that these people have the audacity to not vote the same way as they do. That these people actually choose to vote for people who don’t call them names and look down upon them with disdain.

It shows. You see it so clearly. Whenever Labour and Green politicians speak, it’s like their persona is dripping with contempt for the little people beneath them. The hate this country and they hate the electorate. They see themselves above us all.

They haven't called you names, but they've called plenty of other people names.

15 Reform councillors have been suspended including:

Lynn Dean (Staffordshire) for saying Black people were less intelligent than White people.

Tom Pickup (Lancashire) who called for a genocide of Muslim people

Robert Bloom (North Northamptonshire) who used racial slurs against a Black constituent

Crikeyalmighty · 09/05/2026 18:43

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:37

It’s a strange syndrome that the left have. Call people racist, thick, stupid and all sorts of other other names and then wonder, cry, wail and moan that these people have the audacity to not vote the same way as they do. That these people actually choose to vote for people who don’t call them names and look down upon them with disdain.

It shows. You see it so clearly. Whenever Labour and Green politicians speak, it’s like their persona is dripping with contempt for the little people beneath them. The hate this country and they hate the electorate. They see themselves above us all.

The reverse is also true unfortunately and if you haven’t seen it then you aren’t looking in the right places- Many Reform voters ( and politicians) disdain for anyone who has done ok and not a scaffolder or banker( going on both ends of their support) and simply doesn’t support them .

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:42

AStonedRose · 09/05/2026 18:36

National Minimum Wage
Sure Start centres
Scottish Parliament creation
Good Friday Agreement
Civil partnerships legalisation
Tax credits expansion
NHS spending increases

Devolution has been an unmitigated disaster. An absolute shitshow. The economies and public services of the devolved nations are in even worse shape than England.

Sure start centres. How imaginative. While advancing nations are building the hyperloop, or creating the tech of tomorrow, we’re supposed to be jumping up and down about….surestart. The bar is low.

Tax credit expansion has absolutely destroyed productivity in this country. Why would employers invest in automation when they can get cheap labour subsidized by the taxpayer. Better still, get cheap immigrant labour and watch the benefits bill balloon even more.

NHS spending increases is no flex. The NHS is a disaster. So are it outcomes.

Maybe think carefully about outcomes before repeating soundbites.

LatterHorn · 09/05/2026 18:39

Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:17

I read this quote and it encapsulates exactly how I feel

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

*the quote is from John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten. He's deliberately provocative in lots of ways, but he meant this one. I fully expect some people to come on the thread to tell us all how he's a horror and said he likes Donald Trump. That would be them missing the point.. but.. Let Them..

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones’

I have second-hand embarrassment for you OP and anyone agreeing with this. I have no need for any politician or decision-maker to be ‘cool’. I need them to be competent, principled and hard-working. Beyond the teen years, the pursuit of coolness is probably the most uncool
thing you can do!

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:37

It’s a strange syndrome that the left have. Call people racist, thick, stupid and all sorts of other other names and then wonder, cry, wail and moan that these people have the audacity to not vote the same way as they do. That these people actually choose to vote for people who don’t call them names and look down upon them with disdain.

It shows. You see it so clearly. Whenever Labour and Green politicians speak, it’s like their persona is dripping with contempt for the little people beneath them. The hate this country and they hate the electorate. They see themselves above us all.

AStonedRose · 09/05/2026 18:36

OneTealShaker · 09/05/2026 18:23

Yes the left are now woman hating, working class hating, country hating, just generally a hating bunch of people. Always moaning, always complaining, as usual pulling everyone down to their level.

Working class warriors, they ain’t.

National Minimum Wage
Sure Start centres
Scottish Parliament creation
Good Friday Agreement
Civil partnerships legalisation
Tax credits expansion
NHS spending increases

thepariscrimefiles · 09/05/2026 18:35

CurlewKate · 09/05/2026 18:29

Love the idea that the privately educated ex City trader Farage with all his links to the super rich is not part of the establishment!

Totally agree. He has also always been treated with kid gloves by the BBC and has never been challenged or scrutinised like MPs from other parties.

Now that the elections are over, he has only just been asked by Beth Rigby about the £5 million donation he received and he took the question very badly indeed and refused to give an answer.

SlumChum · 09/05/2026 18:34

I for one welcome our new overlords. I'm hoping Reform will repaint our lampposts, they're looking a bit tired. Plus there's a playground up the road that needs a new swing set. They are going to be very busy!

PonyPatter44 · 09/05/2026 18:31

This is Brexit 2.0. You fucking won and you're still moaning. Grow up.