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What would you do about immigration?

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stateofthem · 07/05/2026 12:59

I’ve seen an awful lot of political posts here recently, generally displeased with labour (other policies are for a separate thread) and taking hard stances on immigration.

I often feel as though people have a very blinkered view on immigration which does sway the argument. It seems to be either “let everyone in” or “let no one in” as such.

One point I wish to make is that currently you must be in the UK to be able to make an asylum claim. This (in my opinion) is the biggest factor in small boats/mass migration.

If I were in charge I would propose the following:

Re-implement the ability to seek asylum from abroad via one safe legal channel. Enforce that applications must be made via this route (obviously with concessions for no internet, poor English etc).

Applications are reviewed on a case by case basis, and if rejected, a person is placed onto a register explaining the reason for rejection (and possibly a timescale of when they could reapply).

Anyone who does not follow this channel is returned to their country of origin.

Anyone who arrives having not followed this policy is returned to their country of origin.

I appreciate that the above would need a lot of work and investment, and it’s not quite as straightforward as how I set it out, but I feel as if it’s a reasonable response which allows some migrants but not uncontrolled.

at the moment it feels as though both sides of the coin are offering very extreme solutions either way, and I feel as though someone needs to offer a more reasonable and middle way approach.

I am interested to hear others opinions on this, and if you disagree, what would you do instead?

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Misshapenbowl · 07/05/2026 14:32

I don’t know what the answer is but I wish I could talk openly about how hard some types of immigration can be to live with.
I live in a poor diverse area, it’s always been this way and mostly hasn’t been a problem. Some communities settled in the area a long time ago and integrated well.
We have more recent high immigration in the area that I assume is economic migration? They seem to hate the country but are perhaps just here to make money and send it home? Obviously this wouldn’t be a problem if they didn’t engage in such anti social behaviour. Issues include drinking in the streets, setting off fireworks in the streets, blocking resident drives and generally not following parking regulations. Having loud parties, littering and fly tipping. Combined with the fact that they rent and don’t care about the property it can make for a miserable neighbourhood. Although I am fully aware that bad landlords don’t help either.

I know that people will say that anyone can display this behaviour and that is true. However when you try and talk to them about it and they don’t speak English it is so hard to resolve any problems. I just feel like I am living in a hostile environment next to people who don’t care about the area and aren’t invested in it. My long term neighbours who are all from different ethnic backgrounds feel the same.

If I ever voice these opinions I am just viewed as racist.

Thechaseison71 · 07/05/2026 14:31

Blimms · 07/05/2026 13:53

How would applying for asylum from another country reduce immigration? Those eligible would still come and those who are not would likely to come illegally (small boats, channel tunnel etc. )

Because doing that rather than going through proper channel s should lead to automatic dentition and femoval

EasternStandard · 07/05/2026 14:29

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:17

Of course it won't stop it completely, but it will reduce human trafficking if there is a safer and more accessible option.

I also think it's really important when we're having this discussion to be clear on language- if someone arrives by small boat and claims asylum that is NOT illegal immigration and should not be classed as such. They have entered the country perfectly legally doing it in this way.

If they enter by small boat and then decide not to claim asylum that is illegal immigration.

It wouldn’t reduce trafficking unless you can meet the requirement of everyone who would want to be here and who meets the criteria.

Everanewbie · 07/05/2026 14:26

SpringHasSprungTheGrassIsRiz · 07/05/2026 13:15

We also need serious improvement for legitimate immigration of the sort of highly skilled tax payer who benefits this country. I am working with a colleague who earns £80k+ a year, takes nothing in terms of benefits/NHS/schooling etc from this country and is being treated appallingly as she tried to extend her visa. According to the lawyer we are receiving advice from this is becoming the norm.

Ironically, it is quicker and easier (24 hours) for a new immigrant to apply to enter the country from abroad, but takes 18 weeks+ to extend a visa in this country.

The system really is entirely broken.

I heard a similar story of a Kiwi who is going home because they can't get sponsors etc despite earning way into the higher rate tax bracket. Very much part of the anglosphere, loves this country, loves our customs and loves our people, yet they're being slung out on their arse. Yet we seem ok to indefinitely support entire families who will never be contributors, and want to silo themselves, or even take an active dislike to our society and have a very different values system.

Completely arse about face.

5MinuteArgument · 07/05/2026 14:26

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:15

I agree on the welfare aspect if you mean cutting funds for those out of work by choice etc. I don’t think that we should penalise those who are genuinely disabled etc, and I find those groups are usually left with the brunt to bear from a lot of cuts etc.

So, assuming disabled people are removed from this equation I would personally propose:

Those on jobseeker benefits to be required to fulfil 30 hours per week of community service or charity work - to be signed off by a member of this organisation personally each week. (I appreciate there would need to be things done to ensure no corruption here).

Total reform on the issues around working a certain number of hours reducing benefits, meaning people don’t work (or work little hours) as they can earn more on benefits. This should not happen.

The above said, I often see that the vast majority of work posts needed are in care. I would never want someone to work in care who didn’t want to, not least as they would likely provide some substandard care. I’d much rather know my mum was being cared for by an immigrant who wants to care and will offer kindness and compassion, than an English person who will be full of resentment. I know there’s no easy fix to that aspect, but I really do feel that those out of work (or anyone really) shouldn’t be forced into care roles as ultimately those receiving the care would suffer.

But the immigrants providing the care are not necessarily caring and compassionate. They are usually coming from countries where there are no out of work benefits so their choice is either to work or starve.

I think it would be better if we invested in care work, improved wages and conditions and supported Brits to do the work. If you factored in the saving on welfare, it might even be cost effective.

DeedlessIndeed · 07/05/2026 14:26

I worked in the asylum system for 6 eye-opening years.

The biggest area of reform are the asylum courts and lawyers.

Lawyers want cases to appeal as they will get twice the pay. Small aspects of evidence is regularly withheld in order for it to be then provided and an appeal based on.

Appeals courts overturn the majority of negative decisions. Appeals clog up the courts so everyone waits too long. That doesn't seem like a system that is working.

Interpreters that work for the lawyers are not professional. I have heard recordered calls with interpreters where the interpreter is adding their own information.

And then when someone gets a negative decision they have all support removed but were rarely detained or deported. Just left to sofa surf or put in a new claim or enter the grey/black economy.

Lastly, most people I worked with worked illegally in some capacity (nail bar/car wash/ deliveroo/ even sex work). If asylum seekers were allowed to work legally many of them would - and pay tax. They do in germany and other countries.

Also brexit needs to be undone. When we could no longer access european data on asylum we lost the ability to see that Mr X had applied and been refused in Germany and should be deported. That was a quick way to deport people who were serial applicants.

turkeyboots · 07/05/2026 14:24

The migrants aren't coming for the fun of it. They come for work and opportunity (and potentially benefits). ID cards and HMRC funded to clamp down on off the books employers would go a long way to help. There are reasons economic migrants go to the UK and dont stay in Germany or France.
Application for refugee status should be via the nearest safe Embassy. No country wants to be Britain's off shore processing hub.

whywonthelisten · 07/05/2026 14:24

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:18

Legally you cannot return someone who has arrived by small boat and claimed asylum. This is a breach of human rights law. Same as 'push backs' where small boats are denied entry or given fuel for a return journey is illegal.

There is already a limited 'one in one out' trial scheme with France so I assume that means it's possible for it to be done legally.

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:23

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 14:12

Maybe not, but I speak for a lot of people.

You speak for yourself. You may know others who agree with you but in discussion like this it's not appropriate to be presenting opinion as fact when lots of people feel differently on it. I expect people to feel differently to me but I would never pretend to speak for everyone or present myself as such.

CricketOTR · 07/05/2026 14:20

titchy · 07/05/2026 14:09

Yeah except that there is no evidence that supports this. The student visa route is one of the best adhered to visas. The vast majority leave once they have finished their studies.

Edited to add I missed your outrageously racist second paragraph. Nasty. Dependents haven’t been able to come for several years either.

Edited

Racist, really?
I suppose you are in favour of subjugation of women, FGM, cousin marriage, ‘honour’ killings, and other backwards practices then?

If being against those makes me a racist then that is why that insult no longer has any power over many of us.

Pathetic.

On students, it is only since 2024 that rules were tightened up on bringing dependents, and the fact is nobody knows how many stay on illegally because nobody is bloody counting!

@FeistyFrankie you need to provide evidence for your assertion.

Dig around in here and see what conclusion you come to:

https://migrationobservatory.ox.ac.uk/resources/briefings/student-migration-to-the-uk/

Student Migration to the UK - Migration Observatory

This briefing examines non-european student migration to the UK including where they come from, their characteristics, who sponsors them, and how many eventually settle in the country.

https://migrationobservatory.ox.ac.uk/resources/briefings/student-migration-to-the-uk/

ReallyOtter · 07/05/2026 14:18

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:14

The idea would be to create safer pathways for women who are being otherwise oppressed rather than those women being dependent on men making the journey and then going through family reunification processes. This could also empower asylum seeking women if they get here, form a support network, learn English and are able to gain employment and training before men arrive via family reunification. That puts those women who are more at risk in a stronger position overall.

This sounds terrible. Who among us would want to travel on those terms? It is swapping one oppression for another.

You know there are some loving and supportive Afghan men, right?

I witness so much bullying of brown women and physical attacks on their businesses in my city. Why isolate them from loved ones?

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:18

whywonthelisten · 07/05/2026 14:16

I can't see how creating legal routes for people to claim asylum would solve the issue of 'small boats' unless the legal routes were uncapped (which would be political suicide). If the legal route is capped then people would still try to get here via the current illegal routes when they are unable to get here legally. Unless, that is, we have a returns agreement with France.

The only way I see this working is that we agree a quota with the EU and we accept that many people via applications made in the EU. Then, every person who makes their way here via other routes gets returned to France. People will stop paying traffickers to get to the UK on a boat if they know they will get returned.

The flaw in my wonderful plan is that I suspect that the number of asylum seekers we would need to accept would be too high for most peoples liking.

Legally you cannot return someone who has arrived by small boat and claimed asylum. This is a breach of human rights law. Same as 'push backs' where small boats are denied entry or given fuel for a return journey is illegal.

FurryWastebin · 07/05/2026 14:18

Winteriscoming80 · 07/05/2026 13:43

Definitely agree!

Yes, well, the Brits invented concentration camps after all. Just dust down the concept and herd the buggers in eh 🙄

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:17

Blimms · 07/05/2026 14:12

I agree option 1 is preferable. But it has been claimed that it will stop illegal immigration which isn’t the case.

Of course it won't stop it completely, but it will reduce human trafficking if there is a safer and more accessible option.

I also think it's really important when we're having this discussion to be clear on language- if someone arrives by small boat and claims asylum that is NOT illegal immigration and should not be classed as such. They have entered the country perfectly legally doing it in this way.

If they enter by small boat and then decide not to claim asylum that is illegal immigration.

whywonthelisten · 07/05/2026 14:16

I can't see how creating legal routes for people to claim asylum would solve the issue of 'small boats' unless the legal routes were uncapped (which would be political suicide). If the legal route is capped then people would still try to get here via the current illegal routes when they are unable to get here legally. Unless, that is, we have a returns agreement with France.

The only way I see this working is that we agree a quota with the EU and we accept that many people via applications made in the EU. Then, every person who makes their way here via other routes gets returned to France. People will stop paying traffickers to get to the UK on a boat if they know they will get returned.

The flaw in my wonderful plan is that I suspect that the number of asylum seekers we would need to accept would be too high for most peoples liking.

EasternStandard · 07/05/2026 14:16

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:08

Develop more accessible routes to apply for asylum prior to arrival from more than 2 countries (as is the case currently).

Allow people to work while waiting on asylum applications to process.

Include demonstrated community engagement and involvement in the asylum application process to encourage people to integrate properly.

Dedicate more resource into clearing the insane backlog of applications.

Dedicate more resources into tackling the gangs involved in people smuggling and human trafficking in partnership with other countries.

Prioritise creating safe access pathways for women and children.

Could the demand be met, if you envisage how many would apply.

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 14:16

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:08

Develop more accessible routes to apply for asylum prior to arrival from more than 2 countries (as is the case currently).

Allow people to work while waiting on asylum applications to process.

Include demonstrated community engagement and involvement in the asylum application process to encourage people to integrate properly.

Dedicate more resource into clearing the insane backlog of applications.

Dedicate more resources into tackling the gangs involved in people smuggling and human trafficking in partnership with other countries.

Prioritise creating safe access pathways for women and children.

I agree with all of this!

OP posts:
Maddy70 · 07/05/2026 14:15

The country needs immigration to sustain and boost the economy. It needs to process everyone quickly and get people working or return as applicable

ReallyOtter · 07/05/2026 14:15

So would married Afghan women have to live as widows or as divorcées or as bigamists, if their husbands cannot accompany them?

I totally understand why the men come here, by the way. They are heroes and pioneers trying to make a way in life. They may not think that women are safe or respected in the UK, and they might not want them to risk the journey without a home to go to.

This is the spirit that good men have.

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:14

ReallyOtter · 07/05/2026 14:08

I cannot understand why people would welcome Afghan women only if the women abandon their sons, husbands, lovers, and male elders. It is a whole new oppression to strip someone of their family.

The idea would be to create safer pathways for women who are being otherwise oppressed rather than those women being dependent on men making the journey and then going through family reunification processes. This could also empower asylum seeking women if they get here, form a support network, learn English and are able to gain employment and training before men arrive via family reunification. That puts those women who are more at risk in a stronger position overall.

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 14:14

Blimms · 07/05/2026 14:06

Sorry to keep banging on about this. Nobody has answered the question as to how applying for asylum from outside of the country stops illegal immigration.

I think it’s more the hardline that comes with it. So, apply via the legal route and have your claim heard, arrive without doing this and be immediately removed. It would require such strictness on boarders etc etc. it is also much harder owing to brexit, and the fact that now places like France have less of a desire to work with us on this

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Blimms · 07/05/2026 14:12

FeistyFrankie · 07/05/2026 14:10

Well which one would you choose?

Option 1 - apply online, receive "asylum approved", use this to book train/boat/plane tickets to travel legally and safely to destination country

Option 2 - pay ££££ to traffickers to climb into the fake bottom of a lorry, where you end up stuck for days, dehydrated, maybe you die, at the very least you end up severely traumatised from the journey, only to hope you can apply for asylum upon arrival

I agree option 1 is preferable. But it has been claimed that it will stop illegal immigration which isn’t the case.

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 14:12

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:11

Speak for yourself because you definitely don't speak for me.

Maybe not, but I speak for a lot of people.

gerispringer · 07/05/2026 14:12

The biggest number of illegal immigrants is not those who come on a boat but those who come on a time limited visa and never return. Digital ID is one way of tackling this so you know who shouldn’t be here and haven’t left, but the moaners think that threatens their civil liberties or some nonsense so that won’t get done.

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:11

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 14:09

We don't want them women or otherwise.

Speak for yourself because you definitely don't speak for me.