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What would you do about immigration?

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stateofthem · 07/05/2026 12:59

I’ve seen an awful lot of political posts here recently, generally displeased with labour (other policies are for a separate thread) and taking hard stances on immigration.

I often feel as though people have a very blinkered view on immigration which does sway the argument. It seems to be either “let everyone in” or “let no one in” as such.

One point I wish to make is that currently you must be in the UK to be able to make an asylum claim. This (in my opinion) is the biggest factor in small boats/mass migration.

If I were in charge I would propose the following:

Re-implement the ability to seek asylum from abroad via one safe legal channel. Enforce that applications must be made via this route (obviously with concessions for no internet, poor English etc).

Applications are reviewed on a case by case basis, and if rejected, a person is placed onto a register explaining the reason for rejection (and possibly a timescale of when they could reapply).

Anyone who does not follow this channel is returned to their country of origin.

Anyone who arrives having not followed this policy is returned to their country of origin.

I appreciate that the above would need a lot of work and investment, and it’s not quite as straightforward as how I set it out, but I feel as if it’s a reasonable response which allows some migrants but not uncontrolled.

at the moment it feels as though both sides of the coin are offering very extreme solutions either way, and I feel as though someone needs to offer a more reasonable and middle way approach.

I am interested to hear others opinions on this, and if you disagree, what would you do instead?

OP posts:
SunnyRedSnail · 07/05/2026 14:53

@stateofthem I agree our current system is ludicrous.

We already have legal immigration routes for refugees (e.g. ARP), which involve a scheme from the country that they are unsafe in.

We then have other migrant routes e.g. student visas, working visas etc...

THESE should be the only routes for immigration. Anyone entering the UK via other means should be deported or imprisoned.

Also, those on migration schemes for work/studying should speak a good level of English. Anyone applying for permanent residency should have to pass and English language test (including spouses).

(There are far too many people in the UK that have lived here a long time that speak very little English - the same should also apply to English people wanting to live abroad - learn the language!!).

As for benefits, they should be available for those who contribute to our society regardless of nationality. If you've paid in, then you should be able to claim.

A friend of mine moved to Australia a few years ago and he has T1 diabetes, so had to jump through lots of hoops to prove that his medical condition would not cost the country money. He worked in engineering so had a skill the country wanted. Australia has the right idea.

womendeserveequalhumanrights · 07/05/2026 14:52

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:41

Well, this is my point. A route without being here should be put in place. Those saying “deport people coming here illegally” don’t seem to realise that at the moment it is necessary to travel here to claim asylum

The fact you need to be on British soil means that those most vulnerable and in need of asylum can't get it. E.g. women in Afghanistan under the Taliban. It means we're completely disproportionately overwhelmed with a wave of fit young men - such an imbalance is never going to be good for society.

5MinuteArgument · 07/05/2026 14:52

Augustus40 · 07/05/2026 14:49

As more people are dying than being born in the UK we really do need immigration.

It helps the economy.

Anybody who does not agree with this is either racist or ill informed.

We have nearly a million NEETs, rising unemployment, thousands of graduates and older people who are struggling to find work, skyrocketing rents and housing costs, reduced wealth per capita.

Sarah2891 · 07/05/2026 14:51

Blimms · 07/05/2026 14:10

Who is ‘we’, I’d happily welcome Afghan women.

Me too. That poster certainly doesn't speak for everyone.

Planesmistakenforstars · 07/05/2026 14:51

I'd like to see employing anyone staying illegally made very difficult, and ditto getting work if you're here illegally. ID cards, and temporary work permits for those claiming asylum. Punitive fines/business closures for those who employ without these, and increased funding for checks and policing of this.

5MinuteArgument · 07/05/2026 14:50

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:41

I'm not being funny but care work is hard work. I know i personally couldn't do it.

I agree we need to look at overall wage rises in the UK in line with COL but most people on benefits who don't work at all are on benefits due to long term illness/disability which isn't going to change or be suitable for the likes of care work, or they have much more complex needs going on in the background. There are plenty of services out there to get local people into employment and off benefits or reduced benefits but it's highly complex in most cases. If it was an easy solve it would have been done already.

So if its hard work ... we must get immigrants to do it (which is the same idea as Zack Polanski came out with, he didn't want to wipe bums for a living).

The reason that's its not solved is because there is no will to solve it. There's a lot of vested interests in the current dysfunctional system. Employers looking for cheap labour, politicians looking for votes, unscrupulous landlords, criminals and lawyers on a never ending gravy train.

Augustus40 · 07/05/2026 14:49

As more people are dying than being born in the UK we really do need immigration.

It helps the economy.

Anybody who does not agree with this is either racist or ill informed.

Fluffypuppy1 · 07/05/2026 14:45

CricketOTR · 07/05/2026 13:56

I don’t think anyone has mentioned student visas yet? So many people have come here on a student visa, brought a large number of dependents with them, and then never gone home. Some universities are making a very nice profit from this and providing courses of dubious value.

Yes, some of them are contributors to our society but many are not, and have brought their backward ideologies to this country and expect us to provide healthcare to their families and schooling for their children. We do not need these people; they are certainly not all engineers, doctors, and scientists as many politicians will have you believe!

This.

Apparently 406,824 student visas and 19,647 dependants just for 2025. Also around 15,000 students claimed asylum last year.

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:45

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 14:38

Look at the result, protect our women.

My favourite thing about the ridiculousness of this argument was the recent rioting for 'women's safety' in our area was carried out by a load of local men - almost half of whom had convictions for violence against women.

All of the young asylum seeking men I work with are concerned for the welfare of women and are trying to get their female relatives out of an oppressive regime because they are trying to get away from the same extremism that creates violence towards women.

I also think it's highly ironic that you'd say you care about women when what you mean is white local women given that a few minutes ago you said you'd oppose safe passage for women and girls fleeing violence. And therein lies the rub.

EarthlyNightshade · 07/05/2026 14:45

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 13:42

But we don't want them here.

Who is "we"?

I want people genuinely seeking asylum from war torn/difficult environments in their home countries to be able to come here to work and contribute to society.

So I agree with the OP that there should be a safe way of seeking asylum without getting on a boat. Once that exists, then I would say asylum never granted if you enter the country illegally.

TheFatRat · 07/05/2026 14:44

What do you consider a 'proper channel' to apply for asylum. Do you mean use agents because we can see how that would be abused. Or do you open up 'Apply for Britain' centres in selected countries around the world? The queues would be horrendous and how do we turn people away when we are filling up the country with those who are seen as eligible?

What about those we don't want as there are European courts who would overrule our decision to reject these people.

When a person is accepted, do we then have to accept their families or is it just the one person who is eligible? What do we do when they jump in a small boat anyway because we have rejected their 'proper channel' application?

The best thing to do is make the UK less attractive for illegal immigration by stating if you come illegally you will never set foot in the UK and take them offshore.

ChequerToRed · 07/05/2026 14:44

The biggest issue I can see is that we’re trying to apply national solutions to what is an international problem. Much of the current convention was brought in not long after WW2, and the world is not the same place it was then. The UN and its various arms are in desperate need to reform; some areas need strengthening, some need scrapping altogether or replacing in a different form. As it stands at the moment you can have a UN special rapporteur telling a developed country with good human rights that they’re dreadfully beastly for not doing something that benefits said rapporteurs personal hobby horse, while on the flip side whole UN special councils on things such as women rights are being headed by appallingly misogynistic countries just because it’s their turn. It’s a shitshow.
Back in the late 40s/early 50s economic migration was much smaller scale because travel was far more expensive and wasn’t as easy, communications likewise. Those fleeing were more likely to be whole family units or women with children, not the influx of majority young men we see now.
Tinkering at the edges won’t solve the problem, the whole international asylum system needs completely rebuilding from the bottom up and based on pure pragmatism, not the regressive ‘blood and soil’ nationalism nor the fluffy kum by yah Utopianism we’re currently plagued by.

5MinuteArgument · 07/05/2026 14:43

The whole thing has become a racket. I think the East European countries like Poland have got the measure of this. They don't accept asylum seekers or very very few, apart from temporary refuge to Ukrainians.

We could support people through our foreign aid budget to work to improve their own countries. The current system doesn't help anyone, apart from lawyers, criminals and employers who want a bottomless pit of cheap labour.

ReallyOtter · 07/05/2026 14:41

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:36

There are also significant challenges for women who travel with men to integrate. They are also more vulnerable to domestic abuse, find access to services less accessible and are more at risk of being siphoned into exploitation and trafficking.

Of course that's not going to apply to all asylum seeking women and of course there will be many men who are fabulous, caring husbands. But there are specific vulnerabilities that apply to asylum seeking women that are more complex.

I didn't say that other pathways shouldn't be available, just that some women centric pathways should be available. It's much harder for women to safely travel, there are flaws with the family reunification process and its lengthy. Plus we know for some women they're at significant risk in their native country while waiting for reunification which is a time limited process. I work with women seeking asylum and all of them at some point have experienced very significant abuse and trauma along the way because they needed to leave but had no safe way to do so. This also happens to many men, but it's noticibly worse/ more common for women. So I do think there's a need there. The current system means separating them anyway as young men often travel first due to these very risks. The young women who I work with who have travelled alone have benefitted from making support networks quickly because as you say, it's difficult for them. Many are also highly motivated for education and training because they weren't previously able to access that in their home countries so I think it's right to take as many barriers away from them making those connections as possible. It also opens safer passage for women and children who maybe don't have a male relative fit to accompany them or go ahead without them.

The point of promoting integration at point of arrival is more about supporting women to get on their feet and have support which gives security than just being here in a hostile system on benefits. We know that doesn't work for people and is usually very detrimental for mental health. All of the asylum seekers I work with are incredibly frustrated that they can't work and we know there are issues with siloed social networks.

I do not approve of replacing Bad sex segregation by the Taliban with Good sex segregation by the Brits.

Brown men are demonised and brown women are patronised.

Maybe more British men will get Afghan wives, sex workers, or cleaners if the men do not come?

Please, have some respect.

Boys may be gay, autistic, proto feminist allies, or all sorts. They deserve to travel with their mums.

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:41

5MinuteArgument · 07/05/2026 14:26

But the immigrants providing the care are not necessarily caring and compassionate. They are usually coming from countries where there are no out of work benefits so their choice is either to work or starve.

I think it would be better if we invested in care work, improved wages and conditions and supported Brits to do the work. If you factored in the saving on welfare, it might even be cost effective.

I'm not being funny but care work is hard work. I know i personally couldn't do it.

I agree we need to look at overall wage rises in the UK in line with COL but most people on benefits who don't work at all are on benefits due to long term illness/disability which isn't going to change or be suitable for the likes of care work, or they have much more complex needs going on in the background. There are plenty of services out there to get local people into employment and off benefits or reduced benefits but it's highly complex in most cases. If it was an easy solve it would have been done already.

EasternStandard · 07/05/2026 14:41

bigboykitty · 07/05/2026 14:40

As caused by Brexit.

Lorries were pre Brexit. 2002 was particularly high.

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 07/05/2026 14:41

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 14:38

Look at the result, protect our women.

There is no credible evidence the refugees are more of a threat to women than British men, and a HUGE amount to evidence to show that refugees are victims of crime far more than perpetrators.

bigboykitty · 07/05/2026 14:40

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 13:23

If you come over on a boat or back of a lorry.

As caused by Brexit.

DisappearingGirl · 07/05/2026 14:40

I think this is an interesting thread and one thing it shows is that there are no easy answers.

Neither the Tories nor Labour have been able to easily solve this issue, and Reform won't be able to either.

Not that we shouldn't try to think of innovative solutions. But Reform and their supporters seem to think just shouting "Stop the boats" will solve the issue, when it won't.

Sophiehoney · 07/05/2026 14:39

I'd make it safer and easier, that's what I'd do.

All welcome, it's a free world. Borders are imaginary lines 🤗

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 07/05/2026 14:38

DeedlessIndeed · 07/05/2026 14:26

I worked in the asylum system for 6 eye-opening years.

The biggest area of reform are the asylum courts and lawyers.

Lawyers want cases to appeal as they will get twice the pay. Small aspects of evidence is regularly withheld in order for it to be then provided and an appeal based on.

Appeals courts overturn the majority of negative decisions. Appeals clog up the courts so everyone waits too long. That doesn't seem like a system that is working.

Interpreters that work for the lawyers are not professional. I have heard recordered calls with interpreters where the interpreter is adding their own information.

And then when someone gets a negative decision they have all support removed but were rarely detained or deported. Just left to sofa surf or put in a new claim or enter the grey/black economy.

Lastly, most people I worked with worked illegally in some capacity (nail bar/car wash/ deliveroo/ even sex work). If asylum seekers were allowed to work legally many of them would - and pay tax. They do in germany and other countries.

Also brexit needs to be undone. When we could no longer access european data on asylum we lost the ability to see that Mr X had applied and been refused in Germany and should be deported. That was a quick way to deport people who were serial applicants.

Really helpful insight. Thank you.

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 14:38

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 07/05/2026 14:37

YOU don't want them. I think that any country that wants to think of itself as civilised should welcome and support refugees.

Look at the result, protect our women.

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 07/05/2026 14:37

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 13:59

We don't want them full stop.

YOU don't want them. I think that any country that wants to think of itself as civilised should welcome and support refugees.

Lavender14 · 07/05/2026 14:36

ReallyOtter · 07/05/2026 14:18

This sounds terrible. Who among us would want to travel on those terms? It is swapping one oppression for another.

You know there are some loving and supportive Afghan men, right?

I witness so much bullying of brown women and physical attacks on their businesses in my city. Why isolate them from loved ones?

There are also significant challenges for women who travel with men to integrate. They are also more vulnerable to domestic abuse, find access to services less accessible and are more at risk of being siphoned into exploitation and trafficking.

Of course that's not going to apply to all asylum seeking women and of course there will be many men who are fabulous, caring husbands. But there are specific vulnerabilities that apply to asylum seeking women that are more complex.

I didn't say that other pathways shouldn't be available, just that some women centric pathways should be available. It's much harder for women to safely travel, there are flaws with the family reunification process and its lengthy. Plus we know for some women they're at significant risk in their native country while waiting for reunification which is a time limited process. I work with women seeking asylum and all of them at some point have experienced very significant abuse and trauma along the way because they needed to leave but had no safe way to do so. This also happens to many men, but it's noticibly worse/ more common for women. So I do think there's a need there. The current system means separating them anyway as young men often travel first due to these very risks. The young women who I work with who have travelled alone have benefitted from making support networks quickly because as you say, it's difficult for them. Many are also highly motivated for education and training because they weren't previously able to access that in their home countries so I think it's right to take as many barriers away from them making those connections as possible. It also opens safer passage for women and children who maybe don't have a male relative fit to accompany them or go ahead without them.

The point of promoting integration at point of arrival is more about supporting women to get on their feet and have support which gives security than just being here in a hostile system on benefits. We know that doesn't work for people and is usually very detrimental for mental health. All of the asylum seekers I work with are incredibly frustrated that they can't work and we know there are issues with siloed social networks.

Ponderingwindow · 07/05/2026 14:36

I would focus enforcement on employers who hire people without authorization to work. The employers don’t have any incentive to take risk beyond profit. People will be less likely to enter or stay illegally if they can’t find work.

for people trying to do things properly, streamline the process. I’ve known people who did everything right and had highly paid corporately sponsored immigration attorneys working on their behalf lose their legal status because of delays that were in no way their fault. They did every renewal as soon as possible and every form was filled out perfectly, but their packet just sat in the bottom of a pile past their expiration date.