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What would you do about immigration?

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stateofthem · 07/05/2026 12:59

I’ve seen an awful lot of political posts here recently, generally displeased with labour (other policies are for a separate thread) and taking hard stances on immigration.

I often feel as though people have a very blinkered view on immigration which does sway the argument. It seems to be either “let everyone in” or “let no one in” as such.

One point I wish to make is that currently you must be in the UK to be able to make an asylum claim. This (in my opinion) is the biggest factor in small boats/mass migration.

If I were in charge I would propose the following:

Re-implement the ability to seek asylum from abroad via one safe legal channel. Enforce that applications must be made via this route (obviously with concessions for no internet, poor English etc).

Applications are reviewed on a case by case basis, and if rejected, a person is placed onto a register explaining the reason for rejection (and possibly a timescale of when they could reapply).

Anyone who does not follow this channel is returned to their country of origin.

Anyone who arrives having not followed this policy is returned to their country of origin.

I appreciate that the above would need a lot of work and investment, and it’s not quite as straightforward as how I set it out, but I feel as if it’s a reasonable response which allows some migrants but not uncontrolled.

at the moment it feels as though both sides of the coin are offering very extreme solutions either way, and I feel as though someone needs to offer a more reasonable and middle way approach.

I am interested to hear others opinions on this, and if you disagree, what would you do instead?

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CricketOTR · 07/05/2026 13:56

I don’t think anyone has mentioned student visas yet? So many people have come here on a student visa, brought a large number of dependents with them, and then never gone home. Some universities are making a very nice profit from this and providing courses of dubious value.

Yes, some of them are contributors to our society but many are not, and have brought their backward ideologies to this country and expect us to provide healthcare to their families and schooling for their children. We do not need these people; they are certainly not all engineers, doctors, and scientists as many politicians will have you believe!

MidnightMeltdown · 07/05/2026 13:55

titchy · 07/05/2026 13:51

Indeed.

The ability to claim asylum from France would be enormously beneficial though - no need to pay £££ to criminals to risk your life in an inflatable. UK pays for France to build and run an asylum centre with the guarantee that anyone applying will have a fast-track decision in four weeks, and if required a fast-track appeal in six weeks.

They don’t claim in France because France doesn’t accept them. The number of applications that are successful in France is tiny compared to the UK. Often they will have tried their luck and been turned down by multiple other countries before arriving in soft touch UK.

Sunglade · 07/05/2026 13:53

We can um and ah about the different forms of and levels of immigration but the fundamental problem that underpins it is the rich want to keep the numbers of passive consumers/economically inactive high to push up the cost of rent/house prices/ everything else. It massively benefits rich people to be able to turn on the poverty tap and keep it running, the they know the government will just pay for it..for now at least, god knows what will happen if we end up unable to afford it as it's only increasing.

Blimms · 07/05/2026 13:53

How would applying for asylum from another country reduce immigration? Those eligible would still come and those who are not would likely to come illegally (small boats, channel tunnel etc. )

titchy · 07/05/2026 13:53

myhorriblehands · 07/05/2026 13:49

Hold on are you telling me you’re not allowed to claim asylum until you’re actually here ? wtf ? Surely that’s the answer then to all these boats, change that fact!

Correct. There are three other routes: 1 if you’re from Ukraine, 2 Afghanistan and helped the UK there, and 3 Hong Kong.

Other than that - tough.

HoppityBun · 07/05/2026 13:51

What would I do? I would make sure that there is rock solid evidence about the figures. I don’t know on what basis immigration is said to be a problem. I’ve never seen figures, that are accepted, about how many people each year are immigrants, in what circumstances and where from. I don’t know how many people are asylum seekers and from where they come. I don’t know how many people are overstayers and I don’t know what problems this causes. Obviously I can guess, we all can do that, but that’s not good enough.

Above all, I don’t know, and I am mistrustful of people who tried to tell me, what problems immigration causes.

Very much of the debate seems to take as accepted fact the supposition the immigration causes problems. I just don’t know. I’m aware that there are stresses and strange in different parts of our different communities. Nevertheless, I’m not clear how much of all this is attributable to immigration and for what reasons.

Of course I accept that everyone has opinions about this. I’m used to living in places where there are large numbers of immigrant families, but many have been here for generations.

Leaving aside subjective views, what I need to know is how many and with what effect.

So that’s what I do.

titchy · 07/05/2026 13:51

bakewelltarty · 07/05/2026 13:38

There are no routes for immigrants to claim asylum until they have a foot on British soil. So the ‘send them back if they arrive by boat or in the back of a lorry’ doesn’t work. They have no other choice of getting in the country. Or do you mean we should not accept any asylum seekers at all? If so, let’s hope we are never in need of help and asylum from our neighbours.

Indeed.

The ability to claim asylum from France would be enormously beneficial though - no need to pay £££ to criminals to risk your life in an inflatable. UK pays for France to build and run an asylum centre with the guarantee that anyone applying will have a fast-track decision in four weeks, and if required a fast-track appeal in six weeks.

PerryMenopaws · 07/05/2026 13:51

I think many things.

The first is that the refugee system was designed as a temporary refuge for people from war and persecution - it was never intended for numbers to be so massive that they fundamentally changed the host nation, or for people who are just migrating for money.

The second is that I don't think anybody should move to a country and then behave ungratefully, or show hatred towards the country in which they're a guest.

The third is that I think migrants cannot bring negative ideas and beliefs with them. If they've left a country rife with misogyny or antisemitism, that should not be welcomed here.

The fourth is that I think a host country's citizens paying for hotels or council houses or benefits fir migrants is objectively mad and completely unsustainable as a policy.

The fifth is that I think everyone can't just leave countries that lack things like democracy, human rights etc because then those countries never change or move forward.

The sixth is that I think America has a nice ideology where people can come from all over but that they want to be American. That's a sense of unity. Europe seems to be instead ashamed of its culture and invites sectarianism.

The seventh is that I think Britain has become so fractured because people don't have shared ideals or feel like they're on the same team - mass migration is partly responsible.

I say these things as a mixed race person who's grandma came here as a refugee. That said, she wasn't given a council house or benefits and she became very British. That doesn't mean she gave up her own culture, religion, cooking, customs - it just means she felt lucky to be BRITISH and was a massive patriot.

It's not racist or mean or bigoted or any of those things for people to want their home country to be generally safe, generally in alignment with its own identity, or for nationals to be prioritised over migrants.

I lived big parts of my life overseas and outside Europe that's the norm! Locals come first, ad if you're a guest, remember to behave yourself!

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:50

myhorriblehands · 07/05/2026 13:49

Hold on are you telling me you’re not allowed to claim asylum until you’re actually here ? wtf ? Surely that’s the answer then to all these boats, change that fact!

Yep! That’s the current process! So many people don’t realise this, and this is a huge part of the reason people use small boats etc etc

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myhorriblehands · 07/05/2026 13:50

Winteriscoming80 · 07/05/2026 13:43

Definitely agree!

I agree to. I’m sick of our country being so soft, other countries don’t allow this kind of thing, so why do we?!

myhorriblehands · 07/05/2026 13:49

Hold on are you telling me you’re not allowed to claim asylum until you’re actually here ? wtf ? Surely that’s the answer then to all these boats, change that fact!

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:47

LadyHexham · 07/05/2026 13:42

I think anyone who arrives by unorthodox routes needs to be contained during processing as we have no idea who they are.

Then we need to speed up the system and not allow multiple appeals.

I agree the system needs to be streamlined and reorganised. As someone mentioned above, paying higher salaries and recruiting properly qualified people to conduct these roles is a start

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MidnightMeltdown · 07/05/2026 13:46

Have a look at what other more successful countries like Australia do. Turn back boats, off shore processing, not allowing them to stay on the mainland etc.

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:46

CricketOTR · 07/05/2026 13:42

This ⬆

I have name changed as this is outing, but a few years ago our son was working in the USA and met and married a US citizen. His company posted him back to London and the hoops he (and we) had to jump through to allow his wife to come with him were ridiculous, including a personal visit to us by a representative of the Home Office (I think) to make sure we had enough room for them to live with us and that we had enough income to support them both and were willing to do so.

He and his wife are both well-qualified professionals, he was employed and his wife works in a field where we had shortages at the time. It was utterly ridiculous. They have never taken a penny from the state and pay a lot of tax.

I have heard many similar stories from friends (my DH worked in an international industry so colleagues meeting and marrying spouses from other countries was not at all unusual).

We absolutely do not need to be importing people who are from countries where women have no rights, and people who will be a permanent cost to the taxpayer.

As to our citizens being allowed to not work, then I do agree everyone should contribute in some way if they are being supported by the state. Having parents who needed care, I do not want anyone looking after them who resents it, but heaven knows there is enough work that can be done without that; litter picking and cleaning up graffiti for a start!

If you get here via people smuggling, whether a boat or a lorry, then yes, into a detention centre and sent back to where you came from pdq; no wandering the streets getting up to no good or working in the black market. Fingerprinted and DNA tested if necessary so you can’t just keep coming back again and again for another go.

Too many politicians are willing to virtue signal on immigration, but they don’t tend to have to live with the consequences in their own back yard.

I appreciate that this (hopefully) isnt your point but I would say that I’d be very happy to welcome the women from the countries that you refer to. They are incredibly oppressed in the likes of Afghanistan and I for one would welcome women feeling that!

agree re the other points though! I’d get getting people going all kinds of manual efforts or charity work if they weren’t working

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Winteriscoming80 · 07/05/2026 13:43

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 13:19

If you come over here illegal, you are going to a detention center pending deportation.

No ifs no buts.

Definitely agree!

LadyHexham · 07/05/2026 13:42

I think anyone who arrives by unorthodox routes needs to be contained during processing as we have no idea who they are.

Then we need to speed up the system and not allow multiple appeals.

CricketOTR · 07/05/2026 13:42

SpringHasSprungTheGrassIsRiz · 07/05/2026 13:15

We also need serious improvement for legitimate immigration of the sort of highly skilled tax payer who benefits this country. I am working with a colleague who earns £80k+ a year, takes nothing in terms of benefits/NHS/schooling etc from this country and is being treated appallingly as she tried to extend her visa. According to the lawyer we are receiving advice from this is becoming the norm.

Ironically, it is quicker and easier (24 hours) for a new immigrant to apply to enter the country from abroad, but takes 18 weeks+ to extend a visa in this country.

The system really is entirely broken.

This ⬆

I have name changed as this is outing, but a few years ago our son was working in the USA and met and married a US citizen. His company posted him back to London and the hoops he (and we) had to jump through to allow his wife to come with him were ridiculous, including a personal visit to us by a representative of the Home Office (I think) to make sure we had enough room for them to live with us and that we had enough income to support them both and were willing to do so.

He and his wife are both well-qualified professionals, he was employed and his wife works in a field where we had shortages at the time. It was utterly ridiculous. They have never taken a penny from the state and pay a lot of tax.

I have heard many similar stories from friends (my DH worked in an international industry so colleagues meeting and marrying spouses from other countries was not at all unusual).

We absolutely do not need to be importing people who are from countries where women have no rights, and people who will be a permanent cost to the taxpayer.

As to our citizens being allowed to not work, then I do agree everyone should contribute in some way if they are being supported by the state. Having parents who needed care, I do not want anyone looking after them who resents it, but heaven knows there is enough work that can be done without that; litter picking and cleaning up graffiti for a start!

If you get here via people smuggling, whether a boat or a lorry, then yes, into a detention centre and sent back to where you came from pdq; no wandering the streets getting up to no good or working in the black market. Fingerprinted and DNA tested if necessary so you can’t just keep coming back again and again for another go.

Too many politicians are willing to virtue signal on immigration, but they don’t tend to have to live with the consequences in their own back yard.

coulditbeme2323 · 07/05/2026 13:42

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:41

Well, this is my point. A route without being here should be put in place. Those saying “deport people coming here illegally” don’t seem to realise that at the moment it is necessary to travel here to claim asylum

But we don't want them here.

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:41

bakewelltarty · 07/05/2026 13:38

There are no routes for immigrants to claim asylum until they have a foot on British soil. So the ‘send them back if they arrive by boat or in the back of a lorry’ doesn’t work. They have no other choice of getting in the country. Or do you mean we should not accept any asylum seekers at all? If so, let’s hope we are never in need of help and asylum from our neighbours.

Well, this is my point. A route without being here should be put in place. Those saying “deport people coming here illegally” don’t seem to realise that at the moment it is necessary to travel here to claim asylum

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bakewelltarty · 07/05/2026 13:38

There are no routes for immigrants to claim asylum until they have a foot on British soil. So the ‘send them back if they arrive by boat or in the back of a lorry’ doesn’t work. They have no other choice of getting in the country. Or do you mean we should not accept any asylum seekers at all? If so, let’s hope we are never in need of help and asylum from our neighbours.

Blimms · 07/05/2026 13:38

I’m not sure how well your plan would work though. Fewer than half of the people who come here illegally are granted asylum at the first stage. Those who know they will be refused may well still come here illegally. So how would your plan reduce number?

LadyHexham · 07/05/2026 13:33

First, clear the backlog.

Anyone who arrives undocumented and/or on a small boat or in the back of a lorry goes straight to a detention centre.

Anyone who breaks the law while waiting for a decision is deported (to their country of origin or maybe even France) and may not enter the country again.
They all know when they break the law.

stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:31

takealettermsjones · 07/05/2026 13:24

One thing the government could realistically do to improve the asylum system is pay caseworkers properly. It's a very stressful job and there are many other CS jobs at the same grade/pay with barely any stress at all, which means that people take caseworker jobs and then leave, either on level transfer or promotion, as soon as possible. It causes sky high attrition rates and huge amounts of time wasted on recruiting, onboarding, and training - often with little to no ROI. If the pay package was fair for the work you might actually get some skilled, experienced people staying and speed the process up a bit.

a very good point. There’s about a million things I could say in this country need proper investment, but no government is ever able to have the balls to do so.

Not to derail the thread, but I had a convo with a friend recently about finances. I said I’d rather have a 30% basic rate tax but have good public services (eg functioning nhs, public transport, schooling etc). Obviously it would take time and need a total overhaul for a lot of bureaucracy involved (particularly in the nhs) but overall life would then be better. Similar to Nordic models really. She was so shocked I had said this and couldn’t believe I was happy to pay more tax! I think we have a real greed issue in this country with no one wanting to pay for the things we want and need

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stateofthem · 07/05/2026 13:26

BeasKnee · 07/05/2026 13:22

If the aim is to reduce immigration, I don't see how having ways to seek asylum from abroad will do that. There are millions of people around the world in poverty, danger and being persecuted. Unless there was also a quota of people to take in via asylum every year then I can't imagine that would do anything but increase applications. I guess those asylum seekers wouldn't be here while the application is being looked at but let's be real, people who want immigration vastly reduced want fewer foreigners here full stop, regardless of whether they have been granted asylum or are waiting for their applications to be processed.

It would solve the problem of it being dangerous for the people on the boats and perhaps 'smash the gangs' to an extent but it wouldn't stop what seems like an irreversible public change of opinion against immigration.

True, I do see your point. Perhaps we would also need to put strict caps on asylum too, but this also poses its own problems.

I suppose I’m thinking from this perspective of “stop the boats” which I’m sure all sides of the argument can agree is not good, but I do see your point about general ill feel towards all immigrants

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takealettermsjones · 07/05/2026 13:24

One thing the government could realistically do to improve the asylum system is pay caseworkers properly. It's a very stressful job and there are many other CS jobs at the same grade/pay with barely any stress at all, which means that people take caseworker jobs and then leave, either on level transfer or promotion, as soon as possible. It causes sky high attrition rates and huge amounts of time wasted on recruiting, onboarding, and training - often with little to no ROI. If the pay package was fair for the work you might actually get some skilled, experienced people staying and speed the process up a bit.