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AIBU to still take the booked break after my sister's split?

28 replies

Weddinghoildaywoos · 23/04/2026 00:23

My sister was supposed to get married later this year but unfortunately the relationship has ended. She us absolutely heartbroken as you can imagine.

The wedding was due to take place in a hotel with some staying for the weekend etc. Due to the fact we have 3dc and one is considered seriously disabled. We with my sisters agreement booked a nice holiday let as staying in a hotel would've been a disaster.

It's already paid for in a nice location and we still planned on going down for a mini hoilday as leave etc already sorted.

My sister went mental and has now blocked me on everything.

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Heyhoherewego23 · 23/04/2026 00:29

Ask her, ‘I’m so sorry your relationship ended. As you can imagine, as we’ve paid in advance we’ll still be going away. We’d love it if you could join us, if not don’t worry. I’m here if you need me.

Ponderingwindow · 23/04/2026 00:29

You probably won’t be the only ones with reservations that will still be using them. People spent money and don’t want to see it go to waste.

your sister is going to need to spend that weekend grieving. What other people do shouldn’t bother her.

Heyhoherewego23 · 23/04/2026 00:26

Yeah, she is crazy. That is so awful, this can’t be the first time??