To tell DH to stop sulking after my jokey comment?

It’s a weird comment. You don’t talk about wanting to see your friend’s dick in front of your husband!

Yeah that’s a bit much even for a jokey couple. Bulge is just gross and quite specific.

like others have said it’s like your H saying he can’t wait to see the other woman’s vulva outline….

Your comment was gross, I’d be embarrassed to admit I’d said that

'90s laddettes are that way >>>

We have a pretty jokey relationship with our friends but I would never have said that 🤣 they’d all cringe and talk about me later. Was a bit weird op!!

Agree with this

Looking forward to seeing you in your Speedo’s - nit cringey but a harness joke

Referring to his bulge is just grim as fuck and that’s what makes it a line crossed from banter to gross.

A comparison would be DH telling a female friend he was looking forward to seeing her camel toe in her bikini bottoms

Yes I think the comment was insensitive and a bit pervy

Slightly odd comment, really.

Very inappropriate OP. I'm not surprised your "friends" booked a different hotel if that's the sort of comments you normally make about him. Your poor DH.

Jeez, we’ve known a couple for about 40 years and I can’t begin to imagine how plastered I’d have to be to make a comment about the husband’s penis bulge. I’m dying inside just thinking about it. In fact I feel a little sick.

Its the sort of comment, that if reversed, and if the OP made a thread about her husband saying this to a woman, would have hoards of posters telling the OP that 'I dont think I would be able to move past that'.

See also - he's showing you who he is/showing you how little he respects you

It's exactly the same. You said "bulge" referring to his penis.

Agree with your Dh, there’s jokey and then just inappropriate and awkward all round. What if your Dh said he was looking forward to seeing your bf’s minge in a bikini…I mean 😬

I think that was a bit cringey , you're married and that's your best friends husband. It's on the ick side . If you'd just mentioned the Speedos and left the bulge out of it would be quite funny between friends but you didn't, so it seems a bit too personal.

If he has said something about seeing someone’s breasts in their bikini, everyone on here would be baying for blood.

And why do people get with partners who have a totally different sense of humour! Being offended all the time must be exhausting

100% agree. If you’d just said “speedos” or whatever, it would’ve similar to bikini. But it’s the reference to “bulge” that is gross and beyond banter. I feel sorry for your DH and cringing for you and being so desperate that either you fancy your mate’s husband o lr being too try hard to be funny

Well I'd be shocked - very ''off''. So socially unacceptable.

It’s EXACTLY the same

I’d be fuming if my partner made an equivalent comment to a female friend. It’s embarrassing and disrespectful to your relationship.

Ew don’t be a creep.

Hmm. I am usually ok with male banter, and find myself in a definite minority on here.

However ..... had you said "disappointed not to see you in your budgie smugglers" or similar I couldn't see an issue if that's your relationship. But actually making direct reference to his penis i.e "the bulge" takes it a bit beyond what I am comfortable with.

I don’t think he’s being unreasonable. It would be like your DH saying to your friend that he’s looking forward to seeing her boobs in her bikini. It’s inappropriate & a bit sleazy. If another woman had posted that her husband had said that, there’d be uproar.

What you said was clearly a joke unless your friend does wear speedos?!

It’s exactly the same. You made a joke about seeing your best friends husbands penis bulge. So it is the same if your dh said he was looking forward to her boob bulge or fanny bulge 🤷🏻‍♀️ double standards much

Do you have a thing for the husband?