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AIBU to not understand the appeal of Wind the Bobbin up?

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Greengage1983 · 22/04/2026 12:33

As in the nursery rhyme. Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against the Wind the Bobbin up. It’s fine. I have fond memories of singing it myself as a child.

But. I have 2 young children, and we have now lived in 3 separate towns in different parts of the country, and attended dozens of different baby and toddler groups, library singalong sessions, nurseries etc. over the years, and it seems like there are loads of very old traditional nursery rhymes from my childhood (in the early 90s) that seem to have dropped off in popularity that I never hear anymore, which have been replaced by more modern songs, while Wind the Bobbin Up seems to appear at Every. Single. Session. Of Every. Single. Group. Why that song in particular? Do children even know what a bobbin is? Why not, say, Sing a Song of Sixpence, which I don’t think I’ve heard once at a group? Or ring a ring o’ roses - great fun to dance in a circle? Or oranges and lemons - exciting with the arches and the “chop off your head” bit. Or the Hokey Cokey, which was so much fun but I hardly ever hear these days? Can anyone explain what Wind the Bobbin Up has that other traditional nursery rhymes don’t? Also feel free to mention any nursery rhymes from your own childhood that you never hear anymore.

YABU - wind the bobbin up is better than other nursery rhymes and it’s perfectly understandable that it has stuck around when others have not. OR, I have not noticed this phenomenon.

YANBU - I have noticed this, and I don’t understand it either.

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BarnacleBeasley · 22/04/2026 12:43

We didn't have Wind the Bobbin Up when I was at playschool. But I think YABU because some of the alternatives you are suggesting are less suitable for non-mobile babies, who are a major target audience for these kinds of groups. They need to be at least 18 months to be able to dance round in a circle, and frankly my sensitive 4 year old is possibly only just ready for the hideous trauma of Oranges and Lemons. Whereas clapping and pointing at the ceiling are within the skillset of even quite small children.

However, my small DS was desperately trying to request Wheels on the Bus at the library singalong the other day and they didn't do it. Gutted.

I quite like Miss Polly Had A Dolly. DCs love the Hokey Cokey but I'm not sure why because I fucking hated it as a child.

HippeePrincess · 22/04/2026 12:39

I’d never even heard of wind the bobbin up til I had my second child who’s now 11, I wonder if it’s the actions that they like? Some of the longer songs and rhymes are tricky to remember the words to so I get why they aren’t singing some of your suggestions, equally ring of roses is about the plague and the other is weird as it’s about a load of churches in London and then beheading so perhaps a bit unsavoury for children to be singing a bit like rub a dub dub . But there are some simple more innocuous ones I’ve not heard in years like 1,2,3,4,5 once I caught a fish alive and I’m not sure why they don’t.