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AIBU to report toys left outside house blocking a narrow pavement?

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worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 20:22

I walk down a certain street very regularly to get to a certain place. The building I have to get to is at the end of this street and there are no other ways to access it. Outside this one house, there is constantly toys there free to a good home. I think it's lovely leaving toys out for people who may not be able to afford them, or just as a way of repurposing them so they don't immediately end up in landfill.

However, the toys are there constantly, and it's not just a few, either. It's about 3-4 boxes worth every other week, and the public path that they are left on is veeeery narrow. I was walking past today with the pram with my DD2 in it and a loose toy on the floor caused the pram to tip almost into the road before I caught it.

I knocked on the door and said to the man who answered that it's really lovely he's leaving these toys out for free, but would he mind putting them in his front garden as my pram had nearly jusut tipped into the road due to a loose toy on the floor. He said he can't put them in his front garden as it's really small and has a wall in front so no-one would see them, and that no-one else has complained about it so maybe just be a bit more careful going around it. I said I was careful but it's really hard to get past because the path is so narrow, then suggested maybe just leaving 1 box at a time so it's less of a hazard. He said he's not just leaving 1 box as he has no room in his house and wants them gone, then suggested I walk on the road (!) So I don't have to dodge them. I told him I won't be walking in the road with my daughter in the pram and he needs to do something about it and left it at that. For context, there is no path on the other side of the street.

Honestly I just feel a bit annoyed that I tried to address it politely and was met with a 'it's not my problem' attitude.

Aibu to report this as fly-tipping? I really don't want to as it would make me feel awful knowing they have kids and I'm reporting them and going to get them fined or whatever, and I know they're being generous by giving away the toys for free. I just feel I've already tried to address it and there's not much more I can otherwise do, and it's just generally getting annoying I'm ngl. I'm also weary that he is going to know that it was me who reported him, and I have to walk past this house pretty frequently.

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OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 20:34

I'd just watch your wheels as you go by then.

Because to be honest, by the time the council get round to paying a visit, the toys will be gone anyway.

This is an extremely short-term problem by the sound of it.

measuringtaep · 19/04/2026 20:34

Just walk past on the road. Job done. It’s not a busy street surely what with it being a dead end

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 20:33

It's a hazard. How is someone using a wheelchair supposed to get past, they won't be able to just move them.

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 20:33

LlynTegid · 19/04/2026 20:32

If they are not too heavy, move them and place them in the garden.

You know I might just do this

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worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 20:33

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 20:30

Well I've managed to get to 57 years of age without ever seeing a pram so much as tip slightly due to a toy on a pavement, let alone nearly tip into a road.

Can you walk on the opposite side?

As stated in OP there is no path on the other side of the road, so id have to walk in the road with my DD in the pram to get around it all. I could just spend my time picking up the loose ones everytime I go past but id really rather not tbh. I feel like that would be his responsibility. I've seen prams tip many times, my own used to tip frequently on a raised a pavement stone until it was finally fixed.

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LlynTegid · 19/04/2026 20:32

If they are not too heavy, move them and place them in the garden.

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 20:30

Jopo12 · 19/04/2026 20:28

Erm, I'm sure he's heard of charity shops! There are also places like baby banks and homeless charities that would come to collect from him. He is certainly lazy CF for dumping his stuff on the street.

Personally I would report him for fly tipping, because that is what he's doing.

I thought after leaving to say to him why doesnt he just take it to a charity shop. No doubt he wouldnt of been able to do that either. I mean if people can collect them then there really is no excuse. I do feel terrible because I know hes trying to do a nice thing, but his attitude towards me was so dismissive and careless i just feel a bit pissed off now tbh

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OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 20:30

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 20:28

Yeah I do feel reporting it is extreme, but im not sure what else to do. If you could see the path you would understand what im saying. Other people/kids who walk past play with the toys and then just dump them on the pavement so theyre just scattered everywhere at times. I think youre being petty by blaming my pram tbh lmao

Well I've managed to get to 57 years of age without ever seeing a pram so much as tip slightly due to a toy on a pavement, let alone nearly tip into a road.

Can you walk on the opposite side?

Jopo12 · 19/04/2026 20:28

Erm, I'm sure he's heard of charity shops! There are also places like baby banks and homeless charities that would come to collect from him. He is certainly lazy CF for dumping his stuff on the street.

Personally I would report him for fly tipping, because that is what he's doing.

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 20:28

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 20:25

Aibu to report this as fly-tipping?

Don't be so petty.

Unless they're ex toy shop owners, they're not going to have an endless amount of toys to give away so they won't be there forever.

Try as I might, I really cannot imagine some-one's pram nearly tipping because of a toy on the pavement.

I suggest you get it looked at.

Yeah I do feel reporting it is extreme, but im not sure what else to do. If you could see the path you would understand what im saying. Other people/kids who walk past play with the toys and then just dump them on the pavement so theyre just scattered everywhere at times. I think youre being petty by blaming my pram tbh lmao

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OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 20:25

Aibu to report this as fly-tipping?

Don't be so petty.

Unless they're ex toy shop owners, they're not going to have an endless amount of toys to give away so they won't be there forever.

Try as I might, I really cannot imagine some-one's pram nearly tipping because of a toy on the pavement.

I suggest you get it looked at.