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AIBU to report toys left outside house blocking a narrow pavement?

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worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 20:22

I walk down a certain street very regularly to get to a certain place. The building I have to get to is at the end of this street and there are no other ways to access it. Outside this one house, there is constantly toys there free to a good home. I think it's lovely leaving toys out for people who may not be able to afford them, or just as a way of repurposing them so they don't immediately end up in landfill.

However, the toys are there constantly, and it's not just a few, either. It's about 3-4 boxes worth every other week, and the public path that they are left on is veeeery narrow. I was walking past today with the pram with my DD2 in it and a loose toy on the floor caused the pram to tip almost into the road before I caught it.

I knocked on the door and said to the man who answered that it's really lovely he's leaving these toys out for free, but would he mind putting them in his front garden as my pram had nearly jusut tipped into the road due to a loose toy on the floor. He said he can't put them in his front garden as it's really small and has a wall in front so no-one would see them, and that no-one else has complained about it so maybe just be a bit more careful going around it. I said I was careful but it's really hard to get past because the path is so narrow, then suggested maybe just leaving 1 box at a time so it's less of a hazard. He said he's not just leaving 1 box as he has no room in his house and wants them gone, then suggested I walk on the road (!) So I don't have to dodge them. I told him I won't be walking in the road with my daughter in the pram and he needs to do something about it and left it at that. For context, there is no path on the other side of the street.

Honestly I just feel a bit annoyed that I tried to address it politely and was met with a 'it's not my problem' attitude.

Aibu to report this as fly-tipping? I really don't want to as it would make me feel awful knowing they have kids and I'm reporting them and going to get them fined or whatever, and I know they're being generous by giving away the toys for free. I just feel I've already tried to address it and there's not much more I can otherwise do, and it's just generally getting annoying I'm ngl. I'm also weary that he is going to know that it was me who reported him, and I have to walk past this house pretty frequently.

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OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 22:11

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 22:07

I was the first person to mention a wheelchair, do keep up. It's obvious you only think about yourself. Any decent person could see that it's a hazard to a wheelchair user.

FFS why do you insist on talking about hazards and getting involve with MY post to the OP?

If you took your nose out for long enough, you'd see the conversation you're trying to make all about you, was about the OP saying a wheelchair could TIP OVER.

I replied that the OP was being silly.

No-one mentioned you or your bloody posts.

I'm sorry to break it to you.

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 22:09

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 22:01

Stop trying to boss people around as you've managed to make yourself look even more ridiculous now.

I was referring to the OP talking about wheelchairs tipping over, but you appeared to not realise that and now you're embarrassed.

Just get over it, mistakes happen 🤷‍♂️

No, that's you. You bossing other people and you looking ridiculous. It least I care about other people. You obviously don't

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 22:07

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 21:45

Do keep up 🙄

No-one invented anything.

The OP mentioned the prospect of a wheelchair tipping.

You then replied to MY response to the OP's post.

I was the first person to mention a wheelchair, do keep up. It's obvious you only think about yourself. Any decent person could see that it's a hazard to a wheelchair user.

ButterYellowHair · 19/04/2026 22:02

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:17

No, but you don't have to jump to more personal attacks, i.e calling me dramatic for having his stuff causing my pram to tip, saying someone who is small and sight impaired, of which I am both. Yet I can see fine with contacts, and despite being small, am perfectly strong and capable enough of controlling a pram. His stuff being a hazard scattered across the street has no reflection on me.

No reflection maybe but knowing you are both small and sight impaired does explain your post a bit more adding necessary context. With those qualifiers I can now see why the ‘tipping’ occurred and say yes your annoyance is valid.

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 22:01

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 21:57

I mentioned it being a hazard to wheelchairs long before you posted. Now just admit it's a hazard to wheelchairs

Stop trying to boss people around as you've managed to make yourself look even more ridiculous now.

I was referring to the OP talking about wheelchairs tipping over, but you appeared to not realise that and now you're embarrassed.

Just get over it, mistakes happen 🤷‍♂️

measuringtaep · 19/04/2026 21:58

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 20:53

I'm bothered about principle with everything, things just have meaning to me. If I think something is wrong, I have to say something. How does baiting strangers online make your day easier?

Baiting strangers?

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 21:57

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 21:45

Do keep up 🙄

No-one invented anything.

The OP mentioned the prospect of a wheelchair tipping.

You then replied to MY response to the OP's post.

I mentioned it being a hazard to wheelchairs long before you posted. Now just admit it's a hazard to wheelchairs

fashionqueen0123 · 19/04/2026 21:50

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:02

I agree, it's perfectly fine if it's on your own driveway/garden. If its all over the public pavement then it's just not ok. Maybe for a day or so but this has been going on for a while. I've never heard of it but will check now, thank you.

I use it all the time. Very easy to use

fashionqueen0123 · 19/04/2026 21:48

Where the hell is he getting that much from! Surely must run out soon?
id grab a box and pop it on his garden if I couldn’t get past.
and take another box and take it to the charity shops

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 21:45

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 21:33

And I pointed out further up the post that it's a hazard for wheel chair users. I didn't mention tipping, you invented that all by yourself. It is a hazard for wheelchair users. It's hard enough without idiots blocking your path. Maybe the nan in the OP should put some thought into his actions, it's not hard

Do keep up 🙄

No-one invented anything.

The OP mentioned the prospect of a wheelchair tipping.

You then replied to MY response to the OP's post.

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 21:33

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 21:27

Well quite.

However, my post was about the prospect of a wheelchair 'tipping' due to a toy on the pavement.

And I pointed out further up the post that it's a hazard for wheel chair users. I didn't mention tipping, you invented that all by yourself. It is a hazard for wheelchair users. It's hard enough without idiots blocking your path. Maybe the nan in the OP should put some thought into his actions, it's not hard

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 21:27

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 21:20

It would block wheelchairs completely. They carnt just go into the road, there needs to be a slope. Are they supposed to wheel the chair backwards to get to one? It's hard enough using a wheelchair and plan where the slopes are without idiots blocking the path. This is as bad as cars going up on the kerb and restricting access to the path .

Edited

Well quite.

However, my post was about the prospect of a wheelchair 'tipping' due to a toy on the pavement.

Laserwho · 19/04/2026 21:20

OhBumBags · 19/04/2026 21:04

Also the possibility of wheelchairs 'tipping' due to toys on a pavement 😳

It would block wheelchairs completely. They carnt just go into the road, there needs to be a slope. Are they supposed to wheel the chair backwards to get to one? It's hard enough using a wheelchair and plan where the slopes are without idiots blocking the path. This is as bad as cars going up on the kerb and restricting access to the path .

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:20

HelenaWilson · 19/04/2026 21:12

They wouldn't tip, it would just block them. Wheelchair users are very vigilant as to what is in their path.

So what is the wheelchair user then supposed to do? Sit there and wait until someone comes along to move the obstruction?

Gobsmacked at all the people telling op to just walk in the road with her pram. Why the hell should she?

OP, you shouldn't have to, but if there are loose toys scattered over the pavement, chuck them back into his garden.

Someone with sense, thank you. I think I will tbh his nonchalant response was just annoying

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worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:18

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 19/04/2026 21:13

Why should a pedestrian have to walk in the road because a dickhead thinks the pavement is his own personal charity shop?

Preach

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worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:17

ButterYellowHair · 19/04/2026 21:11

So you only want people to agree with you?

No, but you don't have to jump to more personal attacks, i.e calling me dramatic for having his stuff causing my pram to tip, saying someone who is small and sight impaired, of which I am both. Yet I can see fine with contacts, and despite being small, am perfectly strong and capable enough of controlling a pram. His stuff being a hazard scattered across the street has no reflection on me.

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AlcoholicAntibiotic · 19/04/2026 21:13

OhWise1 · 19/04/2026 20:58

You look over your shoulder to make sure no cars are coming and then step into the road to pass tge boxes tgen continue along the pavement.

Why should a pedestrian have to walk in the road because a dickhead thinks the pavement is his own personal charity shop?

HelenaWilson · 19/04/2026 21:12

They wouldn't tip, it would just block them. Wheelchair users are very vigilant as to what is in their path.

So what is the wheelchair user then supposed to do? Sit there and wait until someone comes along to move the obstruction?

Gobsmacked at all the people telling op to just walk in the road with her pram. Why the hell should she?

OP, you shouldn't have to, but if there are loose toys scattered over the pavement, chuck them back into his garden.

ButterYellowHair · 19/04/2026 21:11

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:10

I didn't ask you not to comment

So you only want people to agree with you?

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:10

ButterYellowHair · 19/04/2026 21:09

You ASKED for opinions

I didn't ask you not to comment

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ButterYellowHair · 19/04/2026 21:09

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:08

You would have done well to remember that before commenting the first time

You ASKED for opinions

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:09

NoYouCantComeToTheWedding · 19/04/2026 21:06

I second just shoving the boxes back into his garden. Every time. Bonus points if you can block his way in and out, then he might see how annoying it is.

Its a good idea tbh

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worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:08

ButterYellowHair · 19/04/2026 21:05

We have principles, they just differ from yours. Principles just means a fundamental foundation of belief… it doesn’t mean that foundation must align with yours.

You would have done well to remember that before commenting the first time

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NoYouCantComeToTheWedding · 19/04/2026 21:06

I second just shoving the boxes back into his garden. Every time. Bonus points if you can block his way in and out, then he might see how annoying it is.

worldshottestmom · 19/04/2026 21:06

Rainydays26 · 19/04/2026 20:46

Can't they go at the end of his path?

Apparently not

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