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Drinking on the Saturday night train?

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Trainbrainpain · 18/04/2026 23:42

Just took a train home. Absolutely crammed 3 hour journey north. It seems that Saturday night trains have just become a giant travelling pub. Loads of drunk stumbling men (football fans) with bags and bags of alcohol and takeaway food.
People vaping, playing music on speakers, shouting in the aisles , arguing, singing, and everything else you’d expect from a crowded pub on a Saturday night.
But really not a safe or pleasant situation for the families with young children , or people just wanting to travel in peace.
For the price of the ticket, aibu to expect a more regulated experience? I wish they’d ban alcohol consumption on trains.

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SwanRivers · 21/04/2026 22:11

I love a few train tinnies on a girls night out.

LlynTegid · 21/04/2026 22:09

If you are to ban alcohol then you need it not just to be on the trains. No sales on the stations for starters.

It might be less if more football matches were 3pm kick offs, which are now a rarity in the Premier League and fewer in other divisions. At least without early evening kick offs, many fans would have left in the early evening.

LoveYouPickle · 21/04/2026 22:06

ah ye olde vomit comet

CocoaTea · 21/04/2026 22:01

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/04/2026 12:03

Alright Nervous Nerris. It's never been like that in my experience. People are generally really kind to him, striking up conversation with him, even after a few drinks. Maybe especially after a few drinks. Most recent was a train packed to the rafters with Northampton rugby fans. Lovely people and very funny.

“Nervous Nerris”

So patronising.

Being in a confined space with drunk, loud, rowdy men chanting and shouting, not observing personal space - some of whom are likely coked up - who do not have ANY self awareness, consideration for others, or even think how it might be uncomfortable for the people around them and you write “Nervous Nerris”?

Was it you on my train? Because how can you be here defending such yobbish behaviour.

Trainbrainpain · 21/04/2026 21:54

5128gap · 21/04/2026 19:02

Why are you sneering at pp for being nervous, when clearly you're describing an altogether milder, safer and more wholesome journey than the ones being discussed on the thread? People are describing sexual harassment and violence, vomiting and urinating in the aisles. Not a jolly encounter with some mild mannered chaps behaving like gentlemen.

Precisely. This was not a happy atmosphere. It was volatile . Less happy chappy, more 2am kebab shop vibes.

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Missey85 · 21/04/2026 19:36

When you let people drink on the train that's what you get im in Australia and it's illegal here always has been

Yuasa · 21/04/2026 19:31

IveChangedMyMind · 20/04/2026 23:17

I don’t entirely disagree with you but I wouldn’t pick Lisbon as my utopia either. Endless stag parties and offered drugs more times than I ever have in the UK on both occasions I’ve been and I’m pretty sure I don’t look the type.

How depressing. I spent a month in Lisbon as a student many years ago and stag parties are not something I associate with my time there at all. I'm guessing this change just may have something to do with Lisbon's explosion in popularity with foreign tourists.

I'm sure many on here would think it's great that more and more cities outside the UK are getting to experience the fun of our drinking culture.

5128gap · 21/04/2026 19:02

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/04/2026 12:03

Alright Nervous Nerris. It's never been like that in my experience. People are generally really kind to him, striking up conversation with him, even after a few drinks. Maybe especially after a few drinks. Most recent was a train packed to the rafters with Northampton rugby fans. Lovely people and very funny.

Why are you sneering at pp for being nervous, when clearly you're describing an altogether milder, safer and more wholesome journey than the ones being discussed on the thread? People are describing sexual harassment and violence, vomiting and urinating in the aisles. Not a jolly encounter with some mild mannered chaps behaving like gentlemen.

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/04/2026 12:03

SleepingStandingUp · 20/04/2026 22:52

Which is lovely if the entertainment you chose for your primary aged child is profanity, the potential for violence and sexual harassment I guess 🙄🤨

Alright Nervous Nerris. It's never been like that in my experience. People are generally really kind to him, striking up conversation with him, even after a few drinks. Maybe especially after a few drinks. Most recent was a train packed to the rafters with Northampton rugby fans. Lovely people and very funny.

Growlybear83 · 21/04/2026 11:51

late night trains were just like this as far back as I can remember going back to the early 1970s. I wouldn’t expect any different if I chose a train on a Saturday night.

Trainbrainpain · 21/04/2026 11:40

Perhaps I’m not so relaxed about this because I lived for years in European countries where there wasn’t a real binge drinking culture , nor one of putting children away at 6pm. I really valued and miss the quality of life which allowed family meals late at night, or to use public services freely without having to worry about my safety as a female travelling alone. I don’t equate socialising with having to be heavily drunk, so I don’t understand the assumptions on this thread that because I don’t want to join in with a load of slobbering men , I must be unsociable? I just think if your intention is to get ridiculously drunk, go to a bar or club , and when you’ve finished, take the train home by all means, but without bringing your booze with you.

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IveChangedMyMind · 20/04/2026 23:17

NellieJean · 20/04/2026 12:05

This sort of thing has become normalised as evidenced by many of the comments on here. It shouldn’t be but trains and town centres have been surrendered to drunks. Was in Lisbon last year lots of people out and about late at night having a great time. No drunks, no violence, lovely safe atmosphere for everybody. We’ve lost it here and it’s never coming back.

I don’t entirely disagree with you but I wouldn’t pick Lisbon as my utopia either. Endless stag parties and offered drugs more times than I ever have in the UK on both occasions I’ve been and I’m pretty sure I don’t look the type.

Yuasa · 20/04/2026 23:04

NellieJean · 20/04/2026 12:05

This sort of thing has become normalised as evidenced by many of the comments on here. It shouldn’t be but trains and town centres have been surrendered to drunks. Was in Lisbon last year lots of people out and about late at night having a great time. No drunks, no violence, lovely safe atmosphere for everybody. We’ve lost it here and it’s never coming back.

Part of the reason I love holidays abroad is that you can go out late without dealing with antisocial behaviour. I don't want to be tucked up in bed at 9:30 because I want to be out myself - I just don't want to deal with screeching, yelling and threatening, intrusive behaviour.

The comments on here prove your last point. It's all seen as part of the 'fun', despite the fact it's fun that excludes a lot of us.

Having been humiliated and threatened by a group of drunk men on a train years ago, I'm not really seeing the 'jollity'.

SleepingStandingUp · 20/04/2026 22:55

ButterYellowHair · 20/04/2026 12:55

And when those conductors are harmed by the drunken louts shouting and being rowdy? What then? Banning alcohol at least removes some of the risk

Except it doesn't cos how do yo u think you'll enforce tvat ban? You'll need conductors on the train doors refusing entry to people or removing alcohol once on the train or removing people from the train

SleepingStandingUp · 20/04/2026 22:52

Ablondiebutagoody · 20/04/2026 12:02

I enjoy those trains. The sports fans have always amused my DS10.

Which is lovely if the entertainment you chose for your primary aged child is profanity, the potential for violence and sexual harassment I guess 🙄🤨

ButterYellowHair · 20/04/2026 12:55

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 20/04/2026 11:56

I don’t think it should be banned but I do think there should be a presence of conductors or similar on the train. Just do that people know it isn’t entirely “anything goes”. Someone with a direct quick line to police at the next station if anyone kicks off or is aggressive.

I think that’s the issue - the potential for people to turn aggressive and nothing you can do about it.

And when those conductors are harmed by the drunken louts shouting and being rowdy? What then? Banning alcohol at least removes some of the risk

NellieJean · 20/04/2026 12:05

This sort of thing has become normalised as evidenced by many of the comments on here. It shouldn’t be but trains and town centres have been surrendered to drunks. Was in Lisbon last year lots of people out and about late at night having a great time. No drunks, no violence, lovely safe atmosphere for everybody. We’ve lost it here and it’s never coming back.

Ablondiebutagoody · 20/04/2026 12:02

I enjoy those trains. The sports fans have always amused my DS10.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 20/04/2026 11:56

I don’t think it should be banned but I do think there should be a presence of conductors or similar on the train. Just do that people know it isn’t entirely “anything goes”. Someone with a direct quick line to police at the next station if anyone kicks off or is aggressive.

I think that’s the issue - the potential for people to turn aggressive and nothing you can do about it.

5128gap · 20/04/2026 11:47

DoubleShotEspressox · 19/04/2026 13:10

This is akin to all the people that visit London during the school holidays - who then take the 5.30pm train home with prams and numerous small kids and are incredulous that it’s packed.

Who would have thought it! People trying to get home from central London at rush hour.

Almost like a like train after football 🙄

No, it really isn't. I've never caught a train full of commuters shouting, swearing, forcing their unwanted attention on women, vomiting, using the vestibule as a urinal, playing their crappy music at top volume and bellowing raucous and often sexist/racist chants. People who moan about commuter trains being busy are unreasonably moaning about the existence of other people on the train. People moaning about the Saturday trains are reasonably complaining about the behaviour of other people on the train.

ButterYellowHair · 20/04/2026 11:17

I get it, it’s annoying. But the trains sell alcohol so it’s not banned. The vapes you should report as they can be arrested.

I no longer drink at all and it really highlights the issues this nation has with drunkenness and alcohol. It’s disgusting.

SleepingStandingUp · 20/04/2026 09:07

intrepidpanda · 19/04/2026 18:04

Banning alcohol is not the answer.
Banning prissy karens with kids might be.

So it's ok if my husband objects to drunkards swearing and shouting all over the train, stumbling about into tables, and middle aged drunk women coming on to young lads? But if women don't like it, we're the the problem?
. If you can't control your drinking, you are the problem. If you choose to be anti, you are the problem. See a theme?

SleepingStandingUp · 20/04/2026 09:05

Thefingerofblame · 19/04/2026 02:20

@Trainbrainpain well now you know, you can book an earlier train!

Let people, without kids - or night off from kids, have their fun!

Do remember a night-out when you were younger and without kids - what were you doing?

Yeah, I went to a bar or a club, I didn't expect public transport to be the party venue. Why should peopel have to cut short their plans cos you want to party on a train?

Yanbu op. I come back from Liverpool late o na Saturday occasionally and just accept that it's gonna be full of drunk men. It's normally good natured but it only takes ones idiot, and I'm quite good at ignoring it all with my head in a book. But then I'm mid 40s and overweight so I don't get hit on thank god. I wouldn't want to be 20 years younger and hotter and shyer.

But it isn't just Sat night. If we time our holiday wrong, the train to Chester Races is the same, any train even going TO the footie so any time of day is the same.

Just drink at home and then when you get there.

gannett · 20/04/2026 09:03

Love a party train EXCEPT when it's one with football fans.

So many fond memories of the Shoreditch to New Cross party line, and love to see that it's still the same now as the overground.

EmpressaurusKitty · 20/04/2026 08:59

Trainbrainpain · 20/04/2026 08:55

I was not travelling with kids fyi, many people were as it was 7pm so not particularly late.
otherwise, odd comment.

Very rude & misogynist comment.